What is the right person? How do you think a man is worth marrying?

The right person is the one who has the same three views, and he has no character defects. And he will be very good to you, will be more gentle, and will put himself in your shoes, whether a man is worth marrying must depend on his attitude towards his family, because if he has a bad attitude towards his family, it will definitely be bad for you, and you have to see whether he has a sense of responsibility, but also to be patient, without huge emotional defects, not extreme.

I think as long as it is the right person who is suitable for himself, if you want to see whether a man is worth marrying, it depends on whether the man cares about your feelings, in the future life, whether he will listen to your opinions, discuss with you, whether he knows how to respect your family and friends, in the future married life, whether he will also love the house and Wu, and be able to control his temper, whether he will restrain himself in married life, and leave the good side to you, from these places, you can see whether this man is worth marrying.

The right person is the one who loves himself, and it is right to be with him. Whether a man is worth marrying depends on whether this man has my status in the family and whether he is so good to me.

People who are responsible for themselves. Be sure to find someone who is responsible for yourself and for your family, so that you are the right person. See if he can give himself a sense of security. A man who gives himself a sufficient sense of security is the one who is worthy of marrying.

The right person is very simple, after meeting him, you want to get married, you are willing to live married life together, give up your freedom and are willing to pay for family life. A man who is self-motivated, kind, honest, and has some financial foundation is fine.

The right person for you is the right person, to see whether a man is worth marrying, it depends on whether he is sincere to you, and whether he wants to be responsible for your future and work hard for it.

Hello everyone, I am Yumo, awakening the original intention of love, guarding family happiness, today I will talk to you about a topic, is a man worth marrying, where do you look at it? It is very important to have three bottom lines. Let me ask you first, what kind of man do you think you can't marry?

What are the characteristics of a man who cannot be married?

A person who has a positive outlook on the world, life, and values. You have to observe the details for a long time and really understand each other before you can get married.

It is necessary to observe whether the man is caring, responsible, self-motivated, filial to his parents, positive attitude towards work, whether he loves you, and if so, he is worth marrying.

Look at whether he is handsome, whether he is wrong or not, whether he treats people with proportion or not, etc., you will know which man is worth marrying.

In fact, when you fall in love, you don't know, is it worth marrying him? Now, there aren't many requests either. Be able to live a life, be sincere and honest, and be kind to your family. It's worth it. Honor both parents. But men also have to think about their families.

In modern society, when looking at men, we first look at financial resources, look at character, and finally look at whether the circle is clean, there is no big problem, congratulations on picking up the treasure.

When he is like a power bank, when you are in a bad mood, when you are not feeling well, when you are very uncomfortable, when you are very low, the first thing you think of is him, he may be able to relieve you in a few words, and even say that sitting with you can relieve your emotions, make you feel that you have renewed hope for many things, and make your heart instantly better, when a boy can play such a role, this boy is a boy worthy of trust.

When you encounter great difficulties and setbacks in your life, you stop talking about it for the first time, think of telling other girlfriends, stop talking about it at the first time, think of telling your parents, you just want to tell him for the first time, and when you tell him, you especially believe that he can definitely have a way to solve your current problems, when you have such a sense of attachment to him, when you have such a sense of trust in him, when you are willing to entrust him in this way, he is a man who can be married.

How can you tell if a man is good or not?

1. Reluctant to spend money for you.

is like what is said in the movie "Goodbye Ex": "A man who is willing to spend money for you may not love you, but a man who is not willing to spend money for you must not love you." Although we can't always measure a person's sincerity with money, material things are still very important in relationships.

The maintenance of a relationship requires romance and surprises, and these need material support.

If a man is very stingy with you, he is not willing to buy you what you like, and he always spends too much money when he is thinking about dating you. Then his love for you must not be very deep, such a man is not worth marrying, because if you marry him, your future days will always be in this kind of calculation.

2. Whether you have three views similar to you.

It's very simple for two people to be together, confirm their eyes, exchange their sincerity, and then they can fall in love. But marriage is different, marriage is not child's play, and it can't stand the toss.

If two people don't have a common topic and three views, and you want to go east and he wants to go west, then you will often get into quarrels because of this. For marriage, similar three views are very important, and only two people with tacit understanding can be together for a long time. A man who is inconsistent with your three views, no matter how much he loves, is not worth marrying.

3. Whether there is strong machismo.

Everyone yearns for freedom and wants to have their own little world, but if you meet a man with extremely strong machismo, you will lose yourself in the relationship. No matter what you do, you have to report to him, his hobbies will interfere, his freedom he wants to control, you are like a prison bird to him, there is no chance to see the outside world.

Actually, this is not to love you, this is his selfishness, in the relationship, a man who has one of the strongest men is not worthy of your love, let alone your marriage.

4. Are you willing to spend time with you?

Companionship is the most affectionate confession", the man who loves you will use time to prove his sincerity to you. Although he has a very busy job, he has you in his heart, so he will spend time with you and talk to you no matter what. When you are sad and crying, when you have a big smile, he will do his best to be there for you, which is what only people who marry love look like.

But if a man always uses himself as an excuse that he is too busy and is unwilling to accompany you, when you encounter difficulties and need him, he always asks someone to face you to know that he actually doesn't love you that much. A man who is unwilling to spend time with you is not worth marrying, because marrying him, you will face endless loneliness and waiting.

5. Whether you are filial to your parents.

An important factor to consider when choosing the other half is filial piety, filial piety is not to accompany parents all the time, what parents need is only your care when necessary. I often go home to see, a ** on holidays, a greeting, a small gift, are all filial piety. If he is willing to treat your parents like this, at least he is a qualified son-in-law who deserves to be had.

But if a man treats your parents with the most malicious attitude, then if you marry him, you will always be in a dilemma. Such a man is really not worth marrying.

If a woman wants to marry a man, the most important thing is to see whether the other party is worthy and reliable. It also depends on whether the man is good to the woman, if the man is not good to the woman at the beginning, then it is best not to marry, because after the woman marries, she wants to be cared for by her husband, and a man who does not know how to take care of the woman will feel like a stranger even if he lives together in the end.

Women also have to look at a man's personality, if a man's personality is more irritable, then the possibility of domestic violence in married life is higher. I think every woman can't afford to be beaten by a man, and a short-tempered man will be more impulsive in everything he does.

If a woman is more clean, she should also see if a man loves cleanliness, if she loves cleanliness very much, but the other party does not like to clean up, then after marriage, two people will always feel that they are not on the same level, and the other party's life will always be sloppy and unsophisticated, and women like to be neat and tidy when they live, so the personalities of the two people are different, so try not to be together.

See if he is really good to you and willing to pay for you.

Women want to marry good men. But many women are carried away by love in marriage and love. I was blinded and ended up marrying the wrong person, which led to a tragic marriage.

So. Be sure to keep your eyes peeled at the stage of love. Stimulate your own smart IQ and emotional intelligence.

I can get along with each other. Have a deep understanding of each other's thoughts and conduct.

First, it depends on his character, his relationship with his family, and his relationship with colleagues and friends. If you have a close relationship with your family and are friendly with your colleagues and friends, this man is still more reliable.

If the man does not have a good relationship with his family, then the man is unreliable. Even if it's good for you, it's temporary, or pretended.

Second: It can be observed in the details of life, if a man is scheming everywhere, he is not suitable for marrying him.

Third: you can look at his work reputation and ability. If you are not motivated at work, and you keep making excuses for not being promoted, this kind of man cannot be married, and it will be painful for a lifetime if you marry.

A woman's greatest sorrow is to marry an incompetent man.

Fourth: see if he has the courage to take responsibility. If you excuse yourself for any mistakes, complain about others, and shirk responsibility.

Look at the three views: girls must understand each other's three views before getting married, if they are inconsistent with the man's three views, after marriage, you will find that many problems are caused by the inconsistency of the three views of the two people.

See if the other party is willing to spend money on you: Although a man is willing to spend money on you, it means that he must love you very much, but a man who is not willing to spend money on you is a cautious cover who does not love you. If you are not willing to spend money before marriage, you will not have to count on it after marriage.

For those who are particularly rich, it is better to see if the other party is willing to spend time with you.

Look at the man's attitude towards his parents: if you have time and opportunity, get together with your parents who are unfilial and filial, carefully observe the man's attitude towards his biological parents, if a person is not good to his parents, then you don't expect him to be good to you in the future.

Look at the relationship pattern of the man's parents: We all know that the influence of a person's original family is very important, learn more about the relationship pattern of the man's parents, if the man's parents do not get along, or it is not the married life you want, then you should pay attention. Because the man grew up in such an environment, he will be greatly influenced by his parents.

See if you can talk together: Marriage is a combination of two people, if you want to get married, you have to find someone who can talk together, if two people can't talk together, they will have nothing to say after marriage, and they will feel bored.

Whether the sex life is harmonious: If you find that the sex life is not harmonious before you get married, then it is best not to get married first, because of food and sex. If the sex life is not harmonious, the later marriage will not be happy.

Hello, if you want to find someone who really loves you, then first of all, you must have enough understanding of the two people in the process of dating, to do an in-depth understanding, to see if he is a suitable person for you, whether he is a person worthy of your trust, see if a man is patient with you, a man who is not patient enough for his girlfriend and his wife who is about to get married, then you must not marry. Every day you call him a flash, and he always feels impatient. He goes on a business trip, and you ask him to report his whereabouts, but he says you're annoying.

You ask him to go shopping with you, but he gets bored. He is impatient with you now, so after getting married, won't he be bored of seeing you every day? See if he is attentive and says, "The prodigal son does not change his money", if a man used to be very attentive, but from the moment he decided to marry you, he will no longer be attentive, and such a man can still marry.

But some men, on the surface, are wholeheartedly devoted to you, but in fact, behind the scenes, they pull and pull with other women, hooking up with unclear, this kind of man must not marry. Otherwise, you will have to cry under the quilt every day. Falling in love with someone who doesn't go home ends up just waiting alone and alone.

1. See if he is gentle. Or liquid women must eventually marry a man who knows how to be gentle and considerate. He may be big-hearted and rugged on the outside, but he has a delicate mind and knows what you want, and can be there when you need him most.

As a poet once said, "There is a tiger sniffing the roses in the heart." Whenever they encounter something with you, their expressions will unconsciously soften, and they will speak more quietly. They can support you and be gentle with you.

2. See if he loves his family. If you meet a man who doesn't love his family at all, then the ending must be very painful. What women need most is a sense of security, and if a man does not go home every day, he cannot give a woman a sense of security.

The woman wants very little, a cozy cottage, a man who loves her, a few cute and obedient children. But none of these men can give it to her, and for such a man, you must not marry him.

3. See if he picks the door. In reality, there are many strange men who don't pay at all, and they want women to be with him. If the woman is not with him, he will complain about the woman and say that the woman worships money.

In life, it definitely costs money for two people to get along, if a man picks the door to the point that he doesn't spend money on a woman at all, then what is the difference between a woman and being single before? It's not as comfortable as one of them. After that, if you start a family, the man may let you pay for all the expenses of the family.

Good luck. <>