I was so distressed that I didn t know what to do

You put your work needs, such as the need to increase the number of people, apply to your boss, and give constructive comments (provided that the boss is the same as you and wants to do a better job and be more worry-free).

If it doesn't work, then you can tell your family about your current situation, and the family should understand, after all, people are older, and they should enjoy life more, not worrying about work, and besides, you also mentioned that there is no room for promotion, and I believe that your family will understand you, as for what others think, it has nothing to do with you, who are you living for???

Do what you want to do and explain well to your family that your family who loves you will understand you.

You have already had a marriage, and now it is the second marriage, everyone must be able to afford a plain life, there will be contradictions between people, no matter who you are with, there will be contradictions, some things should be communicated with your husband well, the contradictions will be resolved, no matter what you do, you must think carefully about your future will go longer, and cherish it.

Your relationship is complicated enough. First of all, you have a husband who has found a lover while being married and has found a third party while being with his lover.

Now you just want to ask if you want a third party to become a regular. Kick the first two out of the way. Can it be understood in this way?

My personal opinion is: first see if you can divorce your husband, and now he knows that you have someone outside who still refuses to divorce. What kind of psychology and thoughts is this, I don't know, is it because I like you too much or is it revenge just to get stuck with you?

2: Your relationship with your lover is an act during the marriage period, which is not worth advocating in the first place. Now he likes you, but doesn't accept your children and family, so even if you leave, it will be difficult for you to come together in the end.

Three: Where can this person help you? Is it temporary or more permanent? Do you have any thoughts about the rest of your life, do you want to take one step at a time or do you want to find someone you can rely on? Think for yourself?

I'm actually curious about what an attractive woman you are. The second marriage with children also allows three men to revolve around you. Alas, it can be regarded as a winner in life.

Hello! Your lover does not accept your family and children, proving that he does not really love you, loving someone will accept all of him, including his strengths and weaknesses, and will love the house and ......To put it bluntly, being with you is a ...... to enjoy feelings and meet physical needsAs for whether you want to divorce your current husband, I don't know if he really loves you, if he has feelings for you, then it is best for you to cut off contact with your lover and live a down-to-earth life with him. As for the people who can help you, this doesn't have to be a ...... of promise

Your lover doesn't accept your family, which means that he is not sincere to you, and your husband is still reluctant to give you up, so you can choose for yourself.

If you're really worried right now, you can go outside and go on a trip and relax, and that's it.

If you have a problem, I think you should solve it well, and if you can't solve it for the time being, put it aside and don't think about other things.

If you have troubles, you can solve them as soon as possible, and if you can't solve them, don't think about them first, and you can communicate with friends with headaches. The mood will be cheerful.

In fact, if you want to live a truly happy life, you must first understand yourself correctly.

If you don't accept your children, are you planning to marry your lover without your children? Think for yourself!

My troubles, what should I do, my own troubles can only be solved by myself, and others can only help you with some advice.

You're stepping on three boats, so you'd break off some relationships that shouldn't have as soon as possible.

The woman wants to divorce the man.

If you do not agree, you can file for divorce. The court will first conduct mediation, and if the other party does not agree to the divorce, and there is no legal authority to determine the circumstances under which the divorce should be decided, the first instance will generally rule that the divorce is not allowed. You can sue after six months, at which point you will generally be dismissed.

Article 32 of the Marriage Law stipulates that if a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant department may mediate or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted. In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation of a person with a spouse; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they do not change after repeated attempts; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. If one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

The troubles are all self-inflicted.

What are you worried about?

Life is so long.

Keep in mind what you should remember.

Forget what you should forget.

It's easier that way.

Believe in the same bai

The eyes of the students are bright, as long as you meet the image of the dao class leader in the minds of the students, I believe that even if you return.

It's useless for your homeroom teacher to answer you with comments or something, after all, the homeroom teacher also wants the class to be good. So, you do your best to do what you are doing, (even if you're not a class leader yet).

Your experience and abilities, I believe you can do it. May your dreams come true!