My girlfriend has had an abortion before, do you want to break up with her?

Updated on society 2024-02-09
59 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    For the sake of family health in the future, I don't approve of continuing to dating, men always care about this aspect, you will leave a shadow, and she may have physical damage, which is not conducive to future fertility, think about it yourself, although my views are extreme but facts.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you have done **, it is best not to affect having children in the future, be sensible

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Everyone has a past, like a person, should be inclusive of all of her, not care about her past because the past is gone, the key lies in the present and the future ! Please ask yourself whether you like it or not.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you love her, what do you care? Love can conquer everything. It's not the old society anymore.

    And most importantly, she can confess to you. And you can't have a psychological burden yourself, if you love her, be good to her, otherwise you will torture her, you know? Take advantage of it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If it were me, I would definitely score.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Being able to ask such a question shows that you don't love her at all, so don't delay your girlfriend if you break up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's good to have a good relationship and not break up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then it depends on whether you love her or not, if you really care about her in your heart, you don't care about her past, you also said that she is a good girl, since she is a good girl, she is worthy of your cherishment.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It depends on whether you like her or not, if I were you, I don't like her, I can't accept it anyway.

    If I like her, I can take it anyway.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    People who don't make mistakes, since you have chosen, go on bravely, you and her are tomorrow not yesterday!! As long as you two still have feelings, that's all that matters! The landlord decided for himself!! To be clear, I'm here to get a fortune!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

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  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    So! Do you love her?

    Do you think the past is more important than the present?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    As long as the character is good, what does it matter to the rest.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Thousands of words, bosom friends are hard to find.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When you encounter this kind of problem, you should comfort your girlfriend, and you should also care about your girlfriend's emotions, because your girlfriend is very sensitive at this time, so you should give your girlfriend enough care and enlighten your girlfriend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think you should break up. Because you can't give her a home, so don't delay her, you're a scumbag.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You should ask what happened to your girlfriend, I think I must love you very much to have an abortion for you, maybe you have something to make her unhappy, that's why it's like this.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Generally will mind, but now the society is much more open than before, this situation is not uncommon, it is recommended to have an open mind, the most important thing is that if you want to get married, you must explain this matter clearly before getting married, so as not to have trouble in the future and things cannot be explained. Hopefully, hopefully it can help you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Once when it comes to girls who have had a baby, many people will be prejudiced against this matter, and some people even think that girls are not scrupulous enough, so some men are very concerned that their girlfriends have had a baby, and even this matter will become the fuse for the breakdown of the relationship between two people, so do men really mind that girls have had a baby? Let's take a look at these five men. 1. 23 years old, student, I really mind that my girlfriend has had a fetus, and I am also a very traditional person, I hope my girlfriend is the first time, not for any reason, I can't accept that my girlfriend has had a fetus, I think if I encounter this situation I will definitely break up.

    Second, 25 years old, teacher, I don't have much thought about this matter, after all, there are many second-married women with children can still pursue their own happiness, ** is just a special experience in life, so if my girlfriend really has a baby, I will choose to forgive, after all, it is all in the past, since that person did not give her happiness, then I will be responsible for the rest of her life. Three, 24 years old, sales to be honest if my girlfriend has had a baby, then I will feel more or less uncomfortable, this feeling is like just getting a baby, but I found that there is a broken place, so my heart must be a little lost, but it will not affect me to love her, after all, she is still her, baby is still a baby, but there are some reluctant pasts. Fourth, 27 years old, doctor, this is what you want me to do, if my girlfriend really has a baby, then I hope I can tell me frankly that I am not an old-fashioned person, but I can't accept cheating, if she told me when I first dated, I think I will choose to forget her past, but if I accidentally find out, or only know after getting married, I think I will propose to separate.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I might mind so much that I broke up because of it.

    Men are more generous and more likely to turn their minds than women, but they will still consider carefully when facing some key issues or things that affect their mood for the rest of their lives.

    If two people are in love, but they are still in the beginning stage, or their relationship is average, and they know the fact that their girlfriend has had an abortion, 99% of them will break up.

    There are also people who love each other deeply, and they don't know the true situation of the matter before they get married, and then they get married, but after marriage, they inadvertently know the fact of "abortion", so there are many contradictions, quarrels, and finally break up, such a situation often happens.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    My girlfriend has had a baby, will she mind? It depends on the individual, some people don't mind, some people will, I personally feel that I don't mind, who hasn't passed yet, the important thing is the future.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't mind, how can I care about these things if I really love someone, it's that everyone has a past, and the most important thing is that the three views of personality are suitable for you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In fact, there is nothing to mind, because girls must be 100% sincere when they are pregnant.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I definitely mind, but it also depends on the age, if you are 27 years old or later, it is normal, you may have been young and ignorant before; But if it's before the age of 27, then it's not recommended to continue talking, after all, you don't know how messy your girlfriend's private life used to be.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This will definitely mind, it shows that she is a casual person, once there will be a second time, and she would rather marry a second marriage.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Of course I mind, but if you want to be together, you have to pretend that nothing happened.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Definitely don't mind not protecting yourself.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The question is not whether you mind, but whether you really love her.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Personally, I think I'll mind personally, I'm not a pick-up guy.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I will have it in my heart, but it depends on whether this girlfriend is good now.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Of course, it may be buried in the heart and dare not say it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Don't break up, she can tell you that she has had a baby, which means that she loves you deeply and trusts you very much, and she is already convinced of your feelings, otherwise she will not tell you easily such a thing.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Of course, you shouldn't choose to break up. If she can say this to you, it is also a kind of trust in you, otherwise you don't know if she doesn't say it, and this is also a thing of the past, and it is also a harm to her, you should care about her well.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's time to choose to break up, I haven't told myself about this situation for three years, and now it's too late to tell it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Breaking up should not be chosen. Because you and your girlfriend have been together for three years, there must be a relationship foundation between you. Don't care about your girlfriend's past. You should take this matter lightly.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    The past is gone, you see her now and her in the future, if you don't think there's anything wrong with her, you can accept her past and shouldn't choose to break up.

    If you can't accept it no matter how you think about it, then it's better to break up with her as soon as possible, and it won't be good for either of you to drag it out.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you love her, then don't choose to break up, three years is also a long time, and there is still a relationship foundation between you. Everyone has a time when she is young and frivolous, and she has already paid the price for her youthful frivolity, and if you break up with her again, isn't this a stab in her heart?

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If you love her, you shouldn't break up, after all, it was a mistake she made when she was young, and if you love someone, you can tolerate her past. What you have is the present and the future, you have been together for three years and have a lot of feelings, and you will definitely be reluctant to love and separate.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If you love her very much and are willing to accept the reality that she has had an abortion, then continue, if you can't accept it, tell others directly, don't delay others, and don't pretend to be a gentleman.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I think that since we have been together for three years, this time has been very long, and since he has confessed to you, it means that he doesn't want to hide and deceive you, I don't think you should break up, you should love her better.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's been three years, and I have feelings and dependence, the only thing is to know about her **, that's what she did with you before, as long as it didn't happen during the period with you, then don't be a reason to break up.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    I don't think we should break up. After being together for three years, the relationship should be very deep, and I should have a good talk with my girlfriend.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    If your girlfriend is very good, you love him very much, and the relationship is very deep, you can be reluctant to do it, don't care, after all, this is an unpleasant experience of him in the past, although he has had a fetus, but maybe it was an accident, after all, he has no children now It will not affect your relationship.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    You shouldn't break up, because what you like is not the former her, but the current her, you can't participate in the past, and the current one should be cherished.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Maybe he has been entangled in this kind of thing for a long time before telling you, when she tells you, she should feel that the relationship between you has stabilized, even if she says it, you will not abandon her, she has the courage to tell you, otherwise she may keep this secret forever. After all, if she doesn't say this kind of thing, you won't know. I don't think you should break up with her because of this, this girl is still very honest and very good.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    You should choose to break up, this kind of thing is difficult to accept, it will also become a thorn in your heart, and you will not be happy together.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    It depends on the individual, if you really love her, you won't care about his past, personal meaning, but if it was me, I would break up, after all, I care more about this thing.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    If you love someone, you choose to tolerate her, after all, you have a three-year relationship, and the relationship is not bad. Everyone has their own past, who wants to choose **, but they haven't met such a good man who can be entrusted for life.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Personally, I don't think we should worry about the past anymore.

    Because everyone has their own past feelings, as long as your girlfriend is genuinely with you now.

    You care about the present and the future, not your girlfriend's past.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    This mainly depends on whether you can accept it, if you have deep enough feelings for him, for the fact that she has not had a baby, it is actually acceptable, and I feel that this does not affect the relationship between you.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    You have been together for three years, and if you truly love each other, you should have a deep emotional foundation at this time. Ask yourself in your heart, would you give up on her now because of his past mistakes? Haven't you ever made a mistake? Whether you break up or not depends on whether you love it or not.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    So it's up to you to accept it? If you can accept it, get along with him, after all, everyone has a past, if you can't accept it, take the initiative to break up with him, after all, not every man is so open-minded, just start a new life for each other.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    If the relationship between you is good, then don't mind her past, you don't mention her past, you just need to cherish the present and treat her well.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Since you have been with your girlfriend for three years, whether he loves you or not, whether he is sincere to you or not, you should understand better that he is telling you these things because he believes in you. If he doesn't tell you this, and you don't know these things, will you break up? It's because he loves you and he doesn't want to hide anything, so he tells you everything, and it's the main thing that you have to cherish this relationship.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    If you love your girlfriend very much and don't mind, you can choose not to break up.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Encountering people is not ladylike. I'm a good girl, and the person I'm talking to is also rushing to get married, and I want to live a down-to-earth life, but I'm still too simple, and my ability to screen men is limited, and the man I want to entrust for life is actually a scumbag. The girl had no choice but to beat the child, and I think we should be a little more lenient in this case.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    What he said is already in the past tense, why did he choose to break up for the sake of the previous thing? What about those who marry for the second time? As long as he is with you now, he is attentive to you and treats you wholeheartedly, in fact, it doesn't matter what he is, he has to look at it.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    If you really like each other, then you shouldn't break up with each other, and you should treat your girlfriend well in your later life.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    In fact, you should have a choice, are you willing to give up her? Do you like her now, or do you care about her before, and if you break up with him, will you regret it?

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