I m in love, but I seem to have a lot of troubles, so I ask a friend passing by to give me some advi

Alas, judging from what you said, you still don't understand what is the first love, the so-called first love is not the person who is in love with you, but the first person you fall in love with, the first person who makes you think about it, I see, this man just appeared when you want to fall in love, you ask your heart, do you really love him? Also, a person you really love, will you always suspect that the other party is lying to you? You said you were very introverted and had nothing to say, I told you, if two people are together if they have thought about the future, then there will be endless words, if you haven't thought about the future, then your relationship together needs to be strengthened, understand a person, you don't have to care about his past, but you have to learn to accept his past, so when there is no topic to talk about, talk about the past experience, talk about the future life, but also remember that you are boyfriend and girlfriend, the most important thing is to fall in love, then sweet words are indispensable, Many people will say that sweet words are empty words, but you must know that this human being has existed for so long, and sweet words have not fallen behind, which means that there is still the value of its existence, and falling in love is to be attentive, so that the other party will really feel your sincerity.

You can't talk about your first love, do you like him? What do you like about him? Won't you like him to skip school, fight, smoke, and drink bars?

Especially if you are still the kind of conservative girl, this kind of person is not suitable for you, the longer you get along, the more trouble it is, it is best to break up early, if you encounter entanglement, hide or ask your brother to protect you, it's okay, when the relationship should come, you can't stop it.

Oh, yes! You don't have to be too fast, you can also take the initiative! That way, each other won't be so untopical! Isn't it? Let go of your heart! But don't get up close too fast! Let each other know each other.

If he really loves you, he will bow his head, and even if you don't love him, he will chase you. If he doesn't keep in touch with you, it means he just wants to try it with you.

Looking at what you wrote, I don't think you are suitable, so hurry up and divide it.

Treat each other sincerely, and let the rest be fateful!

Go with the flow and don't force it. She is not the only woman in the world who deserves your love.

Men and women have different understandings of happiness, men think that they can only talk about happiness if they give each other material security, while young girls think that happiness is happiness, there are not so many other things, women pay more attention to feelings;

Your boyfriend is now a doctor, maybe he doesn't have a job yet, maybe his income is not high, and he can't provide you with enough material security, so he doesn't seem to be qualified to talk about love, and he is not too young, and he may be under a lot of pressure. It is recommended that when you chat with your boyfriend, encourage him more and talk less about financial pressure, it should be said that the starting point of a doctorate is higher than that of ordinary people, and the probability of success in society is also higher;

People are not perfect, perfect are gods, not in the world, you say that he has few sweet words, if other aspects are ok, don't be too picky, there is no one in the world who completely meets your requirements, and you can't be perfect.

It's not easy to find someone you like and like yourself, I wish you happiness!

If a man loves you, his actions can manifest themselves. Your boyfriend is 30 years old, men of this age are more mature and stable, it is impossible to talk about you all day long, although he doesn't say it, but it doesn't mean that he doesn't want to, and it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. There are many things that men have to think about, love, family, career, socialization, etc., etc.

In a man's love, there must be a certain amount of material security, love without material security, even if you are willing to accept poverty with him, he is unwilling, because men need to take on too many responsibilities, love someone, if you can't even give her what she wants, then how to love her? According to your boyfriend's situation, it is estimated that he has not succeeded in his career, so be more cautious about what you do! Including love.

A cautious man, I'm afraid he has been injured before, what you need is a man who can make you happy, and he is the kind of man who is very realistic, and will consider whether he can do it before doing things, so there are good and bad places, on the one hand, he is more down-to-earth, but it is too realistic, I am afraid it is not the kind you need. On the other hand, many things are like arithmetic problems for him, and the amount of benefits and gains and losses is the most important, so it is recommended that you be deep and run in more to see if you can really accept him.

Hello, everyone's feelings are different, and the understanding of love is also different, what do you think love is? For me now, love is a deep longing. , a kind of helplessness that forgets each other in the rivers and lakes.

You also said that he is a very rational and stable person, why ask for so much, the most important thing is to cherish the happiness in front of him.