In your opinion, what is the difference between a poor girl and a rich girl?

The main difference between poor and rich girls is that the same material wealth can give them different satisfactions. In order to "establish correct values" for their children in the process of their children's growth, many parents tend to overemphasize the importance of spiritual values, such as teaching children to be kind and hardworking, while ignoring the importance of material things.

As everyone knows, Cang Liao knows etiquette and knows honor and disgrace when he has enough food and clothing. The family gives you enough materials, not to hope that you compare with others, nor to hope that you think that these materials can be easily obtained and ignore labor, but to hope that you can spend more time on the things you are interested in, and do not need to hesitate for a livelihood like in the era of material poverty, when you are engaged in hobbies and hobbies to give you a sense of achievement, your personal happiness, temperament will naturally be improved. The lack of material often forces people to make a living, unable to devote themselves to hobbies, forming many shortcomings such as complaining about others, being moved when receiving a little benefit, and being jealous of others.

When I was a child, I thought that the rich girls were very domineering. When I grew up, I found that many rich girls know a lot, have rich experience, are very serious in their work, and are very rational in their choices, and they are better to get along with than poor girls. ps.The same is true for boys. <>

It is generally believed that what you lack when you are a teenager will care more about what you will care about when you grow up. Therefore, poor girls will grow up to be more greedy for material things, and girls who lack love will grow up to be more greedy for warmth. But the equation is a bit mechanical.

Human experiences are complex and changeable. Family education is not simply a matter of material or warmth. In the first ten years of adulthood, girls experience various things that may change their vision, logic and way of thinking.

Friend B said that because her sisters were wealthy since she was a child, although she was also very wealthy, she had a sense of crisis since she was a child. Friend A is an adult, and the little sisters around him are ordinary people, so he has not considered the importance of material wealth.

The formation of a personality is created by countless experiences and details. Sometimes it's not the poor or the rich per se, it's the comparison. Comparison creates a gap, the notion of scarcity or abundance.

There is an iron law in the luxury industry: the function of luxury goods is social distancing + value expression, which is hierarchy and contrast. The desire to buy is only after the desire for rank and class is aroused, so luxury does not resist insecurity and jealousy.

But emphasizing this contrast and difference is only a commercial measure. This is actually the anxiety of the current middle class. I want to coax parents to give more money.

The difference is that poor girls generally have a clear view of money and values. They don't spend money carelessly, but rich girls have no concept of money.

The mental state of girls is different, rich girls will be very rich in their inner world, they are also very confident, poor girls are sometimes easy to fall into inferiority.