How can people live so many hardships, how should I choose

You shouldn't complain about fate, everyone is an equal life, but your chance hasn't come yet, and if you want a better life, you can only rely on yourself.

Your family is like this now, I think you should go to work.

In the past, I saw that many parents were very miserable for their children to go to school, and someone came to donate money What is the money donated by that person Isn't it pitiful It's not respectable to live this kind of life, it's stupid It's not interesting You come out to work to help the family alleviate difficulties This is what it should be Although it's a pity to give up your studies But you have to survive before you can consider other things You can apply for a suspension from school and wait for the family situation to get better before going to school.

I think you can learn a specialty that makes you more money, and you can learn something.

If you don't study hard in school, and you can't let go of your parents, wouldn't you be even worse at reading?

Summary. In fact, there are not many tribulations, no matter what happens, just look away, what tribulations, will bring you new growth, not so much tribulation, we can think of this is to make us grow better, to be optimistic.

In fact, there is no more years of suffering, no matter what, it is good to look at it, what tribulation, will bring you a new Chengzheng brother, not so much tribulation, we can think of this to make us grow better, to be optimistic.

My child's hearing loss with hearing aids costs a lot of money, 9-year-old son, a child, the ability of the couple is not good, bone necrosis occurred in the first 2 years, **, my husband has been absent for a long time, I have a lot of work pressure, Liang is in the pharmacy, but the salary is not high, there is no licensed pharmacist, I lost my father at the age of 5, and I have a brother and sister-in-law, but the conditions are slightly better, envy is making me more comfortable, and my mother's body is not very good.

I have lived a worrying life since I was a child.

I got married and suffered a lot, and I was worried about my mother's loneliness and health.

What to do.

Fortunately, both parents have retirement salaries.

While your nine-year-old son is going to spend and. A lot of money, but he will grow up with a clever ruler, and it will definitely not be like this when he grows up, he will help you, Kihu, you don't want to put too much pressure on yourself, and you have to be optimistic, so that you can usher in a good life.

It costs a lot of money, which is the first sentence above.

I once read a book about Buddhism, I can't remember the name, and there is a sentence in it that says: The meaning of life is for the improvement of the level of life! Life is a process of non-stop reincarnation, just like the water and waves in the ocean, and the cycle of reincarnation one by one constitutes life, unless you can cultivate to Nirvana.

I don't understand, so that's it. It turns out that in samsara, we can't guarantee that we are all in the three good paths (human, heavenly, and asura paths) when the hail touches us, and we can't guarantee that our life forms are all humans, celestial beings, and asuras, and perhaps the reincarnation of more worlds is the three evil realms (animal paths, hungry ghost paths, hell paths), or all forms of ruthless beings (trees, mountain cliffs, etc.). This is not a shocking heard, I have traced my past life, one life was a tree from the last civilization, and the picture shown to me was a towering tree with a dense crowd of small ant-like humans bowing and praying for ......blessingsTherefore, if we understand the reincarnation of life, then the ultimate goal for us practitioners is to break the cycle of reincarnation, to jump out of the Three Realms, not to be in the Five Elements.

And before reaching this general goal, it is to keep yourself on the path of the three virtues, not to lose your human body, and to talk about the loss of your human life. Intensive cultivation and cultivation from the level of human life to the level of life of heavenly beings and then to the level of life of various arhats, Buddhas and Bodhisattvas. For our practitioners, it is an inevitable contradiction to live and seek both cultivation and livelihood.

Because we are not monks, we are not qualified to receive blessings from sentient beings, so we have to travel for food, clothing, shelter, and transportation, and even more so, we have to travel for the wealth and land of the Dharma companions who are cultivating, and accumulate merit and resources for our cultivation. There is no double law in the world, and it lives up to it!

Tribulation is the meaning of life, and the meaning of life is tribulation.

The meaning of being alive is, first of all, to be alive. Where there is life, there is hope. Only by living can we talk about meaning; Secondly, live well, live strongly, even if there are many hardships, you must learn to enjoy life in the midst of hardship; Third, live for your loved ones.

There are parents to support, children to raise, and relatives who are at ease and happy because of my existence, which is also the meaning of life; In the end, if it is possible, to make a contribution and go down in history, that is the meaning of living at a higher level.