Some rural families come to the guest woman and cannot eat at the table, why is this?

This situation is rare in my hometown, our side is generally in more formal occasions, such as family gatherings or banquets, men and women generally have the habit of eating at separate tables, there is no factor that discriminates against women, but because men will smoke and drink when they sit together to eat, and women will appear inconvenient next to them, so it is generally women and children who sit together to eat, so that not only can take care of the children, but also do not have to endure some smoke and alcohol. Both men and women will eat more freely.

<> this is obviously a disdain for women, anyway, there is no such phenomenon in our hometown, unless there are too many guests in the house, and there are not so many people sitting at the table, and the women in their own family take the initiative to leave the place to the guests, and eat in the kitchen or standing around the table because of the existence of feudal ideas, which constitutes a phenomenon of inequality between men and women, and thinks that women on the table is a kind of impoliteness and disrespect to guests. When guests come to the house, female friends are busy in the kitchen, and guests can't stop eating, which is the idea of male superiority and inferiority of women in the past. Now women in the new era and new society are different, men and women are equal, and women can hold up half the sky!

In the common marriage in the countryside, a woman-dominated wine table will be arranged, which is actually a manifestation of progress. On the other hand, there is a strong sense of sophistication in rural areas, especially in weddings, funerals, festivals and New Year's holidays, there will be relatives walking around, in the old society under the general poverty, entertaining guests, there is good food to take care of the guests, so there is a tradition that women can not serve the table. In the era when the belly was barely filled, the particular guests would not eat the plate cleanly, and sometimes men drank and talked about things, and it was estimated that women would not serve the table if they did not drink, so as to avoid embarrassment.

Now, of course, women are emancipated. Conventional wisdom has also been broken. There aren't so many rules.

Now this phenomenon should be relatively rare, now women are the sky, what to eat out is decided by women, and when guests come to the house, men cook, right? In this era where you can have enough food and clothing without relying on men, you have the confidence to live.

Because in the past, women had a low status in the family, and they were considered to be people who would lose their own family if they couldn't get on the stage, and these bad habits in the countryside were naturally not allowed to serve women on the table if they were not corrected.

In many rural areas, women have a relatively low status, and when a guest comes, the male host chats with the guest, and the woman cannot interject, so when the guest comes, the woman cannot go to the table to eat.

As a civilized person in the new era, of course, he cannot accept the dross left by this feudal system.

What men and women have to consider when they divide the table is the reason for customs, but this is like saying that men and women are not equal in disguise, if the boyfriend acquiesces to this behavior, the first thing to consider is whether he really has this kind of patriarchal idea in his heart, if there is an early split! In fact, there are many people eating at home, and it is normal to sit like this, and you will drink at one table, but not at one table. The life is lived by oneself, and you know your own warmth and coldness, and you don't have to listen to others after the table is divided.

The table is divided not according to gender, but according to whether or not to drink, if there are 10 people in the family, it is possible to eat at one table, and if there are 20 or 30 people in the family, what should I do? Do you still have to squeeze into a table? Now a table at home can accommodate more than 10 people at most, how can 30 people eat?

When there are many people, you must eat at separate tables, so how to eat? Drinking, non-drinking, smoking, non-smoking, talking about politics, football, housework, gossip entertainment, etc., let a man who drinks and smokes and a woman who talks about gossip and entertainment be together, can they eat and drink happily? 3. Don't make a big fuss and just eat at separate tables, the meals are all the same, there is no gender discrimination at all, don't simply look at the superficial phenomenon, if there are men who don't drink, they can also be separated from the men's table that drinks, and go to the women's table that doesn't drink; If there are women who drink to the men's table where they drink, it's okay, no problem.

In fact, this is the case in many areas, especially in the countryside, a table for drinking, a table for non-drinking, a table for children, this is actually not divided by gender, women can drink the same as a men's table, men don't drink, can also go to the women's table, and **, the girl also said, the meals are the same, the boy is also very good to himself, and the two are very happy.

In fact, the locals know that it is mainly for the convenience of drinking, the frequency of men and women eating is not the same, and the topics of conversation are not the same, the men's table will be longer because of the problem of wine, and the women's table is because they basically do not drink, and they eat quickly.

Regarding the statement that some rural women are not allowed to eat at the table, in fact, it is not that they are not allowed to eat at the table, but the person who cooks the rice is busy with everything, and the guests have basically finished eating and leaving the table, only those who drink alcohol are still eating.

However, in many families in rural areas, women do the housework and men accompany the guests.

I think this situation is relatively rare now, and girls will eat it. Those who eat at the same table will not not be served.

Because rural people are very old-fashioned, especially men, most of them are patriarchal.

Because the countryside is very backward, the status of women is relatively low. Therefore, it is not allowed to be served at the table.

This is a bad habit, an inherent notion of male superiority and inferiority, and women can only eat in the kitchen. In addition, in a long time ago, when it was very poor, after the family had guests, if the women were allowed to serve the table, there would not be enough food.

Shandong guests do not allow women to eat at the table, is it a bad habit or tradition of preference for sons.

Because in the countryside, if you treat yourself easily, you will be told by others afterwards, and you still need to return the gifts you receive, and if you receive more gifts, it will also become a burden.

Of course, I know that some rural people will live a life by picking on the door, so they never treat guests easily. A treat must have something to ask for.

Maybe it's because they're too poor, and they don't want to work too hard, because they have to spend a lot of money on a treat, which is the only way to do it in the village, and they can't always treat them.

Because cooking at home is a very troublesome thing, and you have to clean up the house.