Two people who once loved each other can t even be friends

Updated on psychology 2024-08-11
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    The most familiar stranger? It is precisely because we have loved each other, we have all paid, and we know each other too well! How to be a friend, who can guarantee that there will be no one between two people who still has love, and who can really joke about everything without thinking about friends!

    It's awkward to meet, isn't it? Not being friends is the best ending! It's the best way to forget that relationship!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    It may be because he or she still likes you, and when he sees you, he may remember your good memories and be afraid that he will be sad.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Because we still love each other, if we can still be friends, it means that you haven't really loved each other!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Because they have loved each other, they know each other very well, once acquaintances become strangers, they will be more alive than living people, if only the first time they see how good it is, people will change, and they will only become more and more strange.

    After the breakup, you will find that there is a transparent glass that separates you, you cannot enter his world again, and he will not be able to continue to appear in your life. The meeting was awkward, there used to be endless topics, but after the breakup, it became nothing to say, and I didn't even want to meet, not because of hatred, but because I didn't know what kind of identity to meet. How many people are unwilling to be friends after breaking up, those who choose to be friends after breaking up, they still love each other in their hearts, but they don't say it, and keep the only love left in the bottom of their hearts, where no one can touch it.

    If you can't blush when you meet again, can you cry and blush, and look at the person who once worked hard for you to become a person you can't reach, no matter how reluctant you are, you can't go back to the past.

    Love has changed, love has been broken, and after parting ways, it is difficult to be ordinary friends. The love of the past has gone with the wind and has become a thing of the past and a memory. I can only wave my hand, turn around in a dashing manner, and walk forward back to back.

    Afford to lift it, let it go, say goodbye to yesterday, and start a new love life again. You don't have to look back, you don't have to be nostalgic. You can't break the thread, leave a psychological shadow, affect your future life, and forget is the best choice.

    Drifting apart, like a stranger, the shadow of the other party will become more and more indifferent in your mind, and eventually be completely forgotten and replaced by a new couple.

    After the breakup, you will both pursue a new love, have your own new lover, both will have a new emotional home, and you will find your other half. Build a family. Your attention, your gaze, your love will all be projected onto him or her.

    He is the only one for you, the one who is most worthy of your love! As for the ex, it has come to an end and has become a hurried passerby on your long road of love! A passer-by in your life's journey!

    The breakup has shown that you have no fate, you are not a person all the way, and you will not walk into the door of a family. You are psychologically and emotionally repulsive to him or her, and you are unattractive to each other. The differences far outweigh the common ground.

    There is no place for him or her in your mind.

    If you can go back to the time when you first met, you can know that the final outcome is a breakup, many people would rather be good friends from the beginning than be short-lived lovers.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Because two people who once loved each other will often quarrel because of contradictions in life, and it will be very embarrassing to be friends after breaking up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Mainly because these two people are true love, there is no way to accept other relationships, so it is difficult to be friends again.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because two people once loved each other, even if they are not together, they still care about each other's affairs, and it is difficult to be ordinary friends again.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You said you two love each other very much, so why can't you be together!

    I think two people who love each other will be together, no matter what happens!

    My husband and I are, we are together, many people disagree, there are many people who say that I am not good, that I am not good, that is bad, bad temper or something, he is a family member who has also opposed me!

    But I did everything myself, no matter what they said about me, no matter how bad they were! I don't even pay attention to them!

    I'm going to make myself better, I'm going to let them know that I'm a very good girl, so I've given a lot, I've endured a lot myself, I've done a lot myself! At that time, I really wanted to die, I was really tired, I did so many things by myself, and what was it for! Isn't it because the two of us love each other?

    So I did it, and now we're about to get married, and people who used to underestimate me now don't dare to underestimate me!

    And this time they know that it is his blessing to marry me!

    I hope you can do what you encounter and don't run away, let alone quibble and contradict!

    To know them yourself and be sincere to impress them, there are 2 people who really love each other will not choose to be friends like you!

    Still love not deep enough, still not called 2 people who love each other, 2 people who love each other will work together to come together, 2 will overcome everything and come together!

    I hope you can be happy too! I hope the two of you can do the same!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No, they will hurt each other. Maybe they can be friends many years later. But at least not yet.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    OK. But it will be very frustrating.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1.Just because you're in love doesn't mean it's suitable2.Because of some factors in the outside world, the two people are inseparable

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The two of them love deeply. In the end, they can only be friends, because they understand each other too well, and they don't want them to destroy their original friendship after becoming lovers, so they have always maintained this friendship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This situation is generally that two people get to know each other more slowly, and their shortcomings are more exposed. As a result, two people feel that they are not suitable to be together, and their personalities, temperaments, lifestyles, and ways of thinking are different, and it is difficult to go on as lovers for a long time. But after all, there was that love, and I didn't want to hurt each other, so I chose to be friends in the end.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's because you didn't cherish him when you had him, will you give him a chance to hurt him again if he was hurt by you? If it will show that he really loves you very much, but if he does not fall, then he will think that you may not be suitable, he will let you go and let you find the person you love, he cares about you, he doesn't want you to be together if you are not suitable Break up, since you promised to break up with him at the time, it's time to let go, it's good to be friends.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    That's because of the cruelty of reality, after all, love can't be eaten. Love is not a necessity, it is the economic foundation that sustains survival.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because of some special reasons, two people who love each other very much can't be together, this seems to only exist in the distant past, I think as long as you love each other, love each other very much, even if there is a big obstacle, there is no way to stop you from being together. Unless it's love that's not deep enough...

    Regardless of whose reason, the problem lies in your own, there are too many such things, in fact, you don't have to be sad, you have to believe in fate, since you love each other, you can't be together, maybe it's your fate, you can't be together, but you still have a relationship, and a good memory, don't you, you think, memories are also a kind of happiness.

    It's impossible to become friends. It can only be the most familiar strangers.

    Two people from acquaintance, acquaintance to love, after a period of dating, or there are unavoidable reasons, or there are unspeakable reasons, due to various reasons, in the end unhappy, when breaking up, there is always one party will tell the most true lie - I hope we can still be friends. If it were me, and I felt that I was very hurt, I loved and hated each other, I couldn't be friends, and I thought I could only be the most familiar stranger. I have never been unforgettable, how easy is it to be friends after a breakup?

    If you have ever loved this person deeply, he was once an inseparable part of your life, then how to switch roles to see him as a friend casually? This is probably difficult for most people to do.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    How many people can't be together because they can't resist it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can't be friends after a breakup, because you've hurt each other, you can't be enemies after a breakup, and because you've loved each other, you can only be the most familiar stranger.

    After breaking up, don't be friends again, if you can still be friends, it can only mean that you haven't loved deeply, it's a friend, you need care, if so, .........

    Then why did you choose to break up with Leaky Qin.

    A relationship. A journey, together with the search for Tan walk, too much joy, touching, too much helplessness, heartache, from true love to hurt each other, to the moment of breakup, can you still be friends?

    If you can, you must not have really loved.

    Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull.

    It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love and no hate in the heart, and only when the throbbing in the heart is indifferent can we become friends.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, they can't be lovers, maybe he will say that he will be friends.

    But the car obviously drove away, even if it returned to the original point again, it was a different time.

    Different characters, different landscapes.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back?

    It's better to keep moving forward and keep going ,...

    Until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    Don't love him her.

    Let go, don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep if you love her, don't expect her to turn back When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, don't talk about being friends.

    It can only be the most familiar strangers.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Carefully ask the other party: "What can we do if we can't be lovers?"

    Let's be confidants"! She said to him.

    He said: "No, I can't bear that permanent concern and longing, no one can be a lifelong confidant." ”

    Then let's be lovers"! She said to him.

    He said: "No, because you are a kind woman, although our feelings are not favored by the sun, but such ambiguous words are a stain on us".

    Then let's be brothers and sisters"! She said to him.

    He said: "No, our love has long gone beyond the affection between brother and sister, will there be an elder brother who looks at his sister with tender and loving eyes?" I wouldn't be such an older brother."

    Then let's be friends, that's all I can do for you," she said to him.

    He said: "No, in my heart you are already my lover, as a friend, I can't face you and your other half, and I can't imagine you ......and your other half when you're togetherI can't resist not thinking about you when I sleep in the same bed with Huai Collapse and my other Dou Ming.

    Alas, let's be enemies"! He said to her. Since we can't change our own fate, this life is destined to be happy without each other's life, and it may be the best relief to be far away from each other's sight and never find each other.

    She was stunned, and he cried. I can't imagine that what I can give to the other party in the end is such an ending. But they understand that only by choosing this can they retain the kindness and purity of the other party, and they will no longer hurt more people.

    Since then, they have disappeared, without mutual blessings, and have quietly disappeared into the vast sea of people.

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