Do you think it s understandable how I feel?

I can feel that my girlfriend recently left me for this reason that she didn't feel for me, and I was sad. What I want to say is that since you choose a person, there are not only feelings, but also responsibilities, and some things do not come by feelings alone, or feelings can also deceive people. For example, your boyfriend, he definitely wants to play the role of charcoal in your life, not the icing on the cake or plain as water, but does he want you to be difficult for him to save?

Surely he doesn't want you to have anything, so these seemingly ordinary daily lives are filled with the greatest care for you, the so-called big love is in a small place, it may just be a cup of milk tea for him when you are tired, and a not-so-delicious meal he cooks when you are hungry, not a handful of roses for someone who wants to pursue you, a sweet word. Furthermore, how many new feelings can you experience, people will eventually get old, can you always like the new and hate the old? Therefore, it is your happiness and your responsibility to maintain your love.

I wish the landlord happiness.

This is what love is all about! Loyalty, very important! Reason, can't be lost! Risking the loss of someone who loves you dearly, just for a feeling, isn't worth it!

In fact, you yourself have already solved your problems. Which man doesn't have the image of ** beauty in his head, and he doesn't have the feeling of wanting to be in Feifei. It is estimated that women are even more the same, and women's feelings and imaginations should be stronger and richer than men's.

Uncle Ge said that love in the twenty-first world is the most expensive, which makes sense. One is that there is little true love, and the other is that even if there is true love, it cannot be maintained for a long time, and love is not a state, but an instantaneous impulse. The third is that there are many people who don't know what love is, don't know what marriage is, and don't know how to feel peace in life when they die.

If you get divorced and get married again, then after a while it will still be the same as now, or even worse than now, because you have less loyalty that you care about very much.

There are 2 short stories, one is that there are many seashells on the seaside, some are big, some are beautiful, some are amazing, etc., but no matter how much you look for them, you won't find them all. You can only find your favorite among the ones you have seen, and then treasure them. But if you want this shell to always be your favorite, never come back to the beach.

There is also a story that says that your lover is not perfect in your eyes now, if you feel that he is not now, and you still love him, it means that your love is mature and rational, this love is transformed into family affection, if he can be the same as you, then your marriage is happy. (The law stipulates that the status of husband and wife and immediate family members is the same, do you say that family affection is not the same?) )

You also said that although it is bland, it is a feeling of never leaving. And the feeling that the person who pursues you gives you is temporary, and one day the feeling between you will become flat, that is, you may regret that you have given up a bland happiness.

Relationships need to be managed, recall more memories you have had, and give each other some surprises.

I wish you happiness.

Then it's up to your conscience. If you don't know love, don't say love. You don't want love. You want to feel.

Come to a little surprise from time to time, no way, most of them have been like this for a long time. It's up to you to adjust.

1.When you go to your parents' house, choose to go in your left ear and go out in your right ear. You are already a mother, and you are also aware of hail, knowing that the family atmosphere can affect a child's character. So when you go to your parents' house, you can just deal with it.

2.I understand you very well, it is clear that your parents have too high expectations of you and want you to live the way they want, this high-class parents are more face-conscious, and your mother-in-law and father-in-law create a happy and relaxed atmosphere, this way is desirable.

1.Advice to you: You can usually read some parenting books, which are conducive to managing your children well, such as Ms. Li Meijin's books.

2.Be a wise woman, visit your parents' house once in a while, and don't try to change your parents. They may have realized the mistakes of their education, but they can't save face.

can understand a little, after all, many parents are exhausted when they work outside, so they don't spend a lot of time chatting with their children, so they already have a family plan, step by step, and don't want their children to take detours, they will want their children to listen to them. In fact, the atmosphere of each family is not necessarily the same, just like there will be a family with your mother-in-law's family getting along with each other, no matter what, it is also appropriate to go home to see your parents more, but you don't have too much psychological pressure, do your best, do your duty, like the way of your mother-in-law's house, just integrate into it.

It is in the blessing, but it also knows the blessing! You know that your parents love you, and you like to get along with your mother-in-law's family, so you can live in an environment that you like, isn't it good? We and our parents have different thoughts, in fact, it is not difficult to understand each other, but understanding and acceptance are not the same, you can try to do "the left ear is scattered, the right ear is out" but don't show it, just listen quietly (small advice), don't quarrel, quarrels will make everyone unhappy, just listen to their nagging quietly as a child!

As the saying goes, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, as long as it is related to the health of the parents, everything is good, the ears are a little tired, don't go to the heart, but after all, the parents have walked more than the children, and if it is useful, it must be accepted by Xinyan!

The inherent mode of getting along with a family is not so easy to break, the different educational levels of the growth environment are different, you envy the family atmosphere of your object, maybe others also envy your family, since the parents' starting point is good, you are powerless to change, why force it, how many years can your parents accompany you, let go of the stool Pei Song's mood, change the angle, not to say that you are in your 80s, and your parents will still treat you as a child, you might as well listen to the nagging, this ear is out of that ear, and the hee-hee-haha will be rude in the past, Don't embarrass yourself, and don't force others.

Can you understand the feelings? What should I do If you feel this way, it is true that other people don't have the bridge ruler method uh can experience it so if you encounter this kind of family rental atmosphere, I think you still have to follow the wishes of your parents, because they have no way to change it.

Now that he is married, he has opened his parents, isn't it that the stove has gotten rid of the lack of luck? When I go back to my parents' house, I endure it and make a show, and I don't often go back to my parents' house anyway.

Love is too heavy, find a man who can give you a relaxed and happy love than Shengqin, a man who can let your parents hand you over and rest assured, you don't have to be too rich and expensive, but like you said, you still have to worry about food and clothing. You're already a parent, hasn't your new home relieved you of this first-burning burden and heavy love? Are you too tired to live?

In any case, our parents are for our good, and as for what they are, there is no way to make them change, we can only listen.

Empathize and understand your parents more.

It's very weak, I feel. This is a mode of getting along, not respected and valued, without a voice, and unequal. Maybe they feel like they're parents and you're just kids, they have authority and you have to listen to them.

It will not accept your opinions, will not make your suggestions and do this, this is a family without communication. There will be no interaction and communication, no equality and respect. The atmosphere is serious and depressing, not relaxed and pleasant, because it is always preachy, just ask who likes to be preached by a hail clan, and don't listen to your thoughts at all.

Hope to get it.

Summary. 2.I understand you very well, it is clear that your parents have too high expectations of you and want you to live the way they want, this kind of parents are more face-conscious, and your mother-in-law and father-in-law create a happy and relaxed atmosphere, this way is desirable.

1.Advice to you: You can usually read some parenting books, which is conducive to managing you well, and the above is mine.

I'm sorry I don't understand, but can you elaborate on that?

2.I understand you very well, and it is clear that your parents have too high expectations of you and want you to ask them to live the way they are, and this kind of parents are more face-conscious, and your mother-in-law and father-in-law agree to create a happy and relaxed atmosphere, which is desirable. 1.

Advice to you: You can usually read some parenting books, which is conducive to the pipe cover Wan Hui to take care of you, and the above is mine.

In fact, in my life and growing up, there were many moments when I felt that it was not easy for my parents. Without the dedication of parents, there will be no good life for children, each of our children must be grateful, for parents we really can't repay their kindness.

First of all, when you are immersed in work, you should search for this time.

I remember when I was a child, there was always such a picture in my mind: my parents were buried in the fields, and their clothes were soaked with sweat. But staring at the scorching sun, the parents still buried their heads in hard work.

At that time, I was a little kid, I could only sit on the sidelines and watch my parents, although I didn't know how to understand my parents at that time, but the picture of my parents working hard was deeply engraved in my mind. Later, as I grew up, I felt more and more that it was not easy, and I will never forget the picture of my parents working hard, and that moment was the best proof of my parents' dedication to the family and their children.

Secondly, see the gray hair of the parents.

I don't know when, I found out that my parents had gray hair on their heads, and at that moment I felt that it was too difficult for my parents, and the fatigue of life made them have white hair prematurely. My parents, who were young and strong in front of me, suddenly turned white, and I felt very guilty and uneasy. I don't feel comfortable accepting my parents' aging, and I also lament that life is not easy.

Again, see the wrinkles of the parents.

Also, the moment I found out that my parents had wrinkles on their faces, I suddenly felt very sour in my heart. At that moment, I suddenly felt that life was too difficult, and at the same time, I felt powerless as a child. In order to manage the whole family, parents no longer care about their appearance and aging.

They feel that their family and children are the most important, and that they have only selflessness in their hearts, not themselves.

In each of our children's hearts, we may treasure many moments of life, in which we find that our parents are old, that our parents are hunchbacked, and that our parents are always giving to our children. Love your parents more and go home more to spend time with your parents.

1. It turns out that after so long, he still thinks of the topic of this group of delicate respects.

2. When I hear something that is obviously irrelevant, I will think of you in my heart several times.

3. Take screenshots of all your chat history, save it, and read it often.

4. I used to think that it would not be too bad to love someone alone, but I didn't find out later that it was just a lonely struggle, which only touched me.

5. Like a person, he will be humbled to the point of erection and then bloom a flower.

6. Looking forward to meeting him, but afraid of meeting him, afraid of all the embarrassments and small situations that may arise, but I am so eager to see him What I want to say is typed and deleted in the dialog box, deleted and typed

7, because her words can change the mood of Shentian.

8. "What ends up dead in your hands." ”

9. I want to love you with all my strengths, but the shortcomings are like little tails that can't be hidden, and they also want to hug you.

10. Bright is very bright, bright is useless, useless is bright, just like I like you, I like you useless, I like you uselessly.

11. There is some pain, I can't describe it.

12. I'm not waiting for you to like me, I'm waiting for me to dislike you.

13. He laughs when he thinks of it, laughs when he sees him, and wants to give him all the good things.

14. I will save the chat history with you, and occasionally flip through it to see how many pages I fell in love with you.

15, obviously there are no taboos, you are one hundred and one.

16. Very serious and serious, because his words are happy or sad, and his mood is all controlled by him, I really hate the feeling of dying, and in the end, I gave myself freedom.

I remember it was a sunny summer morning. The sun shines on the ground, and the grass fills the meadow with the scent of fresh flowers and plants. I set off with my family for a holiday in the countryside.

We were in the car of the trip, and there was an atmosphere of anticipation and excitement. **Ringing happily, we sang and laughed all the way.

Finally arriving at our destination, we came to a pleasant lake. The water is crystal clear, with a breeze blowing and rippling. I couldn't wait to take off my shoes and run to the lake and step on the soft sand.

I felt the watery celery blossoms splash on my feet, and the cool sensation spread throughout my body. The water is so cool and comfortable, it makes me feel refreshed.

I played in the water with my friends, jumped into the lake and took a dip. We played, laughed, and enjoyed the joy of being free. Sometimes, we also build sandcastles by the lake, using our imagination to create wonderful worlds.

On this happy day, we don't worry about tomorrow's tasks or responsibilities and just simply enjoy the moment.

When it was time for lunch, we sat together by the lake for a picnic. The smell of food fills the air, and we taste delicious food and share stories and jokes with each other. In the laughter, we felt the power of intimacy and friendship.

In the afternoon, we continue to explore the surrounding nature. We climbed up the hill and looked out at the scenery in the distance. I felt the grandeur and infinite beauty of nature, and my heart was filled with awe and gratitude.

The sunset was brilliant and colorful, and we found a comfortable place to sit and watch the beautiful sunset. The sun was sinking and the sky was covered with orange and pink clouds.

color, reflected on the surface of the lake. At this moment, I felt serene and calm, and my heart was filled with a beautiful gratitude for the sailors of life.