Between relatives, how can friends never get tired of each other for a long time?

A more immutable truth: don't worry about other people's business, doing this can basically ensure that the relationship lasts for a long time.

Keep in touch often, exchange courtesies, and you will never get tired of getting along for a long time. Whether it is relatives or friends, only if they are in constant contact will they have feelings, and if they have feelings, they will care about each other, so that they will not get bored after getting along for a long time.

Just keep a good relationship all the time. When dealing with each other, you should treat others with respect, so that you will still have a good relationship after a long time.

I think it's about keeping a certain distance. There must be a certain safe distance between people, and if this distance is breached, it will definitely be disgusted.

In fact, people never get tired of living together for a long time. The long-standing secret is to maintain boundaries between people.

0 1 Boundary sensing.

Boundary sense is a new term that means judgment and attention to boundaries. When a person lacks a sense of boundaries, he or she may unconsciously entrust his or her affairs to others. Invite others to cross your own boundaries, or impose your will on others and force others to cross their boundaries.

In real life, the relationship between people gradually becomes distant and even strange from intimacy, mostly because one or both parties need to maintain a sense of boundary when they don't know how to get along.

An unhealthy sense of boundaries.

Unhealthy boundaries tend to take responsibility for other people's emotions and behaviors, or expect others to take responsibility for their own emotions and behaviors. In life, we often see some "pleasing type" personalities. These people are embarrassed to refuse the unreasonable demands of others, wronged themselves, and fulfilled others.

These are all unhealthy boundary behaviors.

A healthy sense of boundaries.

There is a story about two hedgehogs in the cold winter, trying to keep each other warm. However, both sides have thorns and are too close to each other. No matter how you adjust your sleeping position, it is uncomfortable on both sides of the thorn.

So, they separated themselves from a certain distance, but found that it was too cold to stand up. After several efforts, the two hedgehogs finally found a suitable distance to keep each other warm without stabbing each other. So slept very comfortably.

The story of the two hedgehogs teaches us that to maintain a healthy sense of boundaries between people, we need to constantly adjust the distance between people. The right distance is the boundary between you and me. Being able to get along without crossing the line really requires wisdom.

In life, we often hear people say: I speak straightforwardly, so don't argue with me. It seems that speaking out is the reason why he can confidently hurt others.

In life, there are always some people who like to be "good teachers". They show no mercy to each other and hurt each other with impunity. When the people around him left him one by one, he didn't know why.

In fact, the so-called "open-mouthed" is just a person's low emotional intelligence or lack of cultivation. Because, when you hurt someone, you don't think about their feelings at all.

As the saying goes, distance produces beauty. Everyone is an individual and has their own secrets. If you blindly break in, it will make the other party insecure and extremely uncomfortable. "Knowing people and discussing the world" is a compulsory course for everyone. Not crossing the line is the greatest respect for each other.

You should always care about each other's lives, and you can't make jokes about each other, and you can't borrow money from each other, so that you can get along for a long time and make everyone's life easier, so that's okay.

I feel that if you want to be with friends and relatives for a long time, you must treat each other with sincerity, keep your distance, improve your self-worth, whether it is friendship or love, if you want to be with each other for a long time, the most important state is to get along comfortably, don't comment on others casually, this is not only a kind of cultivation, but also a kind of virtue.

Friends and relatives should learn to think from each other's point of view, be considerate of others, and not blindly think only of themselves. When the other party encounters something, listen to the troubles of others, enlighten the other party, and give warmth.

No matter what kind of relationship it is, you need to communicate and exchange frequently, you need to talk about the same topic, the relationship will be long-lasting, even relatives need to understand each other's preferences, respect and care for each other.

Be sure to leave some space for each other, and keep some distance appropriately, so that you can get along more comfortably.

First of all, if there are only some small conflicts between friends and relatives, there is no need to worry about it, you can tolerate each other and understand each other, and secondly, you must often exchange feelings with each other, but you can't stick together every day, so that you can get along for a long time.

Be respectful of each other and don't get too involved in any relationship. And you have to know what to do and what not to do.