Seven year olds are tired of their dads?

1.Unprincipled harshness towards children.

People often say: "strict father and mother", which invisibly labels the father as harsh. There is nothing wrong with being strict with children, and some fathers are wrong because they are unprincipled and strict with their children.

The so-called unprincipled strictness means that no matter how big or small, the father strictly disciplines the child according to his own will, and the father's attitude towards the child is not the same when he is in a good mood. Some fathers say everything when they are in a good mood, as long as they are in a bad mood, even if the child makes a small mistake that is not a mistake, he will reprimand loudly, scold him harshly, and even use his hands on the child.

2.Life negatively affects the child.

The growth of children is inseparable from father's love and mother's love, father's love and mother's love are like the two wings of a bird for children, and the bird has to fly two wings as important, so in the process of children's growth, mother's love and father's love are the psychological needs of children, and both are indispensable. Compared with Mom, Dad has a more courageous, strong, independent, confident, and decisive personality. If the child does not receive enough love from his father in the process of growing up, especially in his early childhood, the child may lack some good personality and excellent moral character in the process of growing up.

In this sense, the intermittent absence of paternal love will be detrimental to the child's growth. With this realization, mothers panic when they find out that their children are not close to their fathers or hate their fathers.

1. Pay attention to privacy and like to have personal space.

After the age of 7, the child's self-awareness.

Stronger and stronger, pay attention to personal privacy, and hope to have a space that is not disturbed by parents. If parents still rummage through their children's school bags and diaries, children will feel that they are not respected, and they will have opinions and disgust with their parents.

2. Care about other people's evaluations.

Self-esteem of 7-year-olds.

Get stronger and stronger, pay attention to the evaluation of yourself by the people around you, and hope to be recognized by parents, teachers and classmates, at this time the child will appear more sensitive, pay attention to details, love to think about the bad everywhere, and sometimes be sentimental.

3. Love to talk back to parents.

By the age of 7, children are becoming more and more self-conscious, and they like to talk back to their parents and express their opinions in this way, rather than obeying everything.

Fourth, do things procrastinating.

At the age of 7, children prefer to be alone and often immersed in their inner world, so they are easy to forget, such as parents let him take out the garbage, often do not act for a long time, procrastinate in doing things, and give parents a headache.

How to deal with a seven-year-old?

1.Respect the child.

Parents should not make decisions for their children in everything, but should squat down and listen to their children's thoughts and communicate with them in a respectful manner.

2.Be patient with your child.

The child is still young and slow to react, so parents should be patient to look him in the eye and tell him seriously to make sure he hears you.

3.Enlighten your child.

A 7-year-old child is very sensitive, and some inadvertent behaviors of people around him may seem to him to be directed at him. Therefore, when the child sometimes says to the parents: "I think xx hates me", the parents will ask him "why do you say that", listen carefully to the child's voice, and slowly enlighten him.

Seven-year-old child, is a child in the rebellious stage, such as very tired of their father, must attract the attention of parents, we have to find the problem, for the problem, need to be patient and careful analysis, slowly to channel the child's boredom, do not avoid the problem, let alone strengthen or intensify the conflict, the work can be involved by a third party to assist in mediation, as an adult should use reason and methods to deal with these problems, I believe that it will get out of the predicament.

1.Give dad some chances.

In many families, it is the mother who is the only one who takes care of the child's life, and the father cannot interfere in the child's life, and gradually the child will lose the need for the father. Therefore, mothers should also leave more things and space for fathers for their children to get along with their fathers, and slowly establish a relationship with their children in these small things in life. Giving fathers more opportunities to take care of their children is not only conducive to the harmony of parent-child relationship, but also conducive to the growth of children, and will also help mothers reduce some of their burdens.

2.Treat your husband better.

Although the child is small, he is very smart and very sensitive to the relationship between his parents and his parents. Children spend a lot of time with their mothers, and if their mothers don't like their fathers, the children will favor their mothers and dislike their fathers with their mothers. Therefore, mothers should treat their husbands better.

The harmonious relationship between parents is conducive to the healthy growth of children and allows them to be a child with peace of mind.

3.Tell the child about the hard work and dedication of the father.

Due to the different division of labor in the family, the father earns money outside to support the family, and the mother will spend more time with the child than the father, and the child's intimacy with the father is naturally not as good as the mother. Dad is also giving for the family, but he can't get the child's liking, which is also unfair to the dad. Therefore, mothers can tell their children more about the hard work and dedication of their fathers working outside to make money to support their families, and establish a good image of their fathers in the children's psychology.

The healthy growth of children, but not the joint efforts of parents, children's happy childhood, also need the common maintenance of parents, if there is a problem in the relationship between father and child, parents can seriously reflect.

I think the child and the parents, a period of time close, a period of time may be far away, now the child is seven years old, is still in the rebellious period, or he has a lot of requirements, and the father may be the attitude of refusal, but also because of the young age, can not understand the suffering of the father, or can not understand the father's intentions, so it is inevitable to get tired of their father, as long as the education is good, know the hard work of the father for the family, let the child slowly understand the father, I believe that this boredom will become like.

Let me tell you, when a 7-year-old child hates his parents, it must be the problem of the parents, either the parents hurt the child before the age of 6, or they overindulge the child before the age of 6, so that it is revealed after the age of 7.

As for the 7-year-old girl who hates her father, then my analysis is likely that this father is too "cowardly", or too "cheap", the child's feeling is very pure and sensitive, she can hate her father, he is definitely not a father, it is impossible to be groundless.

Seven-year-olds are tired of their fathers, and in this case, a kind of childlike rebellious mentality is starting to play a role.

Explain that fathers are not doing their duty to their seven-year-old children, and should reflect on how they can take care of their children and make them like themselves.

I don't know anything at the age of seven, so why don't I like my dad? Isn't it true that mom doesn't like dad too? It's still the father who is very strict with the child.

As a parent, you should be loving and patient with your child, encourage your child, discover your child's strengths, and let your child grow up healthily in a harmonious and warm family environment.

This cannot be said to be boredom, most of the time, it is a manifestation of the child's pursuit of independence, a rebellious period of growth has come.

I suggest that the child's father should have time to read more books on how to raise children, give more company to the child, and increase the relationship between parents and children.

My family is in a similar situation to you, but he can cook, he basically doesn't care much about my school, it's not that I'm too young and ignorant, now I'm in college, there is a kind of father who will treat his child as his own accessory, and he will scold if he wants to beat, and my father also wants me to find a rich man, and then ask for the bride price, give the subject a more substantive suggestion, if the father does not give fatherly love and reasonable education, then legally he is just your legal relative, so for this kind of person, If you can hide far away, you can hide far away, go out to rent a house to live, work hard for your own career, don't let this kind of person ruin your childhood and then ruin your future and happiness for a lifetime, legally as long as you give money to do your obligations, don't do anything else, after all, good and evil will be rewarded in the end, and heaven is a good reincarnation.

We can't choose our parents, but we can choose our own behavior, we want to know the cause of the past life, the recipient of this life is, or talk about it from the heart, express their goals and ideals, the old people always hope that their children live a better life, of course, there are parents who feel that the children raised must listen to themselves, if necessary, you can change to a city to work, keep an appropriate distance, this is not impossible.

We don't interfere too much in the affairs of our parents' generation, as long as our mothers don't dislike it, and they have their tacit understanding and happiness.

==All of them are working, rent a house outside or find a job with a dormitory, don't you just do it, and you can't bear to go home on vacation to see how to help your mother do housework. It's not a child who can't be independent anymore = =

Don't do this to your father, when he is old, you will change your opinion, after all, you are pulled so big, the family conditions are not good, he also tried to change the family situation, but because of his low level of education and consciousness, there is no way to make money, all parents in the world will pin their hopes on their children, don't blame him, he just hopes that you are better, he doesn't have any bad intentions, it's not good for his mother, it's his business, as long as you are good to your mother, to make up for your father's love, your mother will be very pleased. Care more about your mother, and be considerate of your father's ......

Don't talk about those truths, did you help your mother do the housework, sweeping the floor and washing the dishes? Do you have a low salary? Are you trying to be positive?

Every time your dad talks to you, do you seriously talk to him about your thoughts? If you've done it all, then you should reflect on yourself, should girls be self-reliant? Should we resist the stress of life?

Your dad is still your dad like this, even if you dislike him. You might as well find a solution, try to find a job to impress him, and find a better boyfriend for yourself, instead of complaining about life. We're all not having a good time, but we have to keep ourselves alive and not get too tired.

First of all, I think you used the wrong words, how to use it disgusting, and then you have grown up after all, some of which you can decide for yourself, such as boyfriend, don't be influenced by your father, you can also choose to go home less, this is to escape, you can directly tell him how you feel, if not, you can also talk to your mother.

Life must be calm. Does your dad love you? If he loves you, then you should try to understand him.

If he doesn't love you, treat him as a stranger. But he's your dad after all, why would he be like this? You can try to change him, as long as he knows that you are his relative, he will be willing to be better for his relative.

Bystanders can't help you anything except say cool things, how to be, or it depends on yourself, only you are a witness, and you know best what to do.

This kind of thinking of yours is simply inhuman. If I were your parents, I would definitely give you a slap in the face. Your own parents raised you, how difficult it was for your mother to give birth to you, but you said that you hated your own parents, and none of us is qualified to say that.

You have to pat your own conscience and think about how you can say such a thing. Your parents are not your own or they are not good to you, no matter what you do, there is no parent who does not love your children, but you say that you hate them very much, so they will be very sad when they find out.

Your father and mother didn't raise you so much to make you hate them. Parents are parents after all, and you should respect them, even if they like to talk about you, you have to understand that everything they do is for your good. Put your mind at ease and accept your parents' opinions, after all, they won't hurt you.

To understand them, it is not easy for every parent. It is normal for children to have a generation gap with their parents. As long as you communicate well with them, everything will be explained clearly, and you can't say anything you hate your parents, and you must know how to respect your parents and be filial to your parents.

You should try to care about them, people will have a rebellious mentality, but rebellion does not mean that there is a reason to hate your parents, after all, your father and mother have raised you for so many years, how hard it is to raise a child from childhood to adulthood, how much patience is needed, think about how slowly they teach you from the time you were born, teach you to speak, teach you to walk, let you go to school, and train you. Parents will try their best to satisfy whatever they want. You have to understand your parents' plight and be considerate of them.

I have a classmate who is one of those who is particularly rebellious, and his parents don't listen to anything, and he looks impatient when he talks too much. Every week, I only know that when I want money, I call home**. The rest of the time, I don't say a word to my parents.

One time I went home with him, and his parents asked him what to eat and cooked for him. He actually replied to his parents that he should leave me alone, I could see that he had made his parents very embarrassed. I felt that he was very ignorant, how could he talk to his parents like this.

So I said Auntie, don't worry about it, we're not hungry yet, and then his mother said okay, then call Auntie when you're hungry, and Auntie will do it for you. I said okay. This eases the awkward atmosphere.

We always give our best temper to strangers and our worst temper to our own parents. In fact, life is really very difficult, when you leave your parents, you will find that you can't do anything without the protection of your parents, so none of us have the right to hate our parents. It may be that you don't understand what they're doing now, but what they want is definitely for your own good.

You must understand that it is not easy for your parents, and you can communicate with your parents if you are dissatisfied with your parents, but don't have the idea of hating your parents, others will say that you are stupid, it is simply wrong. You have to understand that your parents have put too much effort into us, and only your own parents are the best for you in the world.