Why can t women eat in rural areas?

What men and women have to consider when they divide the table is the reason for customs, but this is like saying that men and women are not equal in disguise, if the boyfriend acquiesces to this behavior, the first thing to consider is whether he really has this kind of patriarchal idea in his heart, if there is an early split! In fact, there are many people eating at home, and it is normal to sit like this, and you will drink at one table, but not at one table. The life is lived by oneself, and you know your own warmth and coldness, and you don't have to listen to others after the table is divided.

The table is divided not according to gender, but according to whether or not to drink, if there are 10 people in the family, it is possible to eat at one table, and if there are 20 or 30 people in the family, what should I do? Do you still have to squeeze into a table? Now a table at home can accommodate more than 10 people at most, how can 30 people eat?

When there are many people, you must eat at separate tables, so how to eat? Drinking, non-drinking, smoking, non-smoking, talking about politics, football, housework, gossip entertainment, etc., let a man who drinks and smokes and a woman who talks about gossip and entertainment be together, can they eat and drink happily? 3. Don't make a big fuss and just eat at separate tables, the meals are all the same, there is no gender discrimination at all, don't simply look at the superficial phenomenon, if there are men who don't drink, they can also be separated from the men's table that drinks, and go to the women's table that doesn't drink; If there are women who drink to the men's table where they drink, it's okay, no problem.

In fact, this is the case in many areas, especially in the countryside, a table for drinking, a table for non-drinking, a table for children, this is actually not divided by gender, women can drink the same as a men's table, men don't drink, can also go to the women's table, and **, the girl also said, the meals are the same, the boy is also very good to himself, and the two are very happy.

In fact, the locals know that it is mainly for the convenience of drinking, the frequency of men and women eating is not the same, and the topics of conversation are not the same, the men's table will be longer because of the problem of wine, and the women's table is because they basically do not drink, and they eat quickly.

Regarding the statement that some rural women are not allowed to eat at the table, in fact, it is not that they are not allowed to eat at the table, but the person who cooks the rice is busy with everything, and the guests have basically finished eating and leaving the table, only those who drink alcohol are still eating.

However, in many families in rural areas, women do the housework and men accompany the guests.

I think this situation is relatively rare now, and girls will eat it. Those who eat at the same table will not not be served.

The reason why there is such a custom is actually because in the previous society, men were inferior to women, and the status of women was very low, and they had to rely on their in-laws or husbands to live. How could a person without the slightest status be allowed to eat at the table, because in the eyes of ancient people, women were used to serve their husbands and raise children, and they had no status at all. Cooking is what they should do, but eating at the table shouldn't be what they do.

In fact, to put it bluntly, it is because the status of women is relatively low, and at that time men were inferior to women, but now we will find that there are very few such situations, because these bad customs have been slowly changed, and everyone will find that the status of women has been improved, and we are now advocating equality between men and women. So anyone is entitled to sit at the table and eat, but if there are more guests and you are willing to give up your seat, that's another matter.

In fact, there are some cases because if there are guests in the house, then the host will be busy, especially the hostess, because at this time the task of cooking is basically handed over to them. You can't wait until all the dishes are completely cooked before everyone eats them, right? It must be a few dishes served and then the guests sit down to eat, and then you are busy in the kitchen.

By the time you're done, everyone else has basically eaten almost enough, so naturally they won't be on the table.

But a woman like this, she is generally more general, because she will think about the overall situation, but it doesn't mean that he can't eat at the table, if there are still people in the current society who don't let women eat at the table, then I think the customs of this place are worthy of condemnation. Anyway, I can't accept such a thing, if my boyfriend or future husband asks me to look like this, then I may even lift the table, I can't eat, you don't want to eat.

Generally speaking, the places where women can't eat at the table are remote and backward areas, and there is no culture, otherwise why would the Qing Dynasty still be so feudal?

According to statistics, some experts found that the phenomenon of "women cannot sit at the main table to eat" is concentrated in several provinces and cities such as Shandong, Hebei, Henan, Shanxi, Shaanxi, and Tianjin, among which the rural areas are the mainstay. (When I hit these provinces, I shivered, afraid that I would be said to be a black region.) And immediately some people jumped out and said that there is absolutely no such situation around me, some people really are, they don't exist if they haven't seen it, and they are the whole world around them.

This foul-smelling custom came about like this, seven-year-old men and women don't sit at the same table, and the old Kong Ding. In the past, they were poor, there was not much delicious food at home, and there were guests who came to definitely take delicious hospitality, but the family ate definitely not enough, and the hostess would lead the children not to the table, but also for the sake of their own face. Over time, it became a tradition.

There is no shortage of food now, but it is still customary for men to sit at the same table with men, and women and women at the same table when there are guests.

If you don't let you go to the table at your boyfriend's house for dinner, hurry up and go as far as you can. Don't expect him to be a man who is considerate of women and feels sorry for women. Thinking about it, he has not received an equal education for men and women since he was a child, and all he sees in his eyes are big men sitting on the table, and women hiding in the corner of the kitchen, how can he not take it for granted that you serve him and the size of a doll?

Hurry up and run, thank you for not marrying!

Mainly because some places are more feudal, and they think that women have a low status and therefore do not deserve to eat at the table.

Because some people still have feudal ideas and favor sons over women. They will think that women are slaves in the house, men are laborers, and women are not worthy to eat at the table.

Because rural people are very old-fashioned, especially men, most of them are patriarchal.

As a civilized person in the new era, of course, he cannot accept the dross left by this feudal system.

Regarding eating at separate tables, in fact, many areas are like this, especially in the countryside, a table for drinking, a table for non-drinking, and a table for children, this is actually not divided by gender, women can drink the same as a table with men, men who don't drink, can also go to the women's table, and **, the girl also said, the meals are the same, the boy is also very good to himself, and the two of them are very happy.

In fact, the locals all know that it is mainly for the convenience of drinking, the frequency of men and women eating is not the same, and the topics of conversation are not the same, the men's table will be longer because of the problem of wine, and the women's table is because they basically do not drink, and they eat quickly, when there are few people, men and women, young and old, just sit together directly, there are more people, and the table is divided to make it very convenient for both men and women to say that some rural women are not allowed to eat at the table, in fact, it is not that they are not allowed to go to the table, it is the person who cooks the rice, and everything is busy, and the guests have basically finished eating and leaving the table. Only those who drank were still eating, and at this time, they were smoked by the fumes and actually had no appetite, so they just ate something and sent it away, and the guests finished eating and began to clean up again.

However, in many families in rural areas, women take care of the housework, and men accompany the guests.

Why do you have to serve if you don't eat? Why can't a woman serve a meal? This issue is clearly discriminatory against women and unfair to women.