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After a breakup, everyone will miss the past from time to time, so there are often crazy men and women chattering. The ex is your most sensitive story, whether you escape, whether you can keep a clear head, all generally affect the development trajectory between you, if you don't want to get into it, please keep your sanity, put away your feelings, people may have started a new life, who cares if you love or not? Therefore, after falling out of love, please stop complaining to each other, give others a little purity, and leave yourself a little self-esteem.
In love, two people should be equal, whether it is before or after a breakup, when your apologetic attitude becomes very humble, it will only make him look down on you more.
Men will cherish poor women, but they will not cherish humble girls, so please be sure to pay attention to your attitude. Breaking up should be decent, love is difficult to determine right and wrong, and where is the debt and apology. He owes you nothing, and you owe him nothing.
Don't do unnecessary entanglements, otherwise, it will only make him more disgusted with you. A man is most afraid of women's harassment, he only eats soft and not hard, so when you walk away in style, he will see your back more clearly!
Thinking about it from another angle, the crisis of breaking up is also an opportunity, because the problem has been placed there, and the long-accumulated problem suddenly broke out, which also shows that he lacks a lot in the relationship at this stage, and the time left for himself to think and change when the disconnection brings great pain to himself, this process is also a good growth opportunity for himself.
As Sanmao said, the most important thing for people to live in the world is to have the ability to love others, not to be loved. If we don't know how to love others, how can we be loved.
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If you break up with the other person, don't do these things.
First, go and beg others to get back together with you. If you break up with the other person, you have to hold on alone. You must not beg him to come back to you.
The more humble you are, the more he looks down on you. The more you plead, the more he will feel that you are worthless. When people see your struggling appearance, they just feel very bored.
They may already have a new love of their own. They just want you to stay away from them. Because they are afraid that you will affect their happy life.
They don't actually love you anymore. If they love you, how can they be willing to let you be so humble?
Second, post sad texts in the circle of friends. Many people feel pain after a breakup. They don't have a place to express their pain, so they will post some sad words in the circle of friends.
You thought she would sympathize with you when she saw your feelings. They will be very soft-hearted and will come back to you. And when they see your circle of friends, they will only feel sick.
They'll just think you can't afford to put it down. They will only be secretly happy. They just find themselves so attractive.
They don't have a little soft-hearted heart for you to have that kind of game. And if you do these things, you will also be looked down upon by your friends. What you do will only move you, not others.
Third, I still treat him as well as ever. Some lovers will be as good to others as ever after they break up. He hopes to salvage the relationship through these practices.
Even if people have explicitly rejected you, you still don't give up. You'll also be naïve to think that she is still in love with you. He's just angry with you.
You'd think that as long as you make her happy, he'll continue to love you. Actually, this is just wishful thinking. It is possible that your lover has already drunk someone else holding hands after breaking up with you.
Being nice to him only proves your stupidity. You have to save the best for the person you love the most. Wake up.
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What are some things you can't do after a breakup?
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After a breakup, these three things can't be done.
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1. Change your emotional status on social ** immediately, please make sure that the relationship is really over before changing. 2. Go out on a trip immediately, you might as well delay it for a few months, and when your emotional wounds have been ** and your mood is more stable, you can enjoy the trip more.
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1. Immediately change your emotional status on social **, please make sure that the relationship has really been tied up and then changed. 2. Go out on a trip immediately, you might as well delay it for a few months, and when your emotional injury has been more stable, you can enjoy the trip more.
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