The Difficulty of Getting Married 120

It seems that your sister-in-law is too poor. Isn't there a famous saying? Xiucai is unclear when he meets a soldier. It's better to listen to your boyfriend, and after dividing the well water, the river water will not be interfered with.

It's best not to clash head-on with your sister-in-law, there are still elderly people in charge of things at home, as long as you live your own little life.

People are good at being bullied, so be tough.

Let's split up first, and then take care of themselves, she has nothing to say, otherwise there will be no end to such entanglement.

At this time, you should split up first, otherwise the future will be even more difficult Since it is your future sister-in-law, you can't make a stiff (we don't care about people who don't have quality).

Find an old man to testify to your future sister-in-law who will save the debt.

How to say it, it's really not easy to come up with any way to do such housework, your situation is very similar to the situation in my classmate's family, and if a woman talks about it, it's very scary. If such a family wants to marry in the past, it is necessary to have a certain amount of mental preparation, my classmate's parents did this, his parents are very old, so the real estate and land property were done in advance, and the property was justified through legal means, and then the property was given to my friend half, but then my friend and his sister-in-law did not go according to justice, that is, they did not pay it, I have to say that my classmate's parents were raised by him, and then his father made a will, and the will also passed the legal justice, In the will, the property was divided equally, and later half of the property was successfully obtained through legal means, I don't know if this story has inspired you, I hope it can help you.

You are not married yet, and it is inconvenient for you to participate in the affairs of your boyfriend's family, I agree with your boyfriend's attitude, so it is natural to separate the family first and then get married, even if it is good first. Let the elders of the family testify.

Getting married is not as simple as falling in love, and if you want to get married, you have to consider both the feelings of two people and whether they are suitable or not.

You can't ignore the happiness in front of you because of the future, and marriage is related to the rest of your life. There are great differences in attitudes towards marriage, and it is often said that "marriage is the grave of love, and after marriage, it is necessary to prevent oneself from moving one's own grave and to prevent others from robbing the grave."

Getting married is not a simple thing, and you have to think about your future. Life is very long, and if two people have nothing to say, they will become very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker. When there is a distance in their hearts, it is time for the marriage to end.

With someone who has the same hobbies as you, you can do what you love together and talk about things together. Even if two people sit there quietly, they will not feel embarrassed and can get along happily.

The stabilizing aspect of the economy is a big decisive factor. There is also an increasing number of families in which both men and women work. That being said, it is sometimes difficult for women to work full-time as before due to reasons such as childbirth and childcare.

Then the requirements for men after marriage will appear, even if women do not work, they need to have enough money to support themselves. Men who have a stable job as full-time employees and men who have established a certain position in the company can be said to be the factors that determine who will marry.

Personally, I think that getting married is indeed a difficult thing, you have to go through a long time of two people's understanding, feel that the other party and your personality and living habits are completely consistent, and there are not too many differences and contradictions before you can choose to get married, this process is very long.

1. Choose a matching person to marry.

Your family conditions are comparable, so you try to get along with him, find that you don't reject him, slowly develop feelings for him, get along for a while and get married.

2. Marry because he is good to you.

Most girls don't want anything when they get married, just want him to be nice to you, feel that they have finally met someone who can spoil them, so they enter into marriage.

But such a marriage is prone to crisis. Because a person can be good to you or not, when various realities after marriage make two people start to run, compromise, and argue, the relationship will quickly enter the freezing period.

3. Because I have been in love for a period of time and I am old enough to get married, I married him.

This phenomenon of getting married because it's time to get married is very common, two people have gone through the run-in period, and they have adapted to each other's existence in life, so they enter into marriage.

In this kind of situation, if you want to live a good marriage, you need to see whether there are problems with the communication mode, interaction mode, conflict handling mechanism, and expression of love between the two people. In other words, it depends on whether two people can communicate with each other, whether they are comfortable with each other when they get along, whether they will solve conflicts well, and whether two people will express love for each other. If these four points are okay, the marriage will be happy.

ConclusionMarriage is not child's play, so before making the decision to get married, you must have sufficient psychological preparation and enough mutual understanding, and feel a happier life after marriage.

After marriage, you have to face firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, and a plain life. If you feel happy, it's not hard.

Getting married is not a difficult thing, and you can make your life sweeter and happier.

For me yes, marriage is the grave of love.

The reasons why people feel afraid of marriage are generally as follows. 1. Women who are afraid of no freedom after marriage want to be free, and men want more, even if they are in love, men also want to have their own private space. Men themselves have the nature of "big and coarse", they don't care about many things, once they get married, someone is in charge, and they usually even have to ask questions about drinking with their brothers, even if the wife is not a person who loves to be controlled, but a responsible man will feel an invisible constraint.

2. Worried that he will not be able to bear the responsibilities after marriage, the man is the "backbone" of the family, if he can't take care of the whole family, it is likely to cause the marriage to fail, and the man's heart is also very hard. Therefore, when a man is not mature enough or the economic conditions are not enough to support a family, he will be afraid of marriage. 3. Most ordinary men who are unwilling to marry restrict their careers, in addition to supporting the material needs of the family on the one hand, must also bear the trivial affairs of the family.

In addition to earning money outside, men also have to do housework, and they also have to deal with these and all these things between relatives on both sides of the family. Do a good job of all kinds of intricate relationships at home and outside the home. 4. Not loving his girlfriend enough may be the biggest reason for most men who don't want to get married.

Not loving enough, not loving enough, so unwilling to join hands with each other to grow old, giving up the outside world and free and easy life.

In this case, there should be more communication and communication.

<> "I haven't thought about these three things, don't be in a hurry to get married."

If you don't think about these three things, don't rush to get married, especially the last one, 90% of people will ignore it.

Clause. 1. Where do you live after getting married?

Are you ready to marry a house, or are you ready to rent a house, or live with your parents?

Marriage means that two people are independent from their original family and start a new family. If you want to live with your parents in order to save money after marriage, it means that your economy and thinking are not yet independent and you have not grown up, so you can't leave your parents to live alone.

Clause. Second, how to distribute the expenses of the mu of pure pulse at home.

Water bills, electricity bills, gas bills, property fees, etc., two people living together, there will be countless bills, large and small. Therefore, before marriage, it is necessary to negotiate a way that is comfortable for both parties, rather than leaving all the pressure to one of them, and the adult world is to dare to talk about money.

Clause. 3. Ugly words ahead.

Before getting married, you must dare to talk about divorce, if one day you inevitably want to divorce, can you divorce rationally and amicably? Marriage is very quick and easy, as long as you find someone who is willing to take the bait, go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to line up together, pay money, take a photo, and get a marriage certificate.

But divorce is much more difficult than marriage, and you have to deal with all kinds of divisions and tears in life, emotionally, property, and custody.

Many people are a little overwhelmed when faced with the matter of getting married. If you want to ask for a solution to relieve this emotion, you need to analyze the reason for the loss. A few points in the title:

First, getting married suddenly means that the matter of marriage is about to be faced;

second, at a loss, the slender brother rented, indicating that he was a little confused in his thoughts and a little worried and scared emotionally;

Try to analyze these conditions to find ways to mitigate them.

1.Communicate well with the other person and be confident in your relationship.

Being overwhelmed could be that you are not confident enough in your relationship. Based on the relationship you have been with, you are worried that your boyfriend or girlfriend does not love you as much as you think. Fear of unpleasant and bad situations after marriage.

In this case, all you need to do is open up to the other person.

Present the pros and cons of getting married, and fully respect your feelings. In fact, the fact that you have come to the point where you decide to get married is in itself due to your accumulated feelings. Otherwise, how could you have made the decision to get married?

It's just that at this juncture, because I haven't experienced it, I'm just a little emotionally nervous and fluctuating, which is normal. Have a good talk, get a kind of recognition for two people to get along, and maintain confidence in the relationship. The feeling of being overwhelmed is naturally relieved.

2.I believe in the power of love between two people and can change everything.

It can also be caused by some temporary uncertainty about the future. For example, some material conditions, not enough money, and so on. This requires the two of you to plan and discuss it.

Life can be lived in any way, a little luxury, a little plain is okay, if the conditions are not enough, temporarily lower some requirements.

It's not that you can't go on. It is important for both partners who love each other to have the confidence to work together and fight together in the days of their future marriage to change the existing situation.

Love itself is a spiritual fit, two people have common ideals and goals, the so-called like-mindedness. With this, no matter how many difficulties can be passed. Boys, in particular, should give more encouragement and confidence to girls. With the power of love, everything can be for the better.

3.Look at some of the positive examples of people who have come before.

It may also be that you see some unhappy marriages and families around you, and you are worried that you will become like that. If you think about it this way, there are all kinds of situations in the world, but in the end, most of them are happy families. There must be a lot of couples around you who are living happily with relatives, friends, colleagues and the like.

Looking at their happy life, comparing your love is not bad, it naturally increases a lot of self-confidence.

4.I have confidence in my original ruined life circle and move to after marriage.

It is also possible that you are worried that you will lose some of the things you used to have after getting married, such as the daily routine of your parents, the gathering of friends, etc. Actually, if you do it well, none of these things will change. You can often see your parents, you can often meet friends together, there is no problem, and friendship and family will not be lost because of marriage.

Don't worry about it.