Is it necessary to get married if I don t want children?

I think you asked this question, and it makes me feel like you're hesitant to cherish the person in front of you. In fact, the answer to this question still depends on your own inner thoughts.

First of all, I think you still have to be sure if you're ready to be a Dink.

If you think about this problem clearly, then it's very simple. Not having children means that your life can be more dynamic and challenging, because you don't need to rush home from work to cook for your child, and you don't need to get up in the middle of the night to feed your child or change diapers or anything. You can eat whatever you want, at least you don't have to vomit half to death when you're pregnant, or think about whether eating a little chili pepper or crab or your favorite thing will have a bad effect on the little life in your belly.

Not to mention having to survive a long pregnancy of about 9 and a half months.

When you need to work overtime, it's one word: "Plus!" "You don't have to think about working overtime, if the child is brought to the husband or the elderly, and you will not encounter the black treatment of the employer, you explain directly:

I'm a Dink family, and I don't have to think about the impact of having a baby on my job.

Then, it can be expected that as long as you seize the ** period of personal value-added, you will naturally be able to fly as high as you want. The sense of self-identity and the abundance of money that comes with soaring at work is pleasant. <>

Secondly, having children and getting married are two different things.

Marriage is to find a person with the same three views to spend a lifetime together, and with TA, there is a partner who can work together. Of course, the premise is that you make it clear to the other person that you don't want to have children at the beginning, and if he agrees with your idea, then you can try to date. In this way, when you are working hard for your work, you will not be so lonely, and there will be someone who will think about you.

There's someone who can let you down your guard and talk to them about ideas that you can't talk to your colleagues, girlfriends, or even your parents. You can work together to make your little family better. The world is so big, you can go and see it together.

I have some friends who made up their minds not to have children when they first got married, but God just wants to send them treasures, and when they reach thirty-five or sixteen, they give birth to children, and when the children graduate from college, they are almost sixty. It's really hard.

I wish you to find your tata as soon as possible and accompany you to watch the long stream.

I am a front-line teacher and a hot mom of Erbao! Welcome to follow, happy parenting and happy life with me!

Personally, I don't think this is necessary, why do you say that you must have children after marriage? You can also get married and don't have children, as long as you feel happy and happy, you try to live a life that you are satisfied with, needless to say that you have to look at other people's faces or all have to follow the steps of each of us, because we people are married and immediately have a child, I think that it is free outside, and it is not necessary to have a child after marriage, otherwise you will not get married if you don't have children.

In today's society, it takes a lot of money and effort to raise a child according to ordinary standards. And today's children will face a lot of competitive pressure from birth. Therefore, in order to be able to make their lives more free, and in order not to let their children continue to participate in the involution of society, many people will choose not to have children.

When a person chooses not to have children, another question arises, that is, if they do not have children, is it necessary to get married? I believe that different people have different opinions on this issue. So about whether it is necessary to get married if you don't want children?

Here's what I think:

1. There is no need to get married if you don't want children.

In fact, there are many problems in the marriage system in the current society, and once many people get married, it will be very difficult to get rid of marriage after entering marriage. So if you don't want to have children, there's not much need to get married.

Second, whether or not the society gets married now has little to do with whether or not to have children.

But now the society is a very open society, whether we want to have children or not, we can choose to get married or not. Because if we don't want to get married, but we want to have children, we can choose to be single. If you want to get married and don't want children, you can choose Dink.

3. However, if you want to get married, you can get married no matter what.

But in fact, whether you get married or not is just a matter of whether you want to or not, and it has nothing to do with any other factors. If you really want to get married, you really want the other half, you can choose to get married. Marriage does not need to be mixed with any other factors, as long as you want to, you can get married no matter what.

It is necessary because it is a legal guardian relationship, and having a legal guarantee will also make your relationship more stable.

It is also necessary to get married if you do not want children, because marriage is not only about two people together, but also provides legal security for this marriage and makes two people feel more belonging to the family.

It is necessary because after two people get married, it is a legal relationship, and then they can enjoy a high-quality life for two people without being seriously affected by their children.

It is optional, because it is a voluntary act between husband and wife, as long as the husband and wife decide this matter, they can not have children.

You can also choose not to have children, but you must ask for the consent of your partner. Then your family should also agree, so that you can not have children.

Whether you want children is actually a matter of two people, I think you do something inappropriate about not wanting children after marriage, marriage is a matter of two families, whether you want children can also be said to be a matter of two families, so you should explain to your lover before you get married, you will not have children after marriage, if he agrees, then you decide then it is right.

You're married now, but you don't like children, but you didn't tell your lover in advance, it's like your lover was married, and after registering with you, I'll tell you that I'm sorry, I've been married before, and I have a child, and you think about whether you will be angry.

If the husband and wife discuss it well and the parents of both parties have no opinions, I think it is okay not to have children, as long as you do not regret this decision and live a happy life.

I feel like I can choose not to have children after getting married, because there are many families who do that.