What is the rule that women can t eat at the table?

It is a bad habit in feudal society that women are not allowed to eat at the table. After the founding of the People's Republic of China, this bad habit has long ceased to exist. Now we are a society where men and women are equal.

I think now we in China don't know anything about the customs and habits of ethnic minorities. This habit of the Han people has long been abolished.

It was the old society that women could not eat at the table, it was a society of slavery, and now it is the era of equality for all.

What is the rule that women can't eat at the table?What era is this? You can't eat at the table?

In the time of Henggu. Male and female matching. There are such.

Democracy. But now it's all a society. There are such rules.

It's not right. There should be equality between men and women.

It was an old-fashioned tradition that women could not eat at the table, but now it is a new society, and men and women are equal, and it should be the same.

Mainly the Northeast tradition, Shandong, Hebei, Henan, Jiangsu also exist to varying degrees.

What is the rule that women can't eat at the table?This one has been passed down from the old generation. Rules don't mean that the rules of any place are? What has been handed down from very old times has changed sometimes.

It was the contempt of feudal society for girls, now it is different, men and women are equal, etc.!

The bad habits of the old society used to be present in many places, but now they are much better.

It was the rule of the old society that women could not eat at the table.

Women can't eat at the table, it's the rule of my house" "This is my house, you go out".

How can there be such rules in the new society, they have long been abolished.

Generally speaking, the places where women can't eat at the table are remote and backward areas, and there is no culture, otherwise why would the Qing Dynasty still be so feudal?

According to statistics, some experts found that the phenomenon of "women cannot sit at the main table to eat" is concentrated in several provinces and cities such as Shandong, Hebei, Henan, Shanxi, Shaanxi, and Tianjin, among which the rural areas are the mainstay. (When I hit these provinces, I shivered, afraid that I would be said to be a black region.) And immediately some people jumped out and said that there is absolutely no such situation around me, some people really are, they don't exist if they haven't seen it, and they are the whole world around them.

This foul-smelling custom came about like this, seven-year-old men and women don't sit at the same table, and the old Kong Ding. In the past, they were poor, there was not much delicious food at home, and there were guests who came to definitely take delicious hospitality, but the family ate definitely not enough, and the hostess would lead the children not to the table, but also for the sake of their own face. Over time, it became a tradition.

There is no shortage of food now, but it is still customary for men to sit at the same table with men, and women and women at the same table when there are guests.

If you don't let you go to the table at your boyfriend's house for dinner, hurry up and go as far as you can. Don't expect him to be a man who is considerate of women and feels sorry for women. Thinking about it, he has not received an equal education for men and women since he was a child, and all he sees in his eyes are big men sitting on the table, and women hiding in the corner of the kitchen, how can he not take it for granted that you serve him and the size of a doll?

Hurry up and run, thank you for not marrying!

That's determined by the conditions of the family, firstly, the table is small and the stool is limited, so I let it be made for my son-in-law. This is the hospitality of the guests, and it does not mean that women cannot eat at the table. I remember watching a TV series when I was a child, and there were 5 daughters in this family, but when they went back to their parents' house, women were allowed to eat at the table, and sons-in-law were not allowed to eat at the table.

This shows that the fact that women cannot eat at the table is only an isolated phenomenon in ancient times.

Regarding eating at separate tables, in fact, many areas are like this, especially in the countryside, a table of drinking and stupidity, a table of non-drinking, a table of children, this is actually not divided according to gender, women can drink the same as a men's table, men do not drink, can also go to the women's table, and **, the girl also said that the meals are the same, the boy is also very good to himself, and the two of them are very happy.

In fact, the locals all know that it is mainly for the convenience of drinking, the frequency of men and women eating is not the same, and the topics of conversation are not the same, the men's table will be a longer banquet because of the problem of wine, and the women's table is because they basically do not drink, and they eat quickly.

Regarding the statement that some rural women are not allowed to eat at the table, in fact, it is not that they are not allowed to eat at the table, but the person who cooks the rice is busy with everything, and the guests have basically finished eating and leaving the table, only those who drink alcohol are still eating.

However, in many families in rural areas, women do the housework and men accompany the guests.

Seeing this, I remembered the mountain road sedan drivers in Chongqing before, originally they relied on this to make money, but if the customer sits, they will be turned into a sieve by cyberbullying!

Party A: Yes!

Party B: Yes!

Netizen: No!

People are happy, and the Internet is arguing!

The influence of the old people's patriarchal and feminine ideology. Because the head of the household represents the social image of the family, women and children are not allowed to sit at the table of the senior in formal settings, including when their own family entertains guests.

But that was in the past, in my family, in my father's time, that restraint had been broken. When I was outside, I sat down casually with my family, acquaintances, and friends, regardless of gender.

The men mostly drink alcohol, and the women and children only eat food. It would be economically scarce and had limited resources. If you don't wait for the end of the wait, I'm afraid you've already bottomed out. Going to a banquet is an opportunity to improve your meal. It is also rude behavior for the owner.

Compared to nowadays, people's most choices are that what I want to eat is becoming less and less. For the so-called banquet dinner, I have long lost interest, and it is not an exaggeration to even describe it as a change in color.

There are common topics among men and the same among women. Of course, behind closed doors, the husband and wife talked about it separately.

So we always like to be with people who have a common topic and talk and chat.