What is it like to know that you can only do it on your own?

The unprecedented sense of steadfastness can only rely on oneself, relying on others can only be for a while, and it is impossible to rely on a lifetime.

I was excited, but when I was really on my own, the excitement subsided and was replaced by endless pain.

When everything can only be relied on by myself, I have become more and more responsible, so that I have also experienced the difficulty of life, understood the hardships of my parents, and seemed to have become mature all of a sudden.

Since I was a child, I have always relied on myself and never relied on others. At the beginning of this year, I wanted to rely on my brother to do something, my brother had been doing well for 10 years, and he could earn 10,000 yuan a month, thinking that this life was finally a little hopeful, but after only three months, he couldn't do it, and he was going to break up, hey, hope was shattered again! At first, I felt uncomfortable, but then I thought about it, I still have to rely on myself, I can't rely on anyone but myself.

I have never felt so confused in my heart, and the departure of my parents was a huge blow to me, but I had to face the blow alone.

My heart is broken, I have been pampered since I was a child, and I really don't know if I can survive three days after I can only rely on myself in the future.

People like me who can die without money are simply a bolt from the blue for me, and then I can only go out to work, there is suffering, and I still feel quite satisfied the moment I see the results.

After graduating from university, my mother said to me, "Our education for you is over, and everything will be on your own." When I heard this, my heart was overjoyed, and I was finally freed from the supervision of my parents.

I don't feel anything, I always know that I can only rely on myself, so it will be very troublesome to lose my job, and it will be difficult to start over.

Accustomed to it, I haven't relied on anyone since I was a child.

Wipe away your tears, pluck up the courage, continue to take care of the children, work hard, use the money you earn, buy what you want, no one's face has to look, no one's account has to buy, I use my own money, no one cares, just live my own life.

It's nothing, every day is one less day, whether it is joy, anger and sorrow smooth or not, it is the feeling of this day, every morning is a beginning, a new life.

The world is so unfair, why did I get to this point? My dad was paralyzed, and all the stress of life was on me, leaving me breathless.

I felt that it was finally my turn to show off my skills, and I took out the career plan I had written before and read it again, and officially put it on the agenda.

I was shocked, buy a bottle of Coke, listen to a sane song, what else to do, and besides, you can't sit still when you encounter something, even if you are restless, it will not help.

I decided to divorce, and then my mother said that she supported me and respected my decision, although she and my father would try to help me and my daughter, but the most important thing was that I still had to rely on myself, my heart was suddenly steady, it was sunny, and the depressed mood of being made by my in-laws was suddenly better, and I felt relieved that I wanted to divorce quickly.

It's only a sophomore, and the burden of the family is on me, so I really have to rely on myself.

I'm a stay-at-home mom, and I think it's good to be able to share the burden for the family and reduce the pressure on the family. It's very happy.

On your own, it's habit, it's natural, it's nothing.

The feeling of being tired but having to catch up.

I regret that I didn't study and exercise well at the beginning, and I feel that I am too weak now.

Life without challenges makes me feel bored, I am motivated when I see the difficulty of life, I like challenges

Growing up, I never managed to rely on anyone.

Now you can earn more than 10,000 yuan a month by decorating, erecting molds, building walls and repairing houses! So migrant workers are buying houses in the city! In recent years, the country has implemented urbanization, large-scale development, and overhauled houses, and since the post-90s, few people have done this, so this line is more popular, and the salary is very high!

Now the wall is based on how much a square meter is counted, and you can earn 500, 600, or 800 yuan a day, depending on your hands and feet! The salary of the frame mold is also very high, and the decoration of the house is a package, you think!

I feel like it's time to grow up and push myself.

Since I was a child, I have been on my own, and I have become accustomed to it.

I decided to divorce, and then my mom said that I should not go to her house for divorce.

No matter how you try, do your best to live the life you want

When I was facing the aging of my parents, I realized that I had to rely on myself for everything in my life, which would be very stressful for me. Especially for parents who are facing only children who bear each other's responsibilities when they reach middle age, they can realize that there are good and bad things for only children. The so-called benefits of only children can fully enjoy the endless love of their parents, but the biggest disadvantage must be that the parents gradually increase with the age of their parents.

When young people have children, the age of their parents is getting older, and there is no way to help young people take care of children together. <>

Whether the elderly help the young people take care of the children is the choice of the elderly, and the young people have no way to ask the elderly how to do things. But know that if you have the help of the elderly, the young people will be much easier. Many parents think that one of the two generations will have a harder time.

If you don't work hard, then your children will live an embarrassing life in the future, and every parent is in order to be able to provide better living conditions for their children. So even if your life is a little worse, you will leave the best things to your children. <>

When the parents are sick, the only child repeatedly runs to the hospital and has to take care of the child. Faced with no one in life who can help the only child to take care of his parents, he can only choose to hire a nurse, but it is also a large financial expense when hiring a nurse. If young people do not have a stable economic foundation and their family conditions are not particularly good, they cannot afford to hire a caregiver at all, and more can only choose to take time to take care of their parents.

No one wants to make themselves stronger and more sensible, only the things they experience are different, and as they get older, each year's experience is completely different. Whether you are a woman or a man, don't put so much pressure on yourself in life, and think about more beautiful things in life. Then all the bad things will gradually pass, and you don't have to monopolize everything in the family, which will make your life very hard.

Or a feeling of despair, but also a sense of independence, thinking that everything needs to be on oneself in order to have a better future and tomorrow.

Feelings of hopelessness. I feel unreliable with my friends and family, I feel helpless, and sometimes I feel lonely.

I would think that this is a very normal thing, other people are unreliable, and what we have to do is to improve our own abilities.

Reality will tell you! the real society, how many people; For the sake of money, hurt each other, and calculate ...... all day for the sake of profitReality will tell you! Complex interpersonal relationships, how many people:

Flattering in front of people, cold guns behind people, one set in front ......of the face, one set behind the backReality will tell you: when you are down, you want to help, no! When you are wronged, you want to rely on, no!

When you are misunderstood, you want to trust, no! When you are cold-faced, you want to care, no! Reality will tell you!

No one can count on ...... except themselvesBumpy tells you that no one can help you except persevere! Don't be too naïve, the concern on the lips doesn't necessarily mean that you really care about ......Don't be too simple, the reliance in the oath may not last long! Reality will tell you!

In the final analysis, you still have to rely on yourself! Wind and rain, block yourself, tears, pretend to be ......There are many tribulations, and you need to be strong alone! Open the road in the mountains, build bridges in the water, do your own things!

Reality will tell you: others are always outsiders, and no one can hurt for you! No one else will ever be you, and no one can really understand you!

I know my own difficulties best, so why bother asking for help? What is on your own mind, you understand, **confide? Reality will tell you that it's all on your own!

There is no comfortable haven in life, only to be your own roof! Rely on yourself, survive everything, rely on yourself, move forward alone, rely on yourself, not afraid of wind and rain, rely on yourself, the most confident ......[Come on] [come on] [come on].

To be honest, the people around you are basically reliable when things that have nothing to do with stakes. However, when you have a stake, you sometimes can't rely on yourself, let alone others.

When you meet people, you only talk for three minutes, and you only eat seven points when you eat. This is the wisdom of life that mankind has summed up over the past 5,000 years. Obviously, you have to keep three parts of the margin for yourself.

Don't think that the people around you are unreliable just because they don't support you. And don't think that there are people who support you, these people who support you are reliable. The most important thing is that you should be grateful to them!

Because what supports you is not necessarily right. What doesn't support you isn't necessarily wrong. You have to be open to the sea and the sky.

Yes, yes, it can be said no.

Only oneself will be truly good to oneself

When others are good to you, they all have a purpose.

I think you're quite right.

But if you want to achieve great things.

You can't do it on your own, right?

I think my parents are the most reliable, and I may lie to myself, and my parents are always for your good.

I can't rely on myself. The truth holds on.

Your family and friends don't think of everyone around you as imaginary enemies.

Agree, the family is reliable.

Regardless of whether work or digging is life, you must learn to stand alone.

In this world, only you can rely on yourself, and only you can trust the model. I am my most loyal fan.

The law of survival in this world is like this, the strong survive, and the weak eliminate. Rather than dependent, it is better to be independent. Everyone has their own worries and stresses.

Eat your own food and do your own thing. No complaints, no slander, no gossip. Do your job silently, drink a cup of tea, listen to a song, and read a book.

Don't expect so-called friendship and trust. The friendship between women is fragile and envious, and it is broken when it is said to be broken. Go your own way, do your own thing, and live your own life.

Everyone should build a strong spiritual core. Take control of your own pace.

Never try to test friendships or feelings, or you will lose more than you gain. Only by taking care of yourself first can you have the energy to take care of others.

"The backing mountains will fall, and everyone will run", except for your parents, no one will help you without any care. But your parents will eventually grow old one day, and you will grow up after all, you can rely on yourself in life, you can't count on others, it's not easy to live anyone, even if someone reaches out and pulls out a hand to help you get a ride, after all, it can't help you for a lifetime. Learn to rely on yourself, you are the master of life, and the future is created by you.

"The backing mountains will fall, and everyone will run", except for your parents, no one will help you without any care. Life is not smooth sailing, life is not all right, there is no job in the world that is not hard, there is no place where people are not complicated, so being strong is your only choice. If you are strong in your heart, you will become confident in life.

No one succeeds casually, tired or not, their feet know, whether they are bitter or not, their own hearts know that everyone has unspoken injuries and unspeakable pains, and they have to bear them by themselves.

Everyone has to work hard for their own future, no one is destined to succeed, they are all through their own hard work on the road of life, others help you are love, do not help you is duty. No one in this world owes you, don't take other people's help for granted, no one's money is blown by the wind, it is all earned by hard work. In this life, the person who should be remembered the most:

The one who lent you money when he was poor; When it's difficult, the people behind you support you; People who are in the same boat when they are in trouble; When sick, a person who pours tea and water. The tree is tall and does not forget the roots, and if the person is brilliant, he is not ungrateful.

Not every effort will have a harvest, but every harvest must work hard, we all know that kindness is a virtue, to be kind to people, to be open-minded, but you also have to understand this truth, there is no angular kindness, no principled kindness, only people are good and are bullied, your kindness, please bring a little edge, your kindness, please give it to the right person.

If you don't do it, you will never get anything, and the future depends on seizing opportunities and working hard. Walking on the road of life, do not compare, do not complain, do not care; Be more tolerant, more understanding, and more giving; Because there is a kind of effort called relying on yourself! Rely on yourself to shelter yourself from the wind and rain, rely on yourself, in order to rise in life, only by yourself, can you straighten your waist and speak hard.

In order to muster up courage and not lose backbone!

In fact, you can't rely on others in life, and the only one who can really rely on yourself is yourself.

Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke expressed that relying on oneself is the toughest.