How to control the scale of the couple?

True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is the ...... you have everythingPlease love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless ...... wellNo one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is to give unconditionally for each other, do anything to do meaningful things! Even one person will not be alone!

You must know that if you want to catch and indulge, spoil one too much, stick to a person, this person will soon take you seriously, but you can't be too alienated from him, don't deliberately avoid him, be generous, and the most important thing depends on what kind of person the other party is.

There is no need to handle it, people who know your character, you will be disgusted by it.

Naturally, it's best that you're still at ease when you're alone.

Mutual respect is the main thing. Sometimes it's a joke and it's hurtful.

Before starting a relationship, I was a girl who liked to be coquettish and talk harshly. On the premise that all girls know that your personality is strong, your little caution will be magnified. Whether it's a lover or a couple

The intimacy of the relationship between couples is far beyond the imagination of others。So much so that some people say: There is never a shortage of two good men in this world.

However, the current one is a girl who is very good at "cold war". She confessed to me: I asked the other party to coax me first, not apologize first.

During that time, I was so tired that I wanted to stop. However, she is always there, and when the other party just discovers her thoughts, she first turns on the "cold war" mode. I thought to myself, such a gentle and virtuous wife, even if I really did something wrong, I don't need to be so aggressive.

But over time, this became the biggest problem between us.

Even if I had done enough safety beforehand, even if I always told her that we had to keep our distance, even if she had made it clear to me that "she wouldn't care about anything so serious." But her attitude is still "You can return as much as you like." ”The seemingly invulnerable side, without being recognized, is still unable to grasp the initiative.

For many girls, your attitude in these areas is actually feedback on his attitude。Some "true temperament", although very straightforward, is indeed the best expression. Two days ago, I saw such a post on a forum.

I asked you, if I get seriously ill, will you die for me? She is also very straightforward, with only the word "will".

Actually, there is nothing wrong with the question itself. But when there are many books, many people are asking like this. When people need relationships and love, they often naturally think about their own relationship with the other person.

Especially when the other party has any bad behavior, it is even more necessary to think of ways to make the relationship between the two people harmonious and stable.

In fact, not all relationships need to be maintained by the "Cold War", and not all actions need to be resolved by "apologies". All we have to do is make it look more peaceful and acceptable. Perhaps, men and women in the process of getting along,There really needs to be a sense of proportion and scale, and both sides need to work together to understand each other and work together to maintain a minimum sense of "security".

If you are experiencing some kind of pain in your relationship right now, please don't wait, you are also approaching the age of late marriage; Even if this is the last chance, it is imperative that the state change now. If you want to have a good relationship, you have to say these things! There's a saying that goes like this:

Marriage is a university that will train you how to get along with each other as a husband and wifeIt's also a great opportunity for both parties to learn how to manage emotional issues. A good husband and wife always have to go through a series of communication and run-in before they can be recognized by each other and slowly get used to it. ”

May we all meet each other in life and become the closest people.

I think you can grasp the proportions and scales by your own feelings, and if you feel that you have done something to upset the other person, then you should not do it.

Don't ask for it from the other party all the time, and don't tell you to pay blindly. Don't peek too much into the other person's privacy. Keep a sense of distance, because hazy is beautiful. Don't peek at each other's phones. Don't ask the other person to do things for you too much. Don't rely too much on each other.

When two couples get along, they should be in love and stop at courtesy, and this sense of proportion is very important. Girls have their own principles, boys should respect the girls before touching, remember to make some illegal behaviors, do not ask for the consent of the girl, do not force.

I think it is necessary to have a sense of boundaries, such as not looking at the other person's privacy and respecting the other person more.

How do both parties in love master the scale?

Some girls think that if their boyfriend rejects him when he asks for sex, it will hurt him. This is not true.

If you really don't want to have sex with him, then you should make it clear to him that this is not an injury, but to teach boys to respect girls. If two people are in love, the process of falling in love is also a process of mutual respect for both parties. If you don't want to have sex, but the boy has to have it, then it only means that the boy is disrespectful to the girl and even a little overbearing.

So how do the two parties in love master a scale? For example, what intimate behaviors are acceptable and which are not.

Some intimate behaviors do make both parties feel satisfied, such as hugging, kissing, dancing together, or traveling together, which are healthy behaviors of intimacy between men and women, and these behaviors do not lead to excessive impulsivity between men and women.

But there are some behaviors to pay attention to, such as when two people are hugging, the boy takes off the girl's clothes, or his hand touches some sensitive parts of the girl, then the girl should refuse. Because in this case, if you don't refuse, then it will create a misunderstanding, and the boy thinks that if you don't reject me, I will have sex next, and you will agree. In fact, the girl may not agree, but acquiescing to this dangerous behavior will cause a misunderstanding.