What to do if you encounter school bullying, what to do if you encounter school bullying

School bullying, English is school bullying, refers to one or more intentional or malicious bullying or insulting by one party (individual or group) between students inside and outside the campus through physical, verbal and online means, causing physical and psychological harm, property damage or mental damage to the other party (individual or group).

School bullying mostly occurs in primary and secondary schools. School bullying is divided into violence perpetrated by a single person, violence committed by a small number of people, and violence perpetrated by multiple people. Most of the implementation environment areas are around the campus or in secluded places with few people, and even blatant bullying is carried out in the public areas of the campus, causing physical and mental harm to students.

On July 5, 2018, in order to solve school bullying in Beijing, the Ministry of Education first issued an announcement on the bullying management plan for primary and secondary schools in Beijing: school bullying must be reported within a limited time. On November 12, Guangdong introduced a plan to control school bullying, and the insult is called bullying.

On November 21, the sixth meeting of the Standing Committee of the 17th Tianjin Municipal People's Congress voted to pass the "Several Provisions on the Prevention and Control of School Bullying in Tianjin", which came into force on the date of promulgation.

Here's how to deal with bullying in school:

1. Be calm and put your personal safety first;

2. Teachers and guardians should be told in time, and teachers and guardians should jointly resolve disputes;

3. If there is personal injury, etc., you can immediately report to the police, the situation is serious, the other party may violate the criminal law, constitute the crime of intentional injury, and bear criminal responsibility;

4. If the school is at fault, the school can also be required to bear certain responsibilities.

Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China

Article 234.

Whoever intentionally injures the body of another person is to be sentenced to up to three years imprisonment, short-term detention or controlled release. Whoever commits the crime in the preceding paragraph, causing serious injury, is to be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than three years but not more than ten years; Whoever causes death or seriously injures a person by especially cruel means, causing serious disability, is to be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than 10 years, life imprisonment, or death. Where this Law provides otherwise, follow those provisions.

Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1201.

Where a person who lacks or has limited capacity for civil conduct suffers personal injury from a third party other than a kindergarten, school or other educational institution during the period of study or life in a kindergarten, school or other educational institution, the third party shall bear tort liability; Kindergartens, schools or other educational institutions that fail to fulfill their management responsibilities shall bear corresponding supplementary responsibilities. Kindergartens, schools or other educational institutions may recover compensation from a third party after assuming supplementary liability.

When encountering school bullying should:Stay calm, don't get tough, find a way to escape the scene, inform the school teachers, and stay away from bad students

1. Stay calm

When you encounter classmates bullying you, you must stay calm, after all, it is not you who make mistakes, it is the perpetrator, and the final result will be judged for their mistakes, not you. Find a way to calm yourself down so that you can think of a better way to cope.

2. Don't be tough

After all, there are more people on the other side than you, and if you really want to fight, you may not be their opponent, and you will hurt yourself, so don't go to the other party.

3. Find a way to escape the scene

When encountering school violence, don't debate with the other party, because they lose their minds and won't listen to you at all, so they can escape the scene and choose to flee as much as possible.

4. Inform the school teacher

If you encounter school violence, you must tell the school teacher and let the teacher come forward to protect your personal safety, because you are in school, the school has a responsibility to protect your safety.

5. Inform parents

Many students are bullied at school, but they don't dare to tell their parents when they go home, which is actually a misunderstanding, after all, you can't handle it yourself, and parents can help you solve it.

6. Stay away from bad students

Don't have any dealings with bad students, don't mess with them, study hard at school, don't make trouble, and if something happens, stand up bravely for help, don't be oppressed by school violence all the time.

1.The victim should keep a clear head and minimize contact with the abuser to avoid re-victimization;

2.Victims (women) do not form small groups, but they cannot do nothing and allow the situation to ossify;

3.Victims should consider their own factors first, and school bullying may be caused by individuals or individuals within the group;

4.The victim shifts his attention to other aspects, and the damage caused by the problem of school bullying is long-term and cannot be forgotten, but it can be diverted without over-immersion;

5.If there are conditions (parents, teachers' care and greetings), you must explain the situation in time, and then do not take the initiative, but with assistance, I hope that the victim can still open his heart, if the situation is serious, parents and teachers can assist the child to call the police and reflect the real situation;

6.Don't expect your classmates to help you, although the victim group is very pitiful, you must not develop a dependent personality, and be independent and self-reliant. Unless they are true friends, they are not obligated to help you;

7.Under the implicit campus bullying methods such as "isolation and rumor-mongering", victims can participate in more activities to show their versatile side, and if they can't make friends within the collective, they can actively make netizens on social software and vent their emotions on social platforms;

8.Under the overt means of campus bullying such as "beating and verbalizing", countering violence with violence is not the fundamental way to solve the problem, but it must be resisted in time, and when it violates its own principles and personal safety, legitimate defense should consider the consequences;

9.It is difficult for the victim to completely change the introverted, inferior, withdrawn, and cowardly personality, but the victim still needs to correct some problems caused by the personality;

10.If the victim has been bullied on campus for a long time, he must not end his life to expect the ** report to attract attention (if there is no ** point), this is an irrational choice;

11.Finally, I hope that the victims will remember not to use this to promote the negative emotions in their hearts, because the more negative and dark side will alienate and spurn.

I think school bullying is an issue that society is paying more and more attention to, because many people are focusing on children, and everyone may be particularly concerned about what grievances their children have suffered at school, so I think school bullying should attract everyone's attention.

First of all, students should truthfully explain the situation to the teacher and let the teacher and the school deal with it. Don't think about it, you must not solve it by force in private, and then the consequences will be more serious.

Tell the teacher first, then the parents, and let the parents find the child who bullied you.

Here's how:

1. If it is convenient, you should use your mobile phone to record his bullying process or evidence in time, so that you can pick up the law to protect yourself when you need it in the future.

2. If Li Yunli has his own good friends in the school, he must tell his friends about this matter, and if there is such a situation in the future, at least there are people in the know.

3. If you are unfortunate enough to encounter school bullying.

We should not be humble or arrogant, use words to maneuver, slip away when we get the opportunity, and tell our parents and class teachers in time when we go back.

4. If you find that a classmate is being bullied, you should report it to the class teacher or teacher or ask other adults for help in time.

5. Be sure to tell the teacher when you were bullied, don't be ashamed to speak, the teachers and principals of the school will help you. If the bully is excessive, he may even be expelled from school.

6. Enhance the self-protection awareness and protection ability of self-disturbing sails, and strengthen their physical fitness at ordinary times.

Training. It is convenient to protect yourself in times of danger.

7. Be positive psychological cues.

Tell yourself not to be afraid, to understand the truth that when you are strong, you are strong, and when you are weak, you are weak, and your momentum is overwhelming.

8. Understand that life safety is the first place, and if there are many people, don't be hard-hitting, and escape is the best policy. If you see a teacher in the distance, you have to shout for help and get attention so that you can be rescued.

1. Calm the child's emotions First of all, parents should calm the child's emotions. If a child is bullied at school, he will suffer great physical and mental damage. As a parent, you should spend more time with your child, or find a professional psychological counselor for counseling.

2. Find out the cause of the incidentFor school violence and school bullying, after parents find out that their children have suffered, they should quickly ask their children about the cause of the incident and find out the ins and outs. Find the abuser to communicate with him, put pressure on the abuser, and warn the abuser not to bully his child in the future.

3. Respond to the teacher and the school Parents should report to the child's teachers and school leaders about the school bullying incident suffered by the child. Let schools and teachers shoulder the responsibility of childcare, and strengthen the supervision of school bullying and the discipline of perpetrators.

4. Communicate with the parents of the abuser to find the parents of the main perpetrators of school violence, and the parents of both sides can contact each other, but it is best to have face-to-face communication, communicate well, and talk about the problems, so that they can strengthen the education and management of their children.

5. Report to the police for violating the lawFor campus abusers who violate the law, in order to protect their children, parents can report to the police if necessary, and punish the campus bullying parties through legal channels.

If you encounter school bullying, you can first warn the other party loudly that what they are doing is illegal and undisciplined, and they will be severely punished by legal discipline and will pay the due price for it. The purpose of this is to loudly tell the surrounding teachers and classmates to pay attention to the bullier's behavior, and the second is that most of the bullies know that their behavior is wrong, and their hearts are weak, and the loud voice can play a shocking role. If the other person continues to bully, they should defend themselves appropriately instead of being beaten.

If you encounter campus bullying, you must tell the head teacher as soon as possible to let it be solved, you can't go against the grain, and if you continue to do it in the long run, it will make them worse, and the main students are too young to know the law and don't know how to beat people against the law.

Tell the teacher, parents really can't call the police.

Personally, I would suggest that if you go back, the child is still young, and he will go to prison when he turns eighteen.

You must resist and call the police if necessary! Look at the stage of age!

First, if there is bullying at school, you should inform your parents, teachers, etc. in a timely manner. Don't wait for someone to ask you before you passively tell you about it.

Second, don't be embarrassed to speak, or think that "it's useless to speak", a person feels that he can't overcome the hurdle, and after communicating with others, he will be able to make things clear.

Third, if you have suffered a serious injury and it is difficult for your parents and teachers to protect you or help you solve it, then you can also seek help from other sources such as the press**, the judiciary, etc. Especially in the current situation where *** and the education department have taken steps to stop school bullying, if you respond in time, it will be easier to get support and help.

You can tell the teacher that the Buddha is impermanent.

What about funny? There is no way to stop the school bullying, you can only hit them until they dare not provoke you easily.

When encountering school violence and bullying, even if it is the first time you are bullied, you must tell the adults afterwards, don't say nothing, you must tell the teachers and parents, and if it is serious, you must call the police. If you don't keep your voice, it will only make school violence more frequent and arrogant. If the school doesn't care, they will go to the court, since they don't take the students seriously, then there is no choice but to make the matter bigger.

Otherwise, school violence will only get worse.

Walk together after school, don't take the path.

The first way to avoid school violence is to not be able to provoke me to hide, at least to ensure my personal safety, then after school to walk with my classmates, if there is a school bus, try to take the school bus, and if there are parents to pick up and drop off, parents will pick up and drop off. When traveling in a group, don't take shortcuts or anything like that, and be sure to avoid some potentially dangerous areas.

I was bullied for the first time, and I should not be soft persimmon.

Bullies often like to pick soft persimmons and pinch them when they bully in the early stage. Therefore, when you are bullied for the first time, you must not swallow your anger and stop it seriously; Be bold to report to teachers and parents, ask for help, let adults come forward to stop it, let the bully know the consequences, and seek justice for yourself. The first effect affects how the bully behaves in the future, making him fearful.

Close to hand, calm and calm. When being bullied, keep calm, use calm and clear language to tell the other party to stop doing this (composure will show more strength, crying and fear will be easier to be bullied), use negotiation as an excuse, delay time, find a way to come to a crowded place, take advantage of the other party to relax their vigilance and take the opportunity to escape, respond tactfully, and learn to call for help.

If you are besieged by many people or can't run away temporarily, don't panic, don't fight with the bully, know how to maneuver, if you can hand over your belongings first, delay as much as possible and fight for the opportunity to call for help. Call for help or send a distress signal to passers-by in a timely manner, dial 110 or send a distress text message if possible.

When others are in trouble, they help them.

When you see other students being abused, you should not sit idly by and report to the teacher or the police. When there is a disparity in strength, know how to protect yourself, don't act alone, and call the police** or send a distress signal out of the bullie's line of sight.