What does my boyfriend mean when he says I m stupid and can t do this?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-23
75 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When your boyfriend says you're stupid, he just looks down on you and belittles you a little bit to elevate yourself. If the two don't have the same views, then it's better to separate.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The boyfriend says that you are stupid, this is not good, regardless of his business, which means that he is saying that you are so stupid, it has nothing to do with him, or it may be that it is not his business, it is possible that he is angry, so he will say this.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My boyfriend said I was stupid, this can't be done, what does it mean to be about him? What he means is that you don't think things through, he instructs you, and you don't listen, he really can't get angry and say a word.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You tell him that you don't like to hear him like that, that I am who I am, that I know my weaknesses and that I am improving, but you can't criticize me all the time, you have to learn to praise my strengths.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think the boy may be talking angry, well, saying that in fact, he thinks you are clumsy and maybe it's cute, but he says you're stupid and it's none of his business, well, it means that I hope you can be independent, you can be strong, you can do more things.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What your boyfriend says means is that you're stupid, he can't, it's none of his business.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    My boyfriend said that you were stupid, but he stood by and watched, so that you could grow your brain, hurt in your heart, and love in your heart to force you to do the work by yourself, and call him face, next time you can practice makes perfect and you will not be stupid.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, he loves you, cares about you so much, and hopes that you will not be bullied.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Your boyfriend doesn't think you can do something, but he won't help you either.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's right to care about each other, everyone will have advantages and disadvantages, it's better to be tolerant, don't always do what the other party thinks they do, everyone's understanding and habits of things are different, understand each other and empathize. That's how life is.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Your boyfriend says you're stupid, but in fact he cares about you, because he likes you and cares about you, and likes you to be smarter than other women.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    She says this to motivate you and make things better for you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This should be something that you don't agree with and then what he will say, so this kind of thing should be said like this.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    My boyfriend said you were stupid, this can't do it, it's about him, what do you mean? That is to say, it is not his business at all, and he doesn't want to care about the most itchy things.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Emotional things, you have to believe him, there are some things he doesn't ask you back, then you really have to be careful. You have to pay attention to something.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It means that he said you're not very smart, and it has nothing to do with him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Two people need to run in with each other when they are together, whether it is a little communication or not, they can't say that each other is stupid and affect each other's mood.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Is your boyfriend trying to give up on you? Judging by his tone, the words he spoke may have been a bit excessive.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hello, it means that the other party dislikes you stupidly, and it is none of his business when something happens, and she doesn't care about you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Maybe it's just trying for you to do what he thinks.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    He should think you're stupid, but he's helpless about you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    My boyfriend says you're stupid, you tell him if I'm smart, I don't know how to make a fool like you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Then your boyfriend may feel that he doesn't care about you, maybe he has no sense of responsibility, and thinks that no matter what happens to you, it's none of his business, and he really doesn't love you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    My boyfriend said I was stupid, this can't be done, it's about him, what do you mean? Say you, don't be sensible, say what can't you do?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Are you so stupid, it's not his business, it's someone else's business?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    My boyfriend said I was stupid, this can't work, what does it mean to shut him up? What he means is that you're stupid.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It may be that you feel like a little child who needs to be cared for, and he loves you very much.

    The word stupid may have been a derogatory term in the past, but nowadays, few people use it as a derogatory term, and this stupid word, in my opinion, is used exclusively for the closest people, such as girlfriends, and boyfriends.

    The average boyfriend will always say to his girlfriend, why are you so stupid. As a girl who has a partner, and is often called stupid by her boyfriend, and often called a pig by her boyfriend, I feel very happy. Because from my point of view, I feel that my boyfriend loves me very much, and the words "little fool", "pig", etc., are the nicknames he gave me, and to be honest, I also like to hear him call me that.

    When the girl was serving the meal, the boy pushed the girl away and said, "So stupid, I'll do it"; When eating the apple, the girl washed two of them, but the boy grabbed them, took a bite of one, and then threw one to the girl seemingly casually. Maybe there will be girls here who are very angry, saying that the boy is bullying, but in fact, this is the case, the boy doesn't want the girl to do heavy work, so he finds an excuse to grab it and mop the floor by himself;

    When serving rice, the bowl is very hot, and the boy doesn't want to burn the girl, so he will say that to serve the girl rice, and the apple boy takes a bite, which is to ensure that the apple is the best one for the girl, so every time the girl eats the apple is sweet, the boy's apple generally doesn't taste very good.

    In the eyes of men, women are always children, and they love their beloved people like treasures, always holding them in the palm of their hands. So, don't pay too much attention to these things, this is exactly the little bit of his love for you in his heart.

    Your boyfriend says you're stupid, but he's actually treating you well with his actions, so cherish that boyfriend who always thinks you're stupid, because he really loves you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This is normal, it is precisely because of the very good relationship between two people and people who still have deep feelings that they will say this about you. It's like your parents say all day long that you are lazy like a pig, and you sleep at home except for eating. Secondly, men are generally not very good at expressing feelings directly, and while saying that you are stupid, your eyes must be full of doting, so what doubts do you have in this case?

    Finally, I would like to give you a piece of advice: if he loves you very much, then cherish it.

    Thanks for adopting.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    On the one hand, you are indeed a little stupid, and on the other hand, it is a so-called flirting between men and women, which is not necessarily accusing you of being stupid! Be different, don't be suspicious, cherish your relationship, please adopt, thank you, good luck...

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If he wasn't like this before, it may really be, after a long time together, after that sweetest period, in fact, in this world, no one will coax you forever, boyfriend is the same, if he really loves you, and should not spoil you as a child, then, when he is by your side, of course he can take care of you, what if one day he is gone? He will worry about how you are going to live on your own, and he will worry about what you will do at that time. Two people are together, it's not a matter of one or two days, you can be spoiled by him, or you can make mistakes occasionally, but you must learn to be independent, he is your dependence, but he is also an ordinary person, sometimes, you must also be his dependence, understand?

    If he has always been like this, then he should be a very serious person, depending on whether you like this kind of person or not, but I see what you said, it seems that he was not like this before.

    Talk to him seriously and maturely, don't cry, don't treat yourself as a child, you are equal, he is not your parent, tell him that you will try to do some things around you well in the future, but don't always say that you are stupid, because you love her, so you will be very hit, I believe that if he really loves you, he will change his methods appropriately.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    That is to say, you are cute, I think you are stupid, and I want to protect you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Your boyfriend is joking around with you.

    Your boyfriend says you're stupid and cherishes.

    My boyfriend always says you're stupid and lovely.

    Actually, it's a joke between husband and wife!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It can be said to be a kind of pampering, treating you like a child.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Actually, this is to praise you for being cute.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It shows that he dislikes you, and maybe you are not suitable to be together.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I think it means that I want to love you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    My boyfriend used to like to criticize me, I couldn't understand it, I thought he didn't love me so I broke up with him, but now I also meet the guy I really like, I find that I always like to comment on him and say that he is not good at anything, hehe. In fact, love is to death.

    So don't think about anything, because I love you very much, when you are your own person, so you can't talk but brain, hehe, you just laugh, and then hammer him and say, don't you like me like this? Haha, if I can do anything, how can I show your wisdom.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Maybe it feels like you're a child.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    The meaning of spoiling, the relationship between the two is really intimate.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    No, I always call my wife stupid, but I never thought she was stupid.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    You look at the occasion and look at the expression.

    You don't usually say you're stupid.

    It's an expression of love.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's hurting you, and you can hurt her.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    He said that you are stupid is not necessarily the kind of stupidity that really wants to hurt you, it may be a manifestation of spoiling you, for example, couples say fools, little fools, etc., aren't these all flirting words between couples, he is good to you proves that he likes you a lot, don't think too much about messy, two people are good.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It's just a term of endearment, just like parents call their children, silly boys, silly girls, it's not that you're stupid and stupid, it's a title that loves you.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Your boyfriend always says you're stupid, but it's actually one of them. I think you're cute.,The kind that can be stupid and smart is not the kind that dislikes you.,He likes you.。

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    I like you, I can't put it down.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Because you are stupid, he is afraid that others will bully you.

    Because you're stupid, he's going to treat you well.

    Because you are stupid, you will be separated that day, and you may never see him like you and everything about you again.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Saying that you are stupid may also be a manifestation of love for you, couples often say that each other is stupid, sometimes it is a kind of spoiling, I think you are cute, do you need to ask about this? If you've watched TV, you should know probably.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    There are three possibilities for a boyfriend to generally say that his girlfriend is stupid:

    1. Habitual has no meaning.

    2. When you don't know what to say, but you want to express your feelings for you 3. Maybe in his eyes, your behavior is really naïve and stupid!!

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Because you're a kid at heart! Dumb kids who need to be pampered!

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    In both cases, he loves you, love words between lovers, or his mantra.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Prove that he is a person who is better than you! That's why you call you stupid!

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    If you say that you are always the stupidest in his heart, it means that he is not satisfied with you in his mind, if you say it when you are not angry, if you are stupid in an angry tone, it is ambiguous to you.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Tongue it! Just ask your friends.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    This is usually the case with couples!

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Pampering, nickname without malice.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    What can I mean, it's just that I like you.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    He means that he likes you stupidly.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    That's like you, haha.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    When a guy really loves a girl, he will say that she is stupid and has a strong desire to protect you. Just like I did to my girlfriend, I sometimes kissed her on the forehead after I told her that she was stupid, and I really loved her.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    Can't say anything....But he must like you.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-07

    The man said his girlfriend wife was smart... Is your dad saying mom is smart? Because men are people who never grow up and don't cherish the people around them.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-06

    It means to paralyze you and make you think that you are really stupid and stupid...

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-05

    One is really stupid and stupid but it is synonymous with love.

  65. Anonymous users2023-12-04

    He is protective of you and is a sign of love for you.

  66. Anonymous users2023-12-03

    Men are like this to their likes for girls, that's a term of endearment.

  67. Anonymous users2023-12-02

    My boyfriend always calls me stupid and stupid, but he really loves me, and that's a sign of loving you.

  68. Anonymous users2023-12-01

    In your usual contact with your boyfriend, such as words and actions, your boyfriend feels abnormal.

  69. Anonymous users2023-11-30

    What do you say? What's the tone!

  70. Anonymous users2023-11-29

    Hitting is hurting, scolding, and loving almost that.

  71. Anonymous users2023-11-28

    If you say it with a smile, it means that he treats you as a daughter, and you are the object of his protection, so this is also a kind of endearment.

  72. Anonymous users2023-11-27

    If it's in public, it's a sign that he doesn't respect you and doesn't care about you; It shows that this boy is a bit machismo, and sees your behavior as a sign of you, the mentally retarded, and adds some words to you to express the mentally retarded; If two people are flirting in private, then such a word expresses that he loves you and wants to protect you.

  73. Anonymous users2023-11-26

    Instructions like you! Love you! It's a spoiler for you!

  74. Anonymous users2023-11-25

    This depends on the expression and tone of voice when speaking.

  75. Anonymous users2023-11-24

    It's that you don't know how to care and care.

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