I feel helpless and hesitant! What does it mean to be helpless What does it mean to be helpless

Everybody has moments like this, and it's up to us to treat it that way. When I was a freshman, I was a repeater in the dormitory except for me, so I always felt like there was a membrane in the dormitory, silently separating me. It's far away from home, and there are no familiar people, it feels very helpless, and just arrived at college, I have lost the momentum of high school, I have no goal, and I am very hesitant.

I don't know why you feel helpless and hesitant, but trust me, it will pass.

Now that I've been in college for a semester, I have good friends and know what I want to do in college. It's really sad to think about that time, but after that, it's nothing. Everything is a floating cloud. Hehe.

Sometimes, if there is no trusted person around, and there is no place to talk about your helplessness and hesitation, perhaps, you can open your heart, find a stranger, and talk about it, it will be better. Don't face it alone. Don't run away either.

Face it positively, believe me, everything will pass, and we will all be fine.

Learn from me, selective amnesia, remember only the happy things and forget the unhappy things, hehe.

I think this feeling is actually that I don't want to face any problems, I choose to escape, and I feel that I can't hide. Be strong, people find ways to solve problems, and if you don't face them, you will never be able to solve them.

Before the age of 18, you can be helpless, you can hesitate, but now that you have grown up, your family you have the responsibility to maintain, what you have to do is to first understand the reason why they divorced, if it is really irreparable reasons, you as a child, a 20-year-old person, if it is still useless to dissuade them, then bless them, emotional things, reluctantly, parents also have their own thinking, their own ideas and their own wishes, then I don't understand why they divorced like you, It's just that I blindly selfishly asked them not to divorce together, I used a lot of stupid methods, until finally they compromised for me, but they were not happy at all, the so-called family is no different from the morgue, when I realized this, I chose to let go, and now it's good, they all have their own lives, very happy, sometimes we need to think about them at this age, we can't just for ourselves, so selfish...

After listening to the lecture on a happy life, there is a way.

20 is not small, you should know what's going on with adults, just look at the opening point.

1. Hesitation and no assistance.

2. 尷徨 (pinyin páng huáng) is also known as "side emperor", a Chinese word.

It means wandering around, hesitating, not knowing which direction to go. It also indicates restlessness and uncertainty.

3. Helplessness: There is only one person or one side of pure distressed power, and there is no external assistance.

Emptiness is no goal, and emptiness is not powerful.

Emptiness is not strong and there is no goal.

There is no goal, because it cannot be achieved, so there is no goal.