What should I do if I can t get out? What to do if you regret not being able to get out

Brother, there is nothing that cannot be passed, and time is the best healing medicine. When you're in a bad mood, find a few good brothers, have some wine and chat, and when you're unhappy, find someone to talk to, and you'll be in a better mood. After a while, things will pass.

There is nothing that can't be passed, it's very uncomfortable in a different place, you have never given up the place where you live your life for anyone, that still can't last long after all, time dilutes everything, let you grow, new appearance, will always make you happy one day, sadness is only temporary, not sad is the problem!

Promise is a lie, don't be so obsessed with promises, because it's easy to deteriorate, don't force love, don't force it all the time in life, if it's not your cigarette edge, you should let go, the more annoying you feel when you keep each other many times, time is your best medicine will pass.

It is indeed not easy for a long-distance relationship to have a good ending! It's easy to fall in love, but it's hard to stay together!

You have to know that since the girl is chasing you, it is she who proposes to break up, and it is still a long-distance relationship, once you break up, the chance of redemption is very small!

It's okay that her heart has been broken, maybe she can't bear the difficult long-distance relationship, or maybe she wants to change the way of love, in short, she has made up her mind, and it is impossible to change her mind, after figuring this out, don't torture yourself painfully, to put it bluntly, it's useless, it's you who hurts yourself, adjust your mentality, start a new life, the next intersection, the person who really spends the rest of your life with you has been waiting for a long time, waiting to meet you unexpectedly!

In my opinion, if you are obsessed with a past relationship and come out, the solution is very simple, first of all, you should be in life, the things you care about, and then, try to exercise more and participate in social activities, so that you can quickly get out of a past failed relationship.

You're going to shift your attention now and accept the fact that she's gone, you know?

Find something to do, the past can't come back, and the next one is even better.

You can only try to find a way to remedy it, correct the serious mistakes, and at least you will feel a little better. Then you have to adjust your mindset and think about the problem in a different way. Let it pass if you go, and it's not right to always torture yourself with the mistakes of the past.

You have to try not to think about these things and find something new that interests you to focus on and distract yourself.

It's also a way to keep yourself busy at work or other things, and you don't have time to pay attention to your self-blame and regret. It may sound like an evasion, but it's very effective. It's good to be aware of your own mistakes and to be able to change yourself in time.

All unpleasantness is actually self-punishment.

Adjust the balance. Everyone has a balance point, and this balance point is our heart, if we don't care about all gains and losses, then whether it is gain or loss, we will not be too attached, and our hearts will not be so depressed. When things are tilted in a certain direction, we can adjust our inner balance and see a little more of everything. It's just that you can't get along with yourself if you are too persistent, leave yourself a room, and everything will pass.

Many people, because they have made mistakes, have done things that they regret, all day long in self-blame and regret can not come out, very painful, in fact, people live, don't live with themselves, don't be too stubborn, learn to let go, look forward. If we want to regulate this mood, we can try to reduce our self-blame and regret.

I definitely can't get out, but I still don't want to give up, I struggle in pain every day, and I slowly become stronger in the process.

Seriously, this kind of strength is a kind of forced strength, the strength after breaking oneself and being reborn, the thick membrane that wraps one's heart, and the rapid growth in adversity.

Although I didn't want to grow up in this way, I couldn't prevent the low point from coming suddenly. The sudden departure of my father, the change of work, and the complexity of my interpersonal relationships all made me struggle to move forward.

It's not that I didn't want to rely on others, but after being disappointed again and again, I realized that the only person in this world who can help me is myself.

So, I started to change myself, to learn not to speak out about my pain, to learn not to rush to make decisions, to learn not to trust anyone easily, to learn to be self-disciplined and to work hard for myself.

Slowly, I don't seem to know myself anymore, but this is the kind of self that I will not be easily hurt by others, and I can give myself peace of mind and protection.

Slowly, I seem to get used to this change, and I find that my life is on the right track, and I have found a lifestyle that suits me better.

Yes, there is no right way to live in this world, only the best for yourself. There used to be nothing wrong with that lifestyle when I could be simple and carefree, and now it's the best choice when I'm in a bad situation.

I never complain about everything God has given me, even the trials and lows, and I believe that this is a boost to help me get better. So what about you, are you also struggling in the trough? Have you ever wanted to give up on your life because of pain?

I want to tell you from personal experience that if you persevere, as long as you don't give up, everything will be fine, and when you get through the trough, there will be some changes, and at that time, you will have met a better self.

Many reasons will lead to us not being able to get out of the previous relationship:

1.The last relationship is an unfinished business, and it didn't go to the end, and I was unwilling.

2.I paid too much in the last relationship, and I have regrets.

3.I am full of hope for the last relationship, I feel that it can be recovered, and I don't have the heart to really let go.

4.There is no timely change of living environment and social circle.

5.Being too attached to the other person (weak self-ability).

6.There is no relative dream and direction to pursue, and the creation of a beautiful family and each other is regarded as the direction of pursuit.

7.The separation time is relatively short.

8.Parents and people around them are very optimistic about this relationship.

Butterflies always need to go through all kinds of ups and downs before becoming beautiful butterflies, and the separation may be to make us better and welcome the real Prince Charming Snow White.

Summary. Your narration teacher has seen that if you don't let him go out to talk to someone you hate, what is he going to talk about? If it's a work thing, you shouldn't get in the way.

Your partner still cares about you very much, and chose you at the time, but he went out with someone else for work, and you forgive me, I think both of you are doing very well, he has you in his heart, and you have him in his heart.

I don't think it's a bit inappropriate for you to continue this relationship with him in this matter, after all, it's not something that can stop your relationship.

I feel like I can't get out.

Reason: He wants to go to a foreign place to talk with a person I don't let him associate with, I don't let him, he said that for the sake of face he was embarrassed to refuse, I said Then he and I can only choose one, who do you choose? Choose to go with him, then we will come to an end, choose me This matter is over, and he chose me.

I was happy because I thought I was still important to him, but when he turned around, he agreed to go out of town with that person! Originally, I didn't let him go, but he asked me to give him face, just this once, not for example. I took a step back in order to ease my temper and let him go, but he had to come back before 12 o'clock that night (about 15 hours) and he agreed, but I didn't trust his verbal promise anymore, so I asked him to write a letter of guarantee to me, originally let him write if he couldn't do it, and from then on he broke off with me and never met!

He wouldn't write, but he agreed that if he couldn't, he would let me find another one! What do you think about this? I felt that my place in his heart was very small!

But I don't know what to do?

**It's the promise that my object (undocumented) made to me, asking the gods for guidance, what does he mean? Your narration teacher has seen that if you don't let him go out to talk to someone you hate, what is he going to talk about? If it's a work thing, you shouldn't get in the way.

Your partner still cares about you very much, and chose you at the time, but he went out with someone else for work, and you forgive me, I think both of you are doing very well, he has you in his heart, and you have him in his heart. I don't think it's a bit inappropriate for you to continue this relationship with him in this matter, after all, it's not something that can stop your relationship.

Life will encounter a lot of ups and downs, joys and sorrows, whenever people encounter these ups and downs, the first thing they need to do is to learn to free themselves and disarm, the most common way to free and distract: divert and distract your attention, travel, watch movies, chat with friends, etc.

That is, there is a little problem in the heart, you can go out for a walk, take a trip that you can go, or the student party will pay more attention to studying, office workers work hard, keep yourself busy, busy people are idle to relax, idle people are busy, have a regular life, often exercise outdoors, the body is good, and the mood will be much better.

Time will solve this problem.

It's always sad and can't get out. Time is the best medicine. Only after a long period of baptism, everything will pass, and everything will develop well.

Summary. No one else can come into my life, and I can't let go of the way I am.

What does it mean that if others can't get in, I can't get out.

The meaning is two words, and the mood is also two words--- self-empty. In fact, I don't want to go out, and I don't want others to walk in, which refers to going into my heart, and going out is to open my mind to face the world. He has lost himself, and he is confused about living and losing every day, without a clear goal, and he can live one day at a time.

I hope that he is just in a bad mood for a while, so he is autistic.

In a state of contradiction, entanglement, and confusion.

No one else can come into my life, and I can't let go of the way I am.

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