Tell us about the saddest moment in college.

In the winter of my sophomore year, the red plaid coat was particularly popular, the expensive ones were four or five hundred, and the imitation ones were only 100. In our dormitory, one person first bought a piece of more than 400, then another person also bought a piece of more than 400, and then a person who was not in good condition bought a piece of 100. Seeing that they wear the same clothes every day, he joked:

xx, you can also go buy one, the cheap one is only 100, so we can wear the same in the dormitory, how beautiful it is to go out. I smiled and didn't speak, but I really wanted to buy it. It's a stretch from our apartment to the school, and there are all kinds of shops along the roadside, and the model in the window of one of the clothing stores is wearing that red plaid coat.

Every time I see it, I have to be sad once, I am very eager to wear that dress on my body, I have something to do with my own vanity, my parents at home have worked hard to make money for me to study, and I am still struggling and sad about a piece of clothing. At the same time, he calculated whether he could save 100 yuan if I ate frugally and made one less dish at noon. It was so gloomy that it wasn't until that winter had passed and I had changed into spring clothes in the window that my mood gradually became clearer.

Once I had no money to eat, I was hungry for a few days, I don't remember whether it was about 3 days or 4 days, and by that night, I was really hungry, but it was not dawn yet, so I endured it. Finally dawn, I climbed out of bed, opened the door, the dormitory is on the 5th floor, I hold the escalator down, walk a floor to rest for a while, there is a slope on the way to the cafeteria, to the slope I have almost unable to hold on, feel top-heavy, rest for a while before relieving the strength, finally walked to the door of the canteen, but found that the canteen has not yet opened, that moment is really sad, sitting on the stairs at the door, while waiting for the door to open, while crying.

When I was a freshman, my roommate came back from the dormitory next door and said to us with emotion: That's really pitiful, I haven't even eaten KFC since I was a child. I was originally involved in their excitement and fell silent for a moment, and then that weekend, I quietly ran to KFC closest to the school by myself, looked at the ** on the list, and ordered the cheapest glass of Coke.

Holding the plate that seemed empty, I found a corner and sat down, it didn't taste good at all, I was sad at that time, and I endured it for a long time before I blinked back the tears in my eyes.

At the beginning of the winter vacation of my sophomore year, before leaving, my father handed me a plastic bag used in the supermarket: I picked out the freshly dried shiitake mushrooms one by one and brought them to the teacher to taste ......The crumpled old plastic bags and the black dried shiitake mushrooms are all good things when you understand them, and they are grown at home and are rich in nutrients, but in the face of the teacher's room of expensive gifts, how can I take them out appropriately? My father thought I was too little, so he picked a few more and put them in, and I instantly burst into tears and ......Life goes on regardless of it, and I'm trying to make each story feel warmer.

When I took the exam, I found that I didn't take any of the key points I memorized, and when I was approaching the end of the semester, I went to the library every day to prepare for the exam, and I memorized so much, thinking that I could get a high score. But when I took the exam, I found that I didn't take any of the knowledge points I worked hard to memorize, but I didn't memorize any of them. After the exam, when everyone discussed the exam questions, they didn't want to say a word, so blue and thin, good mushrooms!

During the summer vacation, I worked as a summer job in Shanghai, on the assembly line, at 7 o'clock every day, without a mobile phone, taking the bus for an hour every day, going to the public **kiosk** to call my ex-boyfriend, rain or shine, that was the happiest moment of my day. Finally it was over, and when I got the money to buy him a gift, there was a dress in it, and when I gave it to him, he said that the style was too ugly, so he wouldn't wear it. The money for that dress was supposed to buy clothes for myself.

When I was working in a milk tea shop, there was a couple, the boy was handsome and the girl was beautiful, they came to buy milk tea every day, the boy drank black tea, the girl drank honey grapefruit tea, the girl was not very good-tempered, the boy was always cautious, one day when he said something, the girl suddenly lost his temper and threw the cup of honey grapefruit tea on him and walked away angrily, the boy smiled at me very embarrassed, I looked at the cup of honey grapefruit tea that had just been opened on the ground, and suddenly felt overwhelming sadness.

The saddest moment of my college was a bunch of nasty people pretending to wander around your desk, actually looking at what you were looking at. This is actually involution.

Everyone is chasing higher grades than others, more certificates than others, and more plus points than others. At first, I always thought that most people were involuted, but later experience told me that it was not. You will find that there are many people around you who are actively promoting the "development of the involution business", and it is they who make those who originally refused to involution begin to be forced to involution, because if they don't involute, they will be eliminated, and unfortunately I am one of them.

In fact, many people who actively involute do not think that they are actively involuted, but will say that they are one of the victims, but in fact they are more involved than anyone else, selfish. But everyone has their own ideas, which path to take is their own choice, we do not have the right to judge the lives of others, let alone have the power to change others. But I still hate involution, because in the world of involution, I do things I don't want to do, do things that I don't interest in, do things that I don't think have any meaning, I don't feel happy, I don't feel a sense of accomplishment, but I still have to continue to do things I don't like.

That's what involution brings to me. I don't think I'm getting bored with it.

In the face of such an involution dilemma, we can only strive not to involute. Not involution refers to the confrontation with involution, breaking involution, and transcending involution, which is not completely opposite to involution, but to find a better way to survive in the involution society, break the dilemma created by involution, actively reflect in action, do not follow the trend, but also be dissatisfied with the status quo, constantly self-evolve, and improve their own thinking level. In the end, we do not want to detach ourselves from society and indulge in ourselves, and getting rid of "involution" is not out of touch with society, it refers to getting rid of the mentality of "involution", and then facing this "involution" world with this mentality, and strive to live our own life, and finally achieve the state of both internal and external benefits, and not being disturbed by anxiety and troubles.

The saddest thing was when I graduated from college, and my roommates left the dormitory one by one, until everyone but me moved away, leaving me and six bright beds for a moment. I watched these bed boards go from empty to empty, I watched this dormitory go from empty to empty, I watched this little building go from silent to silent. Everything is back to the way I was when I first arrived in the dorm at the beginning of my freshman year.

It is difficult to say goodbye when we meet, and the east wind is powerless. After leaving the school, everyone went to their own future, and they didn't know when they would see each other again, and what they would become when they said goodbye. This year, because of the pandemic, we really haven't seen each other for months.

I was the first to walk into this dorm, and I remember it was a Saturday, and I was at school early that day. The school is beautiful, although it is not as big as those on TV, but it has a lot of flowers and trees. At that time, the flowers and trees were growing very well, and when I walked across the bridge between the two campuses, my eyes were all green, and I was full of reverie for the future campus time.

Time has proved my reverie, and in three years, I joined several clubs and learned about skateboarding, debating, and drama performance; He also joined the school's student council and planned and held many school activities. Now these have been handed over to others, but the years will remember this sincere time for me.

When I walked out of the campus, the place no longer had the breath of my youth, and there were no more people who grew up with me. Walking on the overpass again, the flowers and trees are still lush, and a new round of greetings has begun. Gently I go, as softly I came; I beckoned softly, and made a cloud of the western sky.

Wandering towards the greener grass, loaded with a boatload of starlight, singing in the starlight. But I can't play songs, quietly it's a parting sheng flute; Xia Worm is also silent for me, silence is Kangqiao tonight! Quietly I went, as quietly I came; I waved my sleeves and didn't take a cloud with me.

Everyone experiences a moment in college when you are most helpless and when you are the saddest. You will find that no matter how many friends you have in college, you can't seem to help yourself. You'll find that the things you value seem to be cheaper.

The saddest and most memorable thing you have experienced in college may be when you find that the friend you value the most is actually not that important in his eyes. Maybe you're trying to get along with him and develop a good relationship with him.

But later, when you are in trouble and you want to ask him for help, but he is unwilling to help you, you realize that he does not regard you as a true friend. It is said that adversity sees true feelings, but your tribulation makes you see a person clearly. In this case, when you are in trouble, you can't find help, you originally thought that he was your dependence, but later you found out that others just treat you as an ordinary friend.

So when I was in college and I was in such a situation, I felt really sad.

The saddest thing in the world is probably misunderstanding, when everyone doesn't know the truth, but you know the facts, but you are framed by others, you will feel very sad. And I happened to this when I was in college.

That day when I was in the dormitory, one of my roommates said that he had lost 100 yuan in cash, and when I was at noon that day, they didn't come back for a lunch break, and I was the only one in the dormitory. Later, they all thought that I had stolen the 100 yuan, so they all talked about it silently behind their backs. However, no amount of explanation seems to be clear, and it was at that time that this misunderstanding made our relationship even worse.

The misunderstanding was finally resolved when his roommate found his cash in a corner of a drawer. However, the damage caused by this misunderstanding is irreparable. It's also very sad to be this kind of thing encountered by yourself.

In fact, there will be many precious opportunities in life, and some people have seized this opportunity and obtained a lot of achievements or rewards. However, some people's ignorance makes them miss these opportunities, and only regret it when they finally find out that they were actually able to get them.

I had encountered this myself in college, so I was sad for a while. Originally, the school had the opportunity to send international students to each grade. At the time, I thought that the opportunity for this international student was relatively difficult, but later I found that my roommate was not even as good as my own grades, but I was able to get such an opportunity.

Originally, my friends encouraged me to participate, but I refused. When someone else gets such an opportunity, I realize that I have missed a good opportunity. So when you find out what you could have done, but because you missed it, it makes you even more sad.

There are a lot of unsatisfactory things in life, but if we really compete with life, then we will only lose both. Only when you calmly accept the disappointments in life and continue to walk with confidence will your path be more sunny, so that you can win a brilliant life.

One of the saddest moments in college was when I couldn't memorize a book for a final exam.

I majored in Chinese language and literature at university, so it was essential to deal with literature every day. Ancient Literature, Modern Literature, Foreign Literature, Ancient Chinese, Modern Chinese, Introduction to Literature, and so on, all professional courses basically need you to memorize.

Not only do you scratch your hair when you don't understand it in class, but you also spend all night on the final exam because you can't memorize the knowledge points.

It is said that there are always people who can memorize the books that they can't memorize, and there are always people who can hand in a perfect score for the questions they can't do during the exam. I understand the truth, but when you really memorize for a few hours, and when you look back and find that you can't remember anything, the panic and self-blame in your heart can drown you, and at that time you feel that you are really useless, and a moment of numbness and emptiness will become an opportunity for you to give up.

Sometimes I wonder why I chose this major, is it really because I want to be a teacher? Even if I want to be a teacher, I can make myself decadent in the face of a final exam, so can I really do it? In a moment, the fear of the future life reaches its peak.

Wake up early, eat, afternoon, evening, and overnight, especially when you have to take more than one subject the next day, it is more difficult for you to memorize, and at that time I wish I had two heads.

Sometimes, when I stopped, I looked at the students around me who were studying on their own, going back to the dormitory in the library, and they looked like they had gained a lot today.

Looking down at the review materials, looking at the familiar and unfamiliar knowledge points on it, a moment of grievance came to my heart. At that time, my dad called me, looked at the dark background on my side and asked me what I was doing, and all of a sudden I couldn't hold it back, I didn't want to tell him that his daughter was sad because she couldn't memorize the book.

Faced with the nervousness of the exam and the anxiety of not being able to memorize the book, I don't know how I got over in the end, only that I passed the final exam, but that moment of confusion and helplessness was the most sad thing for me in college.