Why do I feel like I m out of love

Four people encountered in a person's life.

The first is yourself, the second is the person you love the most, the third is the person who loves you the most, and the fourth is the person you spend your life with. First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then experience the feeling of love, because you understand the feeling of being loved, so you can find the person who loves you the most, when you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you, who can get along for a lifetime, but very sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person, the one you love the most, often does not choose you, and the one who loves you the most is often not your favorite, the longest, It's not the one you love the most or the one who loves you the most, it's just the person who appeared at the most suitable time. How many people will you be in someone else's life?

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you, and similarly, he can't pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem, if you still love him, you should want him to live happily, hope that he can be with the person he really loves, and will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him anymore, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

Love is not possession, you like the moon, it is impossible to take the moon down and put it in the basin, but the light of the moon can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes your eternal memory of life.

If you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good and his bad, love his good and love his shortcomings.

You must not want him to become what you want to be because you love him, if you can't change it, you won't love him, you can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to accompany you, the real feeling is that the two can stay together in the most difficult time, that is, there is no slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not only obtained, separation is an inevitable test, if your relationship is not stable enough, you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

Bless him, maybe you are not suitable at all. I want to open a point.

Lovelorn people understand how painful it is to fall out of love, which is why the more people grow up, the less they will move their hearts without hesitation.

If you want to get rid of the dark shadow of falling out of love, you must understand how everyone can be uncomfortable after falling out of love: because of a relationship, if you live with your heart, you will have time, vitality, feelings and their capital investment, especially a two-year relationship, the capital investment may be all youth, and the breakup means that everything is gone, no matter how sweet the love was before, how many service commitments are promised, and it is not counted at the moment of breakup. Therefore, it will be painful, and that is no longer the norm, but.

So how to solve the pain caused by falling out of love? It's likely to chill everyone's heart: if you want to go out completely, you must not pursue perfection quickly!

I know that most people want to solve the pain of this kind of thrashing all at once, but the faster you think about it, the greater the complications. Since this is equivalent to a particularly painful wound on the body, you don't go for stitches for treatment, but instead use painkillers, which can only outweigh the losses.

There is a popular saying on the Internet: "There are two ways to heal a broken love, one is time, but a new relationship" In fact, the author feels that there is only one: only time.

Since relying on one person to forget the other person is not responsible for new feelings and oneself, it is essentially a kind of evasive mentality. And it is very easy to make mistakes again and again, because they are not dealt with at all, for example: the last relationship was broken up because you relied too much on the other party, if you do not deal with this dependence problem, every subsequent relationship is very likely to be unsuccessful.

Therefore, no matter how painful it is, I expect everyone to come step by step, and there is no need to rush for quick success. Time does heal everything. Naturally, it's not about sitting there and waiting for time to pass, but during this time, you need to self-reflect and summarize what you are not doing well.

Can it be raised? Don't say it's all the other side's problem, because if you're sufficient, why would the other side leave?

What's worse than falling out of love is that you can't hide from the effects of falling out of love, deal with it, just deal with it, and you will get better and better. And in fact: the vast majority of girls who get up again from a broken love are people who will meet stronger people.

Because when you are out of love, people's emotions are particularly unstable, and you feel that you are abandoned by the world, and no one likes you, so you will be so uncomfortable; I often feel this way, because I am a person with a love brain, and I give more for my feelings, and I am often hurt.

Because after falling out of love, you will feel very unaccustomed, and it will feel like your heart has been hollowed out. I've felt that way. Because I've been out of love too.

Because when you fall out of love, you will feel more lost, feel abandoned and disliked by others, so you will be so uncomfortable; I've had this feeling because I've been denied by others after I have given a relationship with my heart, so I'm very miserable.