I m really miserable, and I have a strong rejection of the opposite sex!

There was something wrong with my mother's approach to education when she was a child.

First, I don't know if you're afraid of your mother???

So I have never dared to go against my mother's will.

But you can see that you actually want to be normal.

Get a girlfriend and fall in love.

But it's also possible that you haven't met a girl who opened your heart.

You mention that they are willing to associate with you.

But they still lack the perseverance to be by your side.

Otherwise, why would you be divided and dispersed like this?

The girls your mom introduced you.

It must not be for you.

That's why you hate it.

But I want to warn you.

A person's first impression is important.

But getting along in the future is the one that can best see the essence of a person.

But there aren't many girls who can really stick to the end.

If anything.

Don't get caught up in first impressions.

It depends on the essence

But I don't really have much experience, I just think so, come on!! It's nothing to worry about, maybe fate is really important. Or you haven't met a girl who is sincere to you)

If that's the case for you.

All I'm going to say is-

These girls don't seem to be for you.

To love someone is to feel.

Love is a matter of two people.

If you talk about getting married, it's not enough for two people to love each other.

There are also a lot of external factors.

Love depends on feelings.

And happiness depends on wisdom.

See if you can find the right person for you.

That's all that matters.

It doesn't have to be vigorous.

But if you can be bland together.

Day in and day out together.

That's the most important thing.

Maybe your mother's two slaps have affected your mind, you can go to see a psychiatrist, not scolding you, don't get me wrong, talk to a psychiatrist, you can know your reason.

I guess you're supposed to be grown up by now, right!?

Now that you've grown up, you can create your own sky, so why bother with your mom? I think your love is too, maybe it's because you think that women all over the world are the same when you see your mother, right?

Therefore, I really hope that you will stay away from your family and choose your own sky, as long as you have fulfilled your son's filial piety.

This is caused by a typical lack of self-confidence Because you were fat when you were a child made you feel unconfident in your heart So even if you become thinner But you are still not confident in your heart After you are rejected by a girl, you give up your confidence in yourself and break the can for the so-called attitude It's nothing The most important thing is that you have to regain your self-confidence Since you feel very good now Why don't you try to find some female friends You can talk and further develop Loneliness is given by yourself Not by others Contact more friends and you will be happier.

Pure hand lookout.

When you don't know how sweet honey is, you won't have desire, only when you slowly taste the sweetness, you will be obsessed and want to have, women are also for you, because your personality or other environment causes you to have this similar rejection emotion, so don't worry, find a simple one, suitable for you.

You're so young, what are you afraid of, take your time and relax. Young people, the future is long.

Van der Sar sends resume Lucas's crazy flat.

is very repulsive to other members of the opposite sex, proving that you once loved each other very much, and you have not completely let go of that emotion, if it is possible, it is better to renew the previous edge! If it's really impossible, let time dilute everything, relax, and go out and you will find that the world is still so beautiful.

Then you don't hang yourself from a tree.

For some people.

Distance produces beauty.

You don't dare to face your feelings, you are a girl who pursues perfection, but you are very afraid of loneliness, so you think you like him, in fact, you don't like him, you just beautify him in your dreams, and imagine him as the perfect person you are pursuing, but when you come back to reality, you find that he is still far from your dream, so you feel disgusting.

You have to give up your pursuit, give up the pursuit of perfection, and of course at the same time you have to give up on that guy and start anew.

Like a person, like his strengths and like his shortcomings, since you think he is disgusting, it means that some aspects of him are unbearable for you, maybe you are too demanding, or maybe it is really unbearable... In this world, everyone has their own uniqueness, and they and you, maybe fate has not arrived. I believe that one day, you will find that one and live happily together.

There is definitely something wrong with my heart, and the symptoms are very obvious, so it is recommended to go to the psychological counseling room in the school to consult.

Nobody knows you here, no one knows who you are, so could you please write in more detail, what exactly do you feel nauseous, or what are you disgusting?

It feels like you have a fear about being in a relationship with the opposite sex, which may be related to something you have seen or experienced in the past, which you can also recall.

I hope you write it, it's also a kind of face, if you hide it, the problem will always be there.

In fact, many people have this mentality.

You should face up to your own emotions, you must understand that this feeling is friendship or love, a good impression of a boy is not necessarily love, you don't blindly pursue love, go with the flow, real love will naturally come naturally.

Trust you to do it.

I'm guessing you're probably sick because you're scared of something together. For example, if you are afraid of holding hands with a boy, you can be very relieved to be with him when you are not dating, because you don't have to be afraid that he will attack so suddenly, but holding hands, hugging, and even kissing after dating may come suddenly, if you are afraid of these, then of course you dare not be with him. This requires the doctor's cooperation and slow guidance, and it is not enough to say everything here, hehe.

Hello! You are a fear of family affection, a manifestation of phobia, girls with this fear, often deal well with the relationship with the ordinary opposite sex, but once a certain opposite sex exceeds the degree of your heart, you are very disgusted, disgusting, in your heart, you only like excellent boys, you only like righteous gentlemen, in your opinion confessed to you are not excellent, do not confess to you, but once in your mind those excellent also beyond that boundary, they are not excellent, This psychology of yours is the confusion caused to you by your family environment when you were growing up, and I hope you can fix it in time, otherwise your marriage will be painful! Wishing you happiness!

I think you still have some misunderstanding of the word sex, you may be influenced by some environment, which prompts you to have a kind of rejection of the opposite sex, not all of the opposite sex, but those of the opposite sex who want to go closer to you, when he breaks through your mental defense, you will feel a lot of pressure, you may immediately think of something that you don't want to happen but will inevitably happen, by your reflection of this mental burden, and immediately a very normal relationship becomes less pure.

You need to get to the root.

There's no sickness in your heart, it's the shadow that's at work.

You need time to recuperate, and you can also ask your lover to help you change and use this opportunity to test him, hehe.

You just don't understand your true feelings, your good impression of that boy is not enough to be able to date, your liking for him is very limited, when you are boyfriend and girlfriend with a person you don't like very much, you will feel very uncomfortable and disgusting, if you find a person you really like, I think you will feel very sweet and not disgusting, be cautious about your feelings, don't just like a little bit of affection, and be insincere enough to you and each other.

Hehe, she's afraid that if you become lovers, it's good, if you don't become lovers, everyone will be embarrassed, and you won't even be friends! Hehe, I studied psychology! I have time to teach you more!

One way is for you to ignore her! Cool her down! Hey!

Girls are curious! The heart said that you used to like me, but now why do you ignore me! She'll feel sorry for you!

The party will come to you! Or you take advantage of its guilt! This is a girl's weakness!

Make him feel guilty about you! Everything is easy to do! But!

You know the specific operation yourself!

It may be that she likes you but doesn't dare to accept you for fear of getting hurt.

There is a saying that I don't know if you have heard, that is, men are not bad, women don't love you, show her chic, boldly tell her if you want to pursue her, writing a letter is actually not the best way to solve the problem, because it is only one-sided, talking, if you really feel embarrassed to talk about meeting, just hit ** on QQ.

But I still advise you to make it clear to her face to face Maybe things will go better, girls like to be bold and proactive.

Oh yes, and one more thing, because I'm very busy with studying, maybe it's my family's opposition, so I don't want to hurt you, so I have to choose to run away.

If she is angry, then he likes you. Because only liking someone will really get angry for more than two days.

If he's not angry, he just wants to have fun. But if you take it seriously, then you just let it go, even if this kind of girl has more advantages, he is not a good girl.

You now have to figure out if you really love him, if it's true love, or if it's a friend's feelings. However, emotional matters must be followed.

I understand it very well, but no matter what, at this time it is still my responsibility to learn, if you really have feelings, or hide it silently in your heart, let the seeds of love grow slowly, let it become your driving force, everything has a time to grow, and studying hard is really responsible for it (her)...

Adolescence has such a period of rejection of the opposite sex, and after this period of time, it will be fine, and you don't have to worry too much.

If you really like her, try on your own, but also be patient enough and give him a little time.

She thinks you like her, and she doesn't talk to you because she waits for you to speak (confess) first, and ignores her if she doesn't want to have a misunderstanding.

She may have been scared.

She just wants to be friends with you.

She vaguely senses your affection for her.

classmates, and don't want to make the relationship too stiff.

But at the same time, she also thinks that if she gets closer to you, you may misunderstand her.

Inner struggle. Maybe she wants you to study hard.

She likes you a little, but she knows that this stage is not suitable for relationships, so you just go with the flow.

I was a top student in high school. I don't know when.

Begin to indulge in Internet cafes

Adults look for me, and I let them not find me

I'd rather skip food and sleep than lose my soul

Later, I failed the college entrance examination, and I felt a sense of loss in my heart

It turns out that our girlfriend, who both loves each other, also looks down on me

Her mother saw me like an infectious disease

I'm angry, I want to make a human appearance and show them

So I was looking for a good job

Like foreigners, I study while working, and I am angry with them

But I can't imagine that it is more difficult to find a good job than to read a good book

After that, I had to regret and look everywhere.

Unstable work、I was copied by the boss several times、

I don't think there's any hope for me

But classmates, don't be fooled by this

After this hurdle, there is a bright road ahead.

Strive to rely on your own, not on others

For the happiness of the future is also yours

Very understanding!

Personally, I think that at this time, it is still our responsibility to learn, if you really have feelings, or hide it silently in your heart, let the seeds of love grow slowly, let it become your driving force, everything has a time to grow, and studying hard is the ...... it (her) is truly responsible

Dude She likes you, but she's afraid of rumors in the class. I'm afraid that others will say irresponsible things about you.

。。。I think you can not be in a hurry just ... See if she is still unconverted ... MAKING IT CLEAR ... Be sincere. Don't write like a love letter...

A normal reaction of puberty, and for a time is rejection of the opposite sex.

Chill her off for a while.

Also, you're young, so you don't have to take anything too seriously.

At your age, there is love, there is no future, don't let yourself care too much about this.

Obviously, she doesn't want to be friends yet, so let's get in.

It should be that she is afraid that she likes to miss you, and she doesn't want to fall in love so soon.

People still have to read.

He definitely likes you, but it doesn't feel like it's the time for unrequited love, so he avoids it.

Hehe, I watched it for a long time before I finished reading your question.

Surprised, are you really a junior high school student? It's very level! Hehe.

I remembered a villain book I read when I was a child, it seemed to be called "The Count of Mount Gido", and there was a big beard in it, and the beard was very long. There was a person who gave him a question, that is, "when sleeping, do you put your beard inside or outside the quilt" (probably so, after a long time, I forgot about it), when I went to bed at night, this bearded man thought about this problem and put his beard inside the quilt... Under the weather; Put it on the outside of the quilt...

It was also uncomfortable, tossing for a long time, and in the end, he finally understood, and he put the quilt on his chest, so that he could sleep peacefully... Why is this so easy to solve?

Because there are not just two answers to this question, neither either/or. Your problem is similar to that of a beard, right? Because the question you consider is: I'm either gay or I'm not gay. Hehe.

Analyze your psychology, first of all, you are afraid of being gay, you are worried that because of such psychological implications, you will become gay, and you will have anxiety because of this, but you don't have to. It is normal for adolescent children to be excited about some things, and it is actually a vague excitement when you see Yang Yang's **, which does not mean that you are interested in sympathy, nor does it mean that you reject the opposite sex. For example, just because there are many people who like to watch horror movies doesn't mean that these people are sadistic in their lives.

Secondly, homosexuality and heterosexuality are artificially divided into like-sex or opposite-sex likes and dislikes, both of which are relative. You say that you don't hate the opposite sex, which is enough to show that you are very normal.

Understand this truth, no longer be afraid, jump out of the confusion of either/or, and focus on learning, and you will grow up healthily.

Good luck!