Can fate really dictate everything about people?

Whether there are gods and ghosts in this world, no one should say clearly, in fact, many things depend on the individual, if you believe it, you will have, if you don't believe it, you don't have it, and there is no certainty. I believe in fate, because I have heard too many bizarre things, they do happen to me, from the beginning of not believing to the later not doubting at all, I feel as if there is really something that can determine a person's life, that is, this mysterious thing may really dominate everything about people. After spending some time outside, you will feel that some things are not just hard work, and you will receive good results, and it is not surprising that often those who work hard really have nothing to gain in the end.

Not long ago, I heard from adults that there was a relative whose child usually had the best academic performance in the class, but he had already gone through the college entrance examination three times, but he was not admitted to the university, either he was squeezed when he was admitted, or he made a mistake in Tuka. At first, I didn't believe it, but then the brother came to my house and said that, he decided to go south to work, because he didn't have a chance to go to school, you see, that's what happened unfairly. A lot of times when you see people who are born with wisdom, everyone will feel unfair, as if it is really unfair.

But the reality is like this, some people are destined to be rich and prosperous all their lives, while some people are destined not to have the opportunity to enjoy a day. There is no other way to deal with this kind of social status quo than to sigh. Therefore, in the face of life, I am not afraid, what should come will come after all, it should be my own and I can't run away, as long as we work hard, there will be no regrets.

I want everyone to fight for their own interests, but don't go overboard.

No, because fate is in your hands, don't bow to fate easily.

Fate can really dictate everything about people; But fate also has to be changed and dominated by people themselves!

Fate can't dominate everything, life is your own, grasp it well! ～！

In fact, it is we who decide our own fate! Your personality determines the way you do things!! The result is up to you! Is there an effect because of the cause!! Because it's on oneself!! Huh

I think fate depends on your own efforts, and the more you give, the more you get!

I don't think that's right for you, because maybe in your eyes, those rich people are the ones who control their own destiny. That's not the case. Because wealth is only a part of life, not the whole of life.

Because money is always a means, not an end. Don't think about making a windfall, and don't think about pies falling from the sky. This will break your peace of mind.

I feel able to support myself. Ability to uphold morality and conscience. Even if you don't have strong material wealth, you are at least spiritually abundant.

Although the money is not much, every penny earned is confident. They are all worthy of heaven and earth, as long as they are self-reliant and upright, and not just as a money-making machine. I don't know if you can control your destiny, but at least you can control how you face life and life.

The meaning of life itself is to be found in life, no matter what. Keep a good heart. In fact, being bland is not necessarily bad.

Sometimes simple happiness is also a kind of happiness. At the very least, you can achieve inner peace and peace.

I don't think fate can control it by itself, and if something really happens, it's all caught off guard.

Life is short for a few years, and the personable human beings are complacent, raising their own children, not worrying about the fertility of offspring, and not because of financial shortages, diseases, natural disasters, gossip in interpersonal interactions, weighing and inducements, etc., and go out of the ordinary to oppress each other, fight and fight, each has its own Taoist arguments, and obtains common interests and abnormal indirect short-term relationships.

Communication, gain lessons and lessons, experience and comprehension, the mind slowly dominates one's life from the inside out.

Some things can be controlled by themselves, but some really can't.

Face the reality, you can't control your fate, all you can do is live hard and make your life better.

How to say, then let me ask you, the things that others get are indeed very beautiful, but do you think their things are all falling from the sky? No, they have also experienced the wind and rain to have this, what about you, although you feel ordinary, but you can look at yourself, there are some things you are better than them, life, there must be a gap, so you don't have to worry.

If you think about this, you might as well think about how to better transform your life?

Everyone has everyone's life, and it doesn't have to be a fortune to be bland.

Make it possible to live in what I feel.

In fact, the meaning of this sentence is that sometimes many things are predestined and cannot be changed by human beings. But I don't think it's appropriate to use this sentence now, in fact, there are many things that we can change now, and our fate is actually in our own hands, and we have to believe in ourselves.

If we say that in ancient times, people believed in fate, I think it is still possible, because in the ancient feudal era, there were many people who wanted to do what they wanted to do, but they couldn't do it at all, because there were many restrictions, but now it is different, we know that now science and technology are developed, life is getting better and better, we want to do our own things, as long as we are down-to-earth, we will be able to do what we want to do, after all, what we want to do is our own dream, If I can work hard for my dreams in a down-to-earth manner, I don't think anything can rely on fate.

In fact, we must know that we must be down-to-earth in everything we do, we must not give up halfway, we must learn to master our own destiny, be the master of our own destiny, if we can't even control our own destiny, I think this person's life is actually very miserable, if he links his destiny with God's destiny, I think this is too absolute, everything has to rely on himself to fight, only in this way can he fight for what he wants, if he does not fight for anything in the face of anything, he will be at peace with the situation, I don't think I'll get what I want.

So now we should learn to be down-to-earth in everything we do. You shouldn't blame everything for other reasons, you should try to do it well. I think that only by going step by step can I reap what I want and reap the success I want, and if I believe in fate at the beginning, I don't think anything will be done well.

2. When it is not unearthed, there is a knot, and it is still humble to Lingyun.

3. Don't learn the hustle and bustle of small streams, learn to dive in the sea.

4. Virtue and diligence show youth.

5. Integrity, honesty and trustworthiness.

6. Particularly polite, especially disciplined, especially able to endure hardships, especially patient, especially ambitious, and especially accomplished.

7. Compare the state, the motivation, the implementation, and the perseverance.

8. Self-discipline, democracy, unity and harmony.

9. Erudition, interrogation, prudence, discernment, and practice.

10. The past cannot be admonished, but the comer can still be chased.

11. History is written by people, and roads are stepped out by people.

12. Every time you fight, every championship you win.

13. Show competition in silence and win in competition.

14. Life is brilliant because of enterprising, and youth is magnificent because of the college entrance examination.

15. I use what I have to fight for the future.

16. If I don't reach the end in my life's journey, I won't come down early.

17. A person's life is long, but there are only a few key steps.

18. People must be bold and ambiguous when they are in all difficulties.

19. Destiny is in charge of itself, and miracles are created by itself.

20. Those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are clear.

21. On paper, I finally feel shallow, and I never know that I have to do it.

22. In the midst of strategizing, win the examination room.

23. Be ready to go, be prepared.

24. A point of impetuousness, a point of regret.

25. Don't let the frustration of yesterday overshadow tomorrow's dreams.

26. Don't make excuses for failure, but find reasons for success.

27. Do what you need to do first, and then do what you like.

28. Take the universe as the classroom and lead nature as the grandmaster.

29. A single tree does not form a forest, and a single filament does not form a thread.

Who is in charge of fate? Some people say, "By God." And some people say, "By yourself!" ”

I think those who say that God is in charge of destiny do so because they lack self-confidence and believe in God, they think that God is divine, omnipotent, and that God is in charge of the destiny of mankind. But who has seen God give or take? As the saying goes:

The reason why people are superstitious is because of their ignorance; And the reason why people are stupid is because of people'Ignorant. ”

What about those who believe in themselves, although the idea is good, but in the process of concrete practice, how many people can stick to it to the end? For example, if a person has an incurable disease, can he control his own destiny? The vast majority of people still believe in God.

Is it that they are really hopeless? No, it's not. It was they who were timid in the face of trials.

Why do people believe in God so much? Have they ever seen it? No, it's not. It's because people are too vulnerable.

In fact, the people who can fight against the disease, challenge fate, and control their own destiny are the strong people in life: Zhang Haidi, who is disabled, Hawking, who is riddled with illness, and Helen Keller, who is blind, ......They truly control their own destiny.

Destiny is one's own, and only oneself can grasp it. Don't think that our abilities are limited, more importantly, we must have the confidence and courage to challenge our fate.

Friends, who do you think is the master of destiny?

There are two types of emotions, positive emotions and negative emotions.

The second characteristic of emotions is bipolarity. From a clinical point of view, we divide emotions into two categories, positive and negative emotions. Any emotion that gives us a pleasant experience is called a positive emotion, and any emotion that gives us a painful experience is called a negative emotion.

Positive emotions include love, satisfaction, relief, etc., and negative emotions include anger, anxiety, fear, grief, shame, etc.

The purpose of our psychology is to make people have more positive emotions and less negative emotions.

Fate is in their own hands, everyone's fate exists in his own decisions, there is no savior in the world, only he can save himself, and each of us may have some unknown talent hidden in it, it is a gold mine buried in our lives, if you can find it, explore it as much as possible, success is close at hand.

People need to have a little spirit, a little self-confidence, life is originally a clear mirror, when you smile at it, it will smile at you, when you cry to it, it will also cry to you, always let people can't cover up, you must live actively, strive to look forward, strive for the active side, and look forward to good returns. There is no need to feel sorry for yourself and complain about others, otherwise you will only encounter stumbling blocks from time to time, making you somersaults, touching your face full of dust, and even bruising all over your body. The so-called noble people have spirit, and they are defeated by inferiority.

It can be said that everyone is the screenwriter, director and protagonist of their own destiny, we have the right to arrange the drama of our own life magnificently, overflowing with brilliance, and we also have the responsibility to direct the drama of our life to be exciting, colorful, and more obliged to interpret the drama of our life outstandingly.

I firmly believe that there is nothing difficult in the world, but I am afraid of those who have a heart. Believe in this philosophical saying, God closes a door for you, and at the same time will open a window for you, don't be discouraged by a momentary loss, discouraged and negative, trample on and abandon the original intention. Don't stand at the head of the tide of materialism, and be led by money and power to the abyss, although there is a bustling world, all for profit, the world is bustling, all for profit, but some things can never be replaced and measured by simple material and money equivalents, and their own strength is the most important.

Believe in yourself and control your own destiny.