What should I do if my child is 10 years old and rebellious?

Your child's education is something you need to communicate and guide. Children's learning ability must be cultivated. It is very important for children to develop an independent learning ability.

With a certain ability to learn, then it is natural to go through the rebellious period.

Consciously cultivate and train concentration. Parents should try their best to eliminate the interference of the external environment and give their children a quiet and comfortable learning environment.

In addition, it is also necessary to consciously train the child's attention, make a learning plan for the child, let the child complete it according to the plan, and encourage and praise it in time if it is done well. Long-term training can help children improve their concentration.

Secondly, there is also specific training for reading comprehension, thinking and memory, and after training, there will be significant improvement in learning speed, slow comprehension, and inability to remember.

Let your child form a regular routine. Let him go to bed at the end of the day and get up at the end of the day, good living habits are developed from an early age. Nowadays, there are many children who do not sleep at night and have no energy during the day, so they do not have the energy to listen to classes in such a state of life.

Of course, attention can also be lost.

Don't put too much pressure on your child.

It is understandable that today's parents want their sons to become dragons and their daughters to become phoenixes, but if you put too much pressure on your child, it will make him rebellious, which is not conducive to the development of your child, so if you want your child to concentrate, you can't give him too much pressure and let him have ideological baggage.

If the learning ability is formed, then the child's future learning will not make parents worry more.

You should have expectations for her, our children will not cry if they are wrong, they will apologize to you directly, and our children are 16 years old, they have never been so willful, like this kind of dead children, the guidance methods are: 1. Parents should see the growth of their children, respect their children's self-esteem, establish a close and equal friend relationship with them, and allow children to participate in the management of the family. It is not a wise way to make decisions for your children, and being a parent who can let go appropriately will accelerate your child's growth.

2. Parents should believe that their children have the ability to deal with things independently, support them as much as possible, encourage and comfort them when they encounter difficulties and failures, and try to praise them if they succeed. 3. Parents should put down their elders and talk patiently with their children, because it has to be said that there will be some generation gap between parents and children, and parents do not understand their children's ideas, and children do not understand the practices of adults, so it is easy to get out of trouble. So sit down and talk patiently, so that each other is clear about each other's ideas, so that you will better understand each other's practices and avoid some unnecessary conflicts.

4. Everyone will go through this rebellious period, so parents must be considerate of their children. Let the child go well and walk the right course of life. Of course, keep it calm.

5. Observe more and learn the modern education model. Educating children is no longer about relying on fists, it is necessary to reform and recharge. With the knowledge of ideas, we can be good parents.

In fact, I don't agree with the word "rebellious period", why do you say that he is rebellious, to put it in layman's terms, he is disobedient.

First of all, if you suddenly change from obedient to disobedient, the parent should be happy, because he begins to have his own thoughts, his own thinking, he is thinking about why I always have to listen to you, and the feedback in action is not listening to you.

Then parents should reflect, why didn't they listen to me? Parents must be aggrieved in their hearts, don't I do everything for the good of the child, will I still harm him? As the saying goes, "Advice is against the ear", but I think that what can be listened to is advice, and what cannot be listened to is against the ear.

How can we find out why? Find a breakthrough from the things he cares about most in his "rebellious" incident. Do you have an experience that when you are completely disappointed in someone at something, or similar events accumulate to a critical value, you will resist everything about this person, so the breakthrough of things is this core event.

The breakthrough method is communication, no matter how old or small the child is, communication can help him understand you and the society better. How to communicate? There are too many communication skills, but the core is "understanding", communicating with him as an independent person, really putting yourself in his shoes, understanding his thoughts, affirming his thoughts, even if you think he is wrong or unrealistic.

Right, wrong are also supported. Because when he tells you what he thinks, he doesn't let you refute him, and if you take this opportunity to persuade him, the door to communication will be closed.

Of course, language support alone is not enough, but also to provide the best possible help, so that he can practice his ideas more deeply, or see the wider world, he will change, it may not be the direction you want, but it will definitely become better. I believe that people will grow.

Above, when the word "rebellious" comes to your mind, you need to tell yourself, "Honey, that's not rebellion, it's just that he doesn't think the same way as I do." ”

Children at this age have entered the rebellious period, and it will be better for parents to learn to get along with children in this period, to understand them more, to support them, to tolerate them, and to give them more space.

As parents, we must communicate with our children, consider problems from each other's point of view, and treat each other as friends, so that we can get along more happily.

Parents should be reasonable to their children, and they must set an example for their children, they must let their children develop a gentle character, and they must communicate with their children more to understand their children's ideas.

Parents can put themselves in their children's shoes, consider some issues from the child's point of view, and slowly make friends with the child, so that the child feels safe and will not be rebellious.

They need to be respected, which means that you have to communicate with him on an equal footing, and secondly, affirm some of his actions and ideas, and discuss them in a gentle tone.

It should all follow the child. Doing so will not lead to some of the more rebellious behavior.