Falling out of love only because of a quarrel that betrayed our relationship for five years

Love is not a sale, as long as it is fair, it can be dealt. Love is in the heart, I don't know if there is a spare tire, but she is unwilling to go back with you, it may be that she has a higher pursuit of life, maybe it is a difficult road, but she is willing to break through. And you should be a type who is a little rich and peaceful, living in the moment, and has no higher expectations for wealth and success.

So your values are starting to diverge. Today's society is so impetuous, everyone is pursuing success and maximizing their own value, and your girlfriend is no exception. But you still retain the traditional way of thinking, and there are two paths ahead of you:

You stay in the city without regrets or return to your hometown with infinite nostalgia; No matter which path you choose, the premise is that you should fully communicate with your girlfriend, sit down and talk calmly, understand her real thoughts, and then make a decision.

Teenager let it go, that girl is too realistic, there is no need to be sad for her, in fact, it is a good thing for you, at least you are still young and unmarried, and there are still many opportunities for choice, so that you can realize the reality of girls, college life is different from entering society, just let it go, forget her, work hard, not for others but also for the parents who have raised them for many years, and take them to play when you earn money and are free. "I just want to cherish this relationship for 5 years", you are wrong, divorced after ten years of marriage? It's not a question of whether you can go back or not, it's that you can't be together, you have to break up with a little thing, and a woman who can't share ups and downs is not worth cherishing.

It's not because of the love that betrayed the quarrel, your student days have passed. Now that she has entered the society, she is facing the reality, and she no longer wants to have only love and no bread. Or you can't give what she wants!

Talk to her, but don't rush, or you will be forced to have a spare tire if you don't have a spare tire! I'm an example!

Is it because your hometown is more remote? Girls want to stay in the big city? According to what you said, either she has a new boyfriend, or she will give up the relationship for the past 5 years.

It's very likely that she has another boyfriend, so you might as well ask directly, and it's possible that you have something that upsets her.

Find out the reason in her heart, whether she is insecure. Or it will be sad to be far away from home.

You still have to calm down and think clearly, after all, you have a relationship for five years, it is absolutely impossible to say that it will change, he may have his own difficulties, you should talk to him well, communicate well, maybe the problem will be solved.

Do you have perseverance, if you have perseverance, develop yourself well, and go back to her in the future, then you will know the answer, and you will know what to do.

Gu Xiaobei and Lin Lan met in high school and fell in love for 6 years, but later broke up because of Lin Lan's unintentional sentence, but he has always loved Lin Lan, Love is not so firm It is not that necessary But if you lose it, you can't catch it back Little things Don't care too much If you want, she may only be angry with one person for the rest of her life, because you are the shoulder she relies on A little angry can't bear it for a lifetime, of course, for the unreasonable you to consider it yourself It is best for her to be willing to change.

Don't let you go to the residence, it's very doubtful, if a woman changes her mind, it's easy to see, it's best for you to observe, otherwise it's you who will be hurt by then, it's not so easy to say that you want to divide after 5 years, but for a woman, if she is determined to score, even if it is 50 years, she will not be willing to give up, it is estimated that there are people!!

The way is different, give up, don't say 5 years, if you continue to be entangled like this, the pain will be longer, many things can't be allowed you not to believe, since you have found a good job in your hometown, it is better to go back to work well.

I think you should talk about it well, whether the score is good or not, just talk about it clearly at once, if it is good, it will be good, and if it is not good, it will be thoroughly divided.

You'd better ask her about this. We can't help you with the answers!

Let's let it go, and there are many opportunities to choose, just like buying shoes, you don't have to buy the coolest thing, but you have to buy the best one for your feet

Marriage and divorce, not to mention this.

Then she has betrayed you, or love has been defeated by reality.

It's clear that I don't love you anymore. Face it bravely! Brothers.

Give up, kid. Someone cuckolded you.

She doesn't love you anymore. No matter how much you pay, it's useless.

It's human nature, everyone will! It's just that some people are good at disguise.

Don't worry about others, as long as you can stand it yourself.

An eye on the heart! Too much ego!

Immature, nothing to do as a person without a sense of responsibility.

I can't stand love even to the depths.

Because they treat feelings as the whole of life.

Folded 999 large bills into roses and sent them to her.

Don't get too involved and let the feelings take their course.

Because these people don't have a purpose in life.

It doesn't matter, let the past pass, it's because he has no vision, he's a stupid person, this kind of person won't be happy when he gets married, because he doesn't know how to cherish it...

She should be thankful, at least she didn't find out about this problem after getting married, 4 years is not long, it is not short, it is impossible to accept it if she has invested in a relationship, take your time.

Try to say something bad about which man, it's best to find a man next to her to make a comparison, and it's good slowly, but the first love has a deep memory.

Let time slowly ** her injury.

It's best to introduce a good male friend to her, and slowly she will forget the past.

It's useless to say anything, just come out on your own.

Take her out for a walk, have fun, or start a new relationship all over again.

It's not the end of the world without anyone, don't punish yourself for other people's shortcomings? For this kind of ** tears, it's not worth it.

Time is the poison and the best antidote.

Over time, you will change yourself.

Introduce a new boyfriend and forget.

It is estimated that your love has long passed the shelf life, and he is tired of you.

Sympathy to you! It's the same as what happened to me, I gave everything for him, and I didn't allow him to spend much money, he spent a lot of money on me, and in the end it wasn't a kick...

At the beginning, it was useless to send a text message ** to attack and retain, he was not a bird... My heart hurts for months, I don't work, and I always quarrel with my family. It's really a low point in life!!

Now I'm completely dead set on ignoring him!! Whatever, my sister figured it out, it's better than him to pick up one casually outside... What is he, he actually trampled on and trampled on his sister's sincerity...

Sister live her life well from now on.,One day he quarreled with his current one.,Divided.,Don't think about sister.。。。 Sister won't bird him anymore.

When a man gets up, he really turns his face and doesn't recognize people!! If you still want to save his heart, then you can only endure it!! You're going to have to make a change!!

For example, dress up beautifully. Treat it as if nothing happened. Live your life well.

Don't send him a message, or he won't find you annoying. Maybe he will be attracted to you when he sees your change, and he will change his mind... Even if you're angry, don't say anything bad!!

Otherwise, he will take the opportunity to break up with you. If you want to save love, there is only one word: forbearance!!

Don't want this kind of man, don't do it, he has done harm, this has caused a shadow on your soul. Even if you are together in the future, it is difficult to guarantee that he will not hurt you a second time, a third time, do you dare to gamble with the happiness of the rest of your life??? Will you still believe him???

Do you think that many men are loyal to their marriages? Just for such a man, you still need to think about something

Go out and play ha, listen to more.

After a long time, when you look back, you will find that some of the things about yourself before were very naïve, and it was still very painful for such a man.

Hehe, congratulations! See the true face of a person, so as not to be deceived for a lifetime, and end up with him in the future.

After the marriage, after discovering that he belongs to this category, it is better for him to show you his original form now, how good! Also, you really should celebrate, not only because you found it in time, but also because, you can, find a new boyfriend!! Hehe!

Clean up your mind! Wash your face and brush your teeth for your next relationship! Oh no, it's grease and powder!

Oh, it's still not right, it's a makeover! That's right! Hehe!

Man. If men are responsible, if Xiao 3 can have a little morality, will there be such a tragic love in this world? You have to make a choice, either give up completely or find a way to redeem yourself and prove that you are more worthy of love than that dead woman out there.

My relationship with my wife for 3 years. Again, it will be broken.

It's really unforgettable. My first love.

Sometimes... Something. . . Warm and cold self-aware.

You must first know for yourself. Why is this the case.

A slap can't be slapped.

Such feelings do not necessarily have to be self-tormented. Caring for yourself is the first, I believe you will live a more wonderful life.

No one wants to waste five years of affection, but do you want to see that he really belongs to you? If you don't belong, let it go. Give yourself another vacation and bring your mood back to peace.

Looking around, how many good men are there.

Slowly adapt, distance is often the biggest enemy of love, many people refuse to admit it, but this is the truth.

Yes, temporarily.

Copyed. But if I were you, I would go to him and make it clear to him. There is nothing to break up, but you have to give an account to yourself about this relationship.

You didn't lose it, he is sorry for you, what regrets. The next one will be better, and tomorrow will be even better! Falling in love again will fill the wounds in your heart, and everything will pass.

Forgive him, if you really love him, I wish him happiness, and you will be happy!

Please be happy.

Wave goodbye to the wrong talent and the right encounter.

Leave the old love. It's like riding a slow train.

If you see it thoroughly, your heart will be clear.

No one can take anyone's blessings.

Remember this song No one can live without anyone leaving There are few people who can remember their vows at the end Who is missing This earth turns the same The same sunrise and sunset The same spring flowers A good person who doesn't know how to cherish you is not needed and not worthy of your nostalgia There is a kind of love in the world Because of love is together and because of love is separated If you love him Calmly face it Calmly let go If you don't love you have to let go Maybe at the next stop you can meet the most suitable him for you in this life Come out of sadness and nostalgia I wish you happiness.

I've just encountered a similar experience with you, in fact, I think I can understand your pain and tiredness, I'm special.

In high school, after talking about two years, she proposed to break up ......There is a way, one is that you find a new love, the other is to wait for time, believe me, after a long time, it won't hurt, if it doesn't work, there are only two reasons, one is that the new love is not good enough, and the other is that the time is not long enough, either continue to change the new love, or continue to wait for time, time passes day by day, month by month, and it will really be forgotten.

See if you can put it down? You're worse than me, I'm only three years old, and I've been telling myself that I can live a better life without her!

A person, when he loves you, really loves you; And when he doesn't love you anymore, he really doesn't love you anymore. Edition.

Sometimes, it's my power that is too stubborn and refuses to let go, let go of this relationship, let go of this memory.

When you're sad, tell yourself—

Even if the whole world doesn't want itself, you can't leave yourself.

When you're confused, tell yourself—

The road ahead is still very long, long enough for us to like another person again, just like we liked you at the beginning.

Then it's up to you, if you love him very much, then keep loving. He's gone too far, you find someone to replace him... After a while, the pain will be forgotten.

Let's do it, I can make you happy, how much do you qq, send me a short message, I add you.

Hehe, I can only du, when I see your annoyance

I have heard that the time will dilute everything, since he has betrayed himself. Bai really doesn't need to waste time for zhi

He was annoyed and put his time on other things. Work, travel, take a break, and see the outside world. The outside world is so big. There are many good men. Better than him, more single-minded, there will definitely be', come on.

If both parties are still in love, it is recommended that you give yourself a chance, if the other party no longer loves you, or persuade you to open up, you can't let go for more than two years, then put it in your heart, don't force yourself to forget, just take it as a good memory, sometimes the more you want to let go, the more difficult it is to let go.

After falling in love, we are separated, maybe we will never forget the person we loved in this life, maybe we will try to forget, that is, how you forget, maybe one day you will inadvertently remember with which person we once loved, recall the good times with him and her, even if we are no longer together, that heart is still sweet. Believe in the power of love, and those who have loved each other can't forget each other.