Is it appropriate to get married as soon as you graduate from college?

There is no such thing as a suitable or inappropriate word on this issue, as long as you feel it is appropriate, it is appropriate; If you don't feel like it's right, then no one can sway your thoughts.

In addition to finding a job, the most difficult thing for college students to face when they graduate is finding a partner to marry. reminds me of the joke I ridiculed on the Internet before, which roughly means that parents take precautions when their children are studying, for fear that their children will fall in love early, affect their grades, and abandon their studies, but when they graduate, they can't wait to have an object that can make their children start a family immediately, get married and have children. But how can there be such a good thing?

For children who have never been in love, or who have no partner, you can't just find a random one on the street and get married just because your parents are in a hurry.

According to the legal age of marriage in the country, 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women, it seems that there is nothing wrong with getting married immediately after graduation, but this can only be based on the fact that both parties are mature enough. In fact, in China, the vast majority of people are still in the stage of "giant babies", and many young people, although their biological age has reached the legal age of marriage, or even greater, but in terms of mental development, they are still in the "baby" stage. There is no way to think independently, cannot be financially independent, and even leave their parents, so they cannot take care of themselves.

And everyone is a "baby" in the family, and no one can touch or scold.

Under such circumstances, how long can you be happy if you let two children get married? Are they ready to tolerate each other? Are they ready to become parents?

Do they know the responsibilities that come with their marriage? I think the answer is very clear in many people's minds. Therefore, if you get married as soon as you graduate from college, there is no question of whether it is suitable or not, but you should think about these problems and then decide whether you want to get married, rather than when you are old, the other party is not bad, and the family has requirements, so you get married.

According to the laws of our country, men and women can get married at the age of 20, but what you have to think about is that your feelings for your boyfriend are negative, and the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage, marriage is not a matter of two people, you have to consider the family, as well as the relationship between husband and wife, two people will show shortcomings that they did not know before when they are together every day, so it is recommended to be later in the case that everything may be variable.

Many people get married as soon as they graduate from college, and whether you think this is good or not mainly depends on these factors.

The first factor is to seek truth from facts and analyze specific problems in detail. I got married when I was in graduate school, and looking back now, it was a good arrangement.

The second aspect of the factor, opposition! Just graduated, I don't have the financial strength to maintain all kinds of expenses after marriage, I haven't experienced all kinds of experiences in society, and I don't know if I really found true love or three-minute heat. The mind and ability are not mature enough, after graduation, you should come out to work and start a business, instead of rushing to get married, marriage is a sacred, a kind of responsibility, this responsibility is linked to yourself and your family.

After marriage, all kinds of rules and regulations bind you, all kinds of problems you can't imagine will waste you a lot of energy and money, and don't waste more than ten or twenty years of professional knowledge.

The third factor depends on the child's own plan for the future. Nowadays, children have a lot of ideas, if the children have their own considerations and plans, they have a sense of responsibility for the family and children, and marriage can form a stable partnership. If it's just a momentary brain fever, you should communicate more with your child.

Although young people have the ability to make mistakes, feelings are not casual after all.

The fourth factor, the child is going to get married just after graduating from college, which I personally oppose! Because the child has just finished his studies after graduating from college, he has no social experience and experience, and he is not mature enough to be a person and a person, how can he deal with the all-round things of a family in the future. Even if a child has just graduated and joined the workforce, he does not have any economic and material foundation that he has created, and how can he have the ability to create a hardware and material foundation for a future family.

Marriage means responsibilities and obligations, people who are physically and mentally and economically immature blindly and quickly enter marriage, and many unexpected family conflicts and trivialities in the future will bring a lot of troubles and unnecessary troubles to people, so getting married just after graduating from college is more harmful than good.

This is not good, because if you get married as soon as you graduate, you will not have a career foundation, and I think you have to start a business before you can start a family.

I don't think that's good, after graduating from university, you should first go to the society and have a stable career before getting married.

Many people get married as soon as they graduate from college, and I don't think that's very good, because they have just graduated, they don't have a stable job, and their economic foundation is relatively poor.

There's a question about whether to start a business or start a family first The best answer I've ever seen is that if you meet a noble person first, you should start a business first. If you meet your lover first, you will start a family first. So if these college students really meet true love, it is quite right to start a family as soon as they graduate from college.

I don't think it's particularly good, because at this time, I have just come out of school and need to adapt to it, and my mental ability is not particularly mature.

There are advantages and disadvantages, that is, they are not sure whether they can support their marriage, so they blindly get married, and the advantage is that they can firmly choose each other and have their own opinions.

I don't approve of getting married as soon as I graduate from college, after graduating from college, I should have a period of time to struggle for work, to start a business, and realize the value of my life, of course, this also varies from person to person, some people get married after graduation, and then go to start a business and struggle, and they can also achieve brilliant results.

First of all, there is no clear standard answer to this question, and different people have different understandings. Now, let me share my opinion.

1. College students.

As the backbone of the Chinese group, college students generally graduate at the age of 22-23 and have a certain economic foundation.

Later, I think it is more appropriate to get married at 25-30. It's also more sensible to do things.

2. High school (vocational high school) graduates.

People who graduated from high school enter the society earlier than college students, understand the rules and human nature of the society better, and also have a certain economic foundation earlier than college students, so it is more appropriate to get married at 23-26.

3. Junior high school graduates.

After graduating from junior high school, the people entered the society earlier, experienced the warmth and warmth of the society earlier, and had their favorite people and friends earlier, and at the same time had an economic foundation earlier and reached the legal age.

It is more appropriate to get married.

In short, it is appropriate to marry at any age, and a man at forty-one and a woman at thirty is more intellectual and beautiful. As long as you find the person who is good to you, any age is suitable, love is wonderful, and what does it matter when you get married. Even if you have nothing, I am still willing to marry you.

As long as you reach the legal age, it is legal and appropriate to get married at any age.

When you're ready, you're ready to get married.

There should be no suitable answer to this, so I can only say that when I meet the right person, everything is right, and I can get married without graduation.

For this question, my partner and I plan to graduate in 2-3 years, I will graduate in 2020, he will graduate in 2021, and we have been together for 3 years.

Some people think that I have just graduated, I am not prepared, and I don't want to be bound by family marriage so early;Some people think that after I have finished all my studies, I can be with my beloved, and both of us have plans to get married, so there is only one option...In case someone tells you that getting married is one of the major life events, it's better to get married early;But some people also told you that you are still young and can make a breakthrough on your own, and it is too late to think about it after 10 years. So the ultimate answer is up to you.

This multiple-choice question is your own proposition, and the answer is known only to you.

I don't think marriage and work are in conflict. There is no conflict between work and love, and the relationship between couples is upgraded to a husband and wife relationship, and marriage does not hinder work. The boy may consider saying that he wants to save more money and marry his beloved back home.

But saving money and marrying her are two different things, after marriage will not collapse and your salary will plummet, saving money is a plan, save as much as you want every month, and it has little to do with how many years you work after graduation and get married. has enough ability and confidence, and does not delay promotion and salary increase before and after marriage.

Girls may consider more points, marriageable and fertile age, appearance, etc., but there is no direct conflict. If you have a boyfriend when you go to school and have been talking for a long time, you can talk to the boy about your thoughts about marriage and marriage, and the boy's reply and tone will definitely tell his plan to get married. It just so happens that the two of you have collided with each other, then the next thing is to maintain this relationship, and even plan to get married in advance.

If you have no object after graduation, there is no need for girls to be anxious, now the pace of life is fast, make good money, improve yourself, and expand your circle of friends.

People you want to meet have the opportunity to get to know each other.

There are people who are not married.

Someone dink. Some people want to have both children, some people want to get married after graduation, some people want to get married after 10 years of graduation...Everyone has different ideas and different answers to questions. The right people, no delay at any time;The unsuitable person, 5 years, 10 years, 20 years are not suitable. The stool is dry.

In our country, regardless of men and women, as long as they reach the legal age of marriage, they can get married at any time. As the backbone of the current youth group, college students are also the main body of marriage and childbearing behavior in the next ten years. For this group of jujube bodies, my opinion is that it is more appropriate to get married within the third to fifth year after graduation, that is, between the ages of 24 and 27.

Why? First of all, at this stage of college, they are already relatively mature in both physical and psychological aspects, and at the same time, they also have a certain amount of knowledge and insight, and less is only social experience. Secondly, graduating from university is already considered to be a high level of education, and all aspects of cognition and ability are enough for them to quickly adapt to the Sheshi Rock Quiet Association and gain a firm foothold.

In addition, college students will become more mature and stable after one to two years of training in the workplace, and their awareness of society will be further improved, which will also lay the foundation for them to be able to shoulder the burden of their families in the future. At the same time, one to two years after graduating and working together, they also have a certain amount of savings, and have basically achieved economic freedom, and they can do more of what they want to do without being too constrained. Therefore, I think that the age of 24 to 27 is more suitable for them to get married.

Marriage is a major event in life, and I hope everyone can meet the right person at the right time without regrets!

Just do it at the right time, and don't let your life get in the way of marriage.

It depends on the individual situation, and the most suitable is what suits you.

Getting married as soon as you graduate, it means that you should love each other more during your studies, and most of them usually spend more time before and after the moon, and you should be happier and happier together, so that you want to get married after graduation, although the ideal is very beautiful, but the reality is often very cruel.

During the study period, there is no real life drag between each other, and the thinking is relatively simple, there is no living at home together at all, and when you get married after graduation, you are faced with the reality of making money to support your family every day, which is completely different from the concept of being in school at the beginning, and it is not as simple as you imagined before marriage, facing the pressure of life, because each other only graduated and got married, there is no social experience at all, and making money to support your family is not as easy and easy as imagined.

If you don't have enough money to support your family, it is easy to have contradictions or disagreements when you live together, after all, you have to live every day, you need to make money to live, if you can't make money, it is easy to quarrel with each other, after all, poor couples mourn, if you have a child, the responsibility and pressure you face will be greater, after all, the growth and education of children need a certain material foundation, not only about the child's life, but also about the future of the whole family.

The love of getting married after graduation is indeed enviable, but the social life after graduation is much more difficult than the campus life, don't easily give up the love you choose, the partner you choose.

Getting married right after graduation will make your life more stressful, so don't have children as soon as you get married, and try to wait until both of you have stable jobs before having children. Marriage is not as romantic as love, it is more of a dull life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, you must adjust your mentality, and don't always suffer from gains and losses. There will definitely be contradictions and conflicts between husband and wife, don't have a cold war, communicate calmly when you encounter any problems, and solve them as soon as possible, no matter how good the relationship is, it can't withstand repeated cold violence.

There will always be a lot of problems in the love of getting married after graduation, and being young and vigorous is not just talking. However, the appearance of love and happiness is always the best, because those who have love are happy.