Did my boyfriend marry me to give an account to his parents?

If you have doubts about the future before you get married, I think you should think about it again

Before getting married, everything is easy, and if you really get married, it will be a lot of trouble

I also have doubts, the man wants to get married, and often talks about getting married and making his parents feel at ease, which feels like aggravating my guilt, but I think marriage is two people, we have only known each other for a few months, I feel that each other is not enough to run in, and the experience is still not enough, although marriage may satisfy my parents, but if I am not happy, I may end up including my parents will be sad. And if they know that it's because they're urging us to marry that we're unhappy, then they'll be even more upset later.

Looking at what you said, I think he got married in a hurry because of his family, but I can't see your problem! In other words, when you get along, do you really have something you don't do well that makes the other party disgusted for a long time? Do you understand?

And then... This situation is not very suitable for marriage!!

If your feelings are correct, I advise you, leave the person who does not love you, you will have a blue sky, a lifetime of happiness, and not to be accommodated.

You should be separated from him because you don't have the idea of "I can't live without him" when you think so!

I'm also from the past, and when I first got along with my girlfriend, we often quarreled, and this was a period of emotional run-in!

Being together is fate.

He doesn't love you very much.

Now the standard configuration of young people getting married is to have a car and a house, the car is a means of transportation, after marriage two people want to go ** will be very convenient, the house on the one hand is the accumulation of wealth, on the other hand, two people have their own independent space, can form a warm small home, if the boyfriend wants to live with his parents after marriage, you should consider your own ideas, if you don't mind living with your parents, you can choose to agree, but if you don't want to, you must not be wronged yourself, choose to agree. Personally, I am in favor of young people now having their own independent space, because there will be a lot of things to do when living with the elderly.

Nowadays, the life and rest of young people are not regular, sometimes they will stay up late at night, and they will wake up late in the morning, and the parents of the generation are used to going to bed early and getting up early, the two generations live together, the work and rest time is not the same, the parents may let you get up early for breakfast, and young people can't get up, which will have a lot of trouble.

If you live with your parents after getting married, it is easy to cause conflicts, especially between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you may often quarrel because of some trivial things, which not only affects the relationship between the husband and wife, but also affects the harmony of the whole family, so it is better not to live together.

Today's young people are more romantic in life, sometimes they like to live in a two-person world, if they live with their parents, there will be a lot of inconvenience, and their values are different from ours, and there will be great differences in all aspects of life or life, <>

The above is only a personal opinion, in fact, I saw a sentence on the Internet that said very well, two people get married, not one person marries into another family from one family, but two people come out of the house to form their own small family, and it is very important to have a house that belongs to you. What do you think about this, and do you think you should live with your parents after marriage? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.

I think you should say yes, live with your parents, have someone to take care of the house, and have a hot meal when you get home.

You shouldn't promise him, it's best not to live with your mother-in-law after you get married, there will be a lot of conflicts when you live together.

I don't think you should promise your boyfriend that you should never live with your in-laws after you get married, there will be a lot of trouble.

I wouldn't choose to live with his parents, because I think young and old people think differently, and it's really easy to have a lot of conflicts when they get along together.

No, because if you live with your parents, there may be conflicts between the two families, and the lifestyles and living habits are also different.

For many female friends, I believe they have encountered similar situations. But we should also choose to forgive our boyfriend, and think more about our boyfriend and our future life, otherwise how can we understand the difficulties of our boyfriend?

1. Find a suitable opportunity to communicate with your boyfriend. It's not a bad thing to live with your parents after getting married, but if you really can't accept it, we can also communicate with our boyfriends and let our boyfriends know what they think, so that when two people get married, there will be no conflicts because of such things. Because there is a gap between men's thinking and women's thinking, if we each look at the problem from our own standpoint, then such a relationship can easily break down.

2. Choose according to the economic conditions of your boyfriend's family. Since we have chosen to be with our boyfriend, then we should choose to accept the reality, if our boyfriend's family is not particularly good, then we should dispel the idea of not living with our parents, and then wait until the two of us can afford to make a choice. Because the relationship is not only a matter between two people, but a matter of two families, we must take into account the thoughts and requirements of both parents, so as to help us create a harmonious family.

After getting married, many young people will choose to live with their parents, not just so that their parents can bring their children for themselvesBecause we are busy with work every day, we will feel relaxed if we can have someone in the house to clean the house and help with the cooking, so we must not be averse to living with our parents, and I hope that everyone can do so.

I think you should try to take it. After all, I live with my boyfriend's parents. In life, your boyfriend's parents can also help you.

I think you can try living with his parents first, and if it doesn't work, then consider living separately.

I can live with my parents, and I think if I live with my parents, I don't have to do housework, and I can help with children.

The girlfriend knows that the boyfriend is getting married for the sake of her parents, of course, she will feel unhappy, thinking that the boyfriend does not like her and does not want to marry her.

As long as you truly love each other. As a girlfriend, she will be looking forward to entering the palace of marriage as soon as possible with the group. Hand in hand with you to imitate the code and grow old together. Happy and happy together. Personal opinion, for reference only.

The girlfriend knows that it is not because she is full of eyes, sincere, affectionate, sincere, and dedicated to loving her, but because she walks into the sacred marriage hall with her parents' orders, and her mood will be disappointed and hurt physically and mentally.

A girl who is pure and beautiful, lacks a pure hole in her heart, and longs for a sweet home, will be seriously frustrated because she can't get true love, feel deceived, and extremely disappointed, so that the incomparably sacred concept of love will be unprecedentedly tainted, and will be hit seriously by the former sedan chair hole.

Therefore, do not hurt any woman in love without the purpose of affection, and inform the woman in advance that feelings should not be deceived.

What will the girlfriend think if she knows that her boyfriend is getting married for her parents? Of course, it would be very disappointing. Very stool jujube happy. This is a certain blow to a woman who is burning in turn.

Girlfriends must know that their boyfriend is marrying for their parents, and they will definitely be sad, no woman can accept that the man next to Shenhuai who she married doesn't like herself, but marries for the sake of her family.

That means that there is no love, 7:00 things can only be called on the name of the very good and filial Suisui, afraid of offending your parents and unhappy and you have no heart to marry your girlfriend, but as this slippery girlfriend, he should have his own opinions, in order to fulfill this man, even if the letter is married, his heart is uncomfortable, and he should have to show whether he really loves him.

Did I know that my boyfriend got married for my parents, what would my girlfriend think? Friends know that boyfriends are married for their parents, what will girlfriends think? Like this situation, there is a friend who rises up to impress her boyfriend with his spirit, if the uproar is true.

If you can't get along, you will be worthy of respect, and you may choose to divorce carefully.

I don't have to think about you for these questions, just how do you think about your boyfriend vs. liquidator? Can you accept what he lacks about you? Do you have a sense of well-being?

To support the things that your family originally generated, you don't have to be too entangled, and you don't have to go deep into every family to live, there is a way of life in each family, these things you think about him, you can only thicken and bury yourself and add troubles.

Generally speaking, Tong Que state, the father and mother will not mind their son's favorite girlfriend, after all, they all love the house and Wu, the son likes it, and the old man will also like it, the key depends on the degree of pampering, everything is based on girlfriends.

Your friend knows that her boyfriend is getting married for her parents, what will your friend think about the defeat of the state? I think your friend may think that this boy is more passive and feels that he has no feelings for himself, and he got married because he got married.

The girlfriend knows that her boyfriend is Sen Xing and married Hongchun's parents, what will the girlfriend think? If his girlfriend loves him very much, he will not consider what his boyfriend is marrying him for.

It's normal for men to have this kind of thought, but you can tell your boyfriend what you think.

Men's hearts are relatively big, and they never thought that there would be a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law before they got married. Because he thinks that they are two women who are very reasonable, how can there be a contradiction.

If you don't want to live with his parents, you can express your opinion to him. Since we have talked about what happened after marriage, it means that the problem you are facing now also needs to be solved urgently.

You can tell him that you think that the two generations think differently, that it is inconvenient to live together, and that you want to be able to have your own private space. Of course, your parents are welcome to come and visit.

You can tell him that you want the two of you to live together sweetly, and you don't want so many people. It feels very inconvenient.

You can tell him that there is no longer the same big family as before, and they are all small families living alone.

You can tell him that I don't want so many people to live together, I'm a quiet character, and I don't like noisy environments.

You can tell him, this is what I ask, and girls nowadays will not choose to live with a large family. I don't want to, so I hope you promise me. After all, everyone has their own ideas and has their own requirements.

Only if you tell your boyfriend what is in his heart will he think about your problem, otherwise he will think that it is not a matter at all.

Of course, you have to be resolute and tell him that you will not back down. You can't let him fool you in a few words.

So I think it's normal for guys to think that if you don't want to do that, all you can do is communicate.

Since you ask this question, it means that you actually don't want to live with your boyfriend's parents in your heart.

After getting married, living with her boyfriend's parents-in-law and mother-in-law is indeed what many girls mind, especially the problem of the century for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is one of the main reasons why girls are reluctant to live with the man's parents.

1) Communicate with your boyfriend. Tell your boyfriend that you don't want to live with his parents after getting married, and tell him that you don't want to be filial to his parents by doing this, but that you have just gotten married, and you hope to live with him for a few more years in the world of two people without being disturbed. Your starting point is that you think about two people, and I believe that your boyfriend can understand your feelings.

Good communication is the first step to solving problems.

2) Compromise with each other. On the question of whether or not to live with their parents after getting married, both couples will be in a dilemma. One is a filial boy who wants to live with his parents and take care of his parents, and the other is a newlywed wife who wants to live in a two-person world.

For example, you can make an agreement with your boyfriend and family that after you get married and until you have children, you and your boyfriend will live together and enjoy the world of the two of you after marriage. Wait until you have a baby, and then take your parents to live with you, so that you can take care of your parents by your side, and when the child is born, you can also ask your parents to help take care of the baby.

It's also the best of both worlds.

I hope the above two points are helpful to you.

In fact, most of the married women around me rarely live with the man's parents, but they will also face certain problems, including the problem of breakfast or dinner, as well as the problem of taking children, I think breakfast and dinner, this can be solved by yourself There is no problem, the main thing is that it is not very convenient to take care of children, because after all, if both of them go out to work, there is no one to take care of the children. If only one person goes out to work, the family will be relatively financially strained. Before, they all had the idea of living on their own, but then they had children, and they felt that it might be better to live with their parents, whether it was the man's parents or the woman's parents, at least one to take care of each other, and it would also reduce some of the burden on them.

So they lived by themselves at the beginning of their marriage, and now they are very eager to live with their parents.

I think it's not a good thing to live with my parents at first. Because after all, your parents are a little older than you in terms of age and experience, so their way of doing things may be different from yours, but their original intentions are for your good, maybe you will live more easily than ordinary people when you live with your parents at the beginning.