I don t know how to balance which one should I love?

I've had a similar experience.

I don't think you like M, it's just that he treats you too well and you don't want to hurt him, and at the same time, you have also experienced the hurt of the person you like, so you don't have much confidence in your feelings, so you may think that maybe you will feel more secure by choosing someone like M.

However, don't distort your original intention, I believe you love your boyfriend, but I want to remind you that having an experience of being together does not mean that you will be together after experiencing many difficulties, maybe there will be other situations that will happen to you in the future, maybe it will be inevitable that you will still separate, and when the time comes, I think M will still be by your side to take care of you and care for you, but feelings are not gratitude or returns.

When you hesitate when you have lost and someone who is caring about you, it means that the position of M in your heart is not so important, otherwise you will not compare with someone who has broken your heart.

Now get along with your boyfriend. Then the future is up to the future.

This is what I say from my own experience, maybe not, I hope you think for yourself.

I don't think as a stranger I can give you too many useful words. But I think it's naïve for you not to shy away from suspicion in front of your boyfriend! Because you just want revenge, it's not love anymore, since that's the case.

Just divide him, don't procrastinate!

Choose someone who loves you.

M has long had thoughts about you, men are like this, typical silly women, your boyfriend is not very good, if he still cherishes you, you can follow him, I met you like this, in the whole thing I played the role of your boyfriend, after we broke up, my girlfriend was very good with a man, and after a while I was boyfriend and girlfriend for three days, and then I chased her back, we are fine now, you can see for yourself, if he will cherish you, you give him a chance, which m is not a good thing, This is a typical robbery while the fire is hot, and there is no pure friendship between men and women!!

Scarred feelings are difficult to heal, especially now that you also say that you don't trust your boyfriend anymore, I think you can think about it, such as why your boyfriend broke up with you, is it a change of heart or what, I think a man who has made his girlfriend sad for more than half a year really has nothing to be nostalgic for, I suggest choosing someone who loves you.

I have seen what others have summarized: whether you dump him or he dumps you, don't start over, there will be no good results. I haven't experienced it myself, but I believe there is some truth to it.

I think M is very good and personable, and in the end it is up to you to decide.

Balance? You love her so you are willing to pay for her, you just give everything At the end of the song, you only think about how much you give Have you thought about how much you have got?

In fact, you just need to have a clear conscience You can't ask others to be like you, as long as you have done this love, you should do it, even if the song ends up, I don't regret it If you can't do it with a clear conscience When the song ends and people are gone, you will regret it, just have a clear conscience.

Words can be expressed, it is from the heart, fall in love with a person your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), for him (her) care, I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him (her) all the time, you will be excited, your heart beats faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, truly love a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, Seeing that the person you love is happy, you will also be happy, and you will be troubled when you see him (her) troubled, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, and the real love of a person will want to grow old with him (her) and be in love with him (her), you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness.

Take your time Upgrading is a process.

There is no balance in the world, either you are too bad or she is not good enough.

Just cherish each other In our world, it is a sin to lose anyone.

Your problem, as said upstairs, is that there is no return for the effort, so it is unbalanced.

You have given love, but you don't get it, you have a sense of indebtedness, and you always feel that she should fall in love with you, so I firmly believe that she should be able to fall in love with you with your efforts.

What's unbalanced? paid, did what I should have done, and broke up because there was no fate. There are still girls waiting for you in front of you, why miss the beauty of tomorrow for the unpleasantness of yesterday?

If you miss it, you miss it, there's nothing unbalanced, I think what you balance is that your efforts are not rewarded, maybe you don't know if there will be a return, always think that if she falls in love with you, don't fantasize, be content with feelings. You like her, that's enough.

I don't think there's any need to forget.

First love is always the most memorable.

Think of the past as memories.

The dust is sealed. Keep your heart forever.

Asking others to help find a balance can only temporarily solve the psychological imbalance, only by constantly enriching and improving yourself, and making yourself confident, you will find that there is a good girl who is more suitable for you, and you will come out of the feeling of infatuation, after all, she is just a vulgar woman, and she also has her shortcomings.

It is recommended that you go with the flow in the face of feelings. Judging from the situation you described above, you are already sincere and attentive to her. That's fine, be careful to do it in moderation.

Don't lose yourself by loving someone. A long-term relationship is more rational and suitable for marriage. Be more patient, she also has a good impression of you, slowly develop your relationship, I believe you will be able to achieve positive results!

Good luck!

I think you'd better go with the flow in the face of feelings!! Because you may be sincere with her, but how does she feel about you? It's not clear yet, but you have to slowly develop your relationship through your efforts. Of course I wish you success!!

You can tell her what you think, etc., since she is also interested, then she must be very curious to know that you have her in your heart, and there are a lot of them. Maybe she wasn't very happy on the surface when she heard it, but I'm sure she was happy in her heart. It's true, and lovers eventually become married.

Dude, you really love her! I think she must be very happy when she knows, love doesn't need a reason, be brave to say it, be brave to bear it, she will definitely accept you slowly!

This thing is inherently unbalanced.

Confession, it's not very small

Happiness is to be able to play the symphony of pots and pans, and sing the song of the four seasons of firewood, rice, oil and salt.

Since the person you love also loves you, why did she give up, have you seriously thought about it? The best conclusions can only be drawn after careful consideration.

Sometimes, perseverance leads to happiness; But sometimes, giving up is also happiness.

Bless you!

Things are man-made, if you think that one thing is the truth, then keep doing it, he is the truth, it is right, if you retreat, doubt, then there is no result of the thing how to talk about right or wrong?

Hits sometimes have to happen, and hits don't force them all the time.

Humans love to fellowship because they are orangutans!

Career in love, love in career.

Both are indispensable, don't take them too seriously.

Love and career are not contradictory, you are not too nervous, you just need to do every step slowly.

Eun En, now you always pour all your love into him, as if he is a pole that stands very straight, you are the other pole that has been falling on him, and now you have to learn to stand up straight yourself, and he will fall to you, and if you can continue to have a relationship, he will definitely fall to you.

Thank you, give it points!

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