How can we express our opinions in a reasonable way?

<> asks you to talk about your thoughts, and there are two meanings:

One is that the other party cares about you, listens to your views and suggestions, and allows you to express your own opinions.

The second is that the other party is testing your ability, if what you say is reasonable, he will think that you can, if you say something wrong, he may have an opinion.

So, be sure to think about it before you do it.

Think about what you want to talk about, and then say what you think.

Try not to say the right thing, it's better to be ambiguous, and positive energy is more appropriate.

If you want to be reasonable, you should understand what the truth of the facts is, and arrange these things to be able to express them reasonably.

<> the main format of a proposal, a commonly used letter used by a unit or collective to make a certain proposal on a certain task to the relevant unit or a superior organ and leader. It is a style of writing used when an individual or a relevant party of a unit advocates everyone to do something together, or puts forward reasonable opinions and suggestions in order to carry out a certain work, complete a certain task or carry out a certain activity, which is also called an opinion letter.

Text: Dear xx total:

I have worked in several different positions, which is also my more comprehensive understanding of the company, so I feel that standardize the company's management system, clarify work standards, optimize work processes, and then supplement with intimate corporate culture to unite people's hearts and create an efficient team.

1. Don't deny the other person absolutely.

When the other party expresses their opinions, even if the other party's point of view is very different from yours, do not interrupt the other person's speech at will, let alone directly criticize the other party's point of view. No one can say who is right and who is wrong, don't always assume that your thoughts are right, maybe the other party will still laugh at you for being ignorant in your heart.

If there are details in the other person's remarks that you agree with, you can first point out and express that you agree with the statement of this place, and then say that you still have some different views on other parts and want to say them and discuss them together. If it is completely contrary to your own opinion, you can first ambiguously say that there is some truth in this opinion, and then say that you think from another angle, and have an idea to discuss together. During the period, don't compare your own ideas with the other party's point of view, otherwise it is easy to make the other party feel suppressed, and this is not an arena.

2. Listen carefully and correct your mentality.

Make eye contact with the other person from time to time, smile, and let the other person know that you are really listening to his point of view, which will make the other person feel respected, and then he will not be embarrassed to be harsh and mean to you when you express it.

And we must correct our mentality, we are discussing around the central issue, and finally summarizing the solution to solve the problem, not in comparing who thinks higher, not to mention trying to make the other party ugly, if we do not correct our mentality, it is easy to lose the original direction in the discussion.

I think the first thing to know is to know what you want to say, and what kind of paper words you want to use to say it better to listen to and be more acceptable.

Build confidence that you can do everything well.

My children are in the fourth grade, and helping him with his homework is the most tormenting time for me, and his dad hides far away. Write a homework grinding chirping, want this or that, don't concentrate at all, I can't bear it, I can't help it, I yelled at him, he started crying, he cried I was more annoyed, hit him, cry even more. Write an assignment and bargain, watch TV and play on your phone.

The teacher also reported that he was inattentive in class, often deserted, and his grades could not improve. As soon as I thought of his studies and homework, I got angry, and when I was in a hurry, he cried and said, "It's not that I want to go to school, it's you who want me to go", and what made me angry was not all for his good, and if I didn't study hard now, what would I do in the future.

I've been crying so many times that I've been angry with my children, and I've been doing it over and over again, and I really can't help it.

The learning problems you describe in children are universal, and with a little guidance, they can catch up with their peers. Although our school teachers also have the responsibility of educating people, but in the face of so many children, we are really powerless, and more need the family to educate and guide, after all, parents are the first teachers of children. Based on my experience, it is very discouraged for parents to beat and scold their children often, and it is okay to teach them a lesson once in a while.

Now the child is becoming more and more hostile, and even doing extreme things, and the news has reported a lot, often scolding him, which will lead to the child's low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence, and even autism.

I suggest that parents consult a professional family education teacher, and then understand the true thoughts of their children, professional people, do professional things, and use the right methods to solve children's problems faster. A family education teacher came to our school to give a lecture before, and the parents and students gained a lot, and I also felt a lot. You can find him to learn Long press to copy and add WeChat, which can help you find the reasons why your child does not like to study, lack of concentration, does not write homework, loves to cry and other problems, and provides you with simple and effective coping methods.

If other parents are worried about their 5-16-year-old child's lack of concentration, poor self-control, lack of study, procrastination in homework, etc., you can turn to him for help.

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First, familiarize yourself with what you're trying to say.

If you want to introduce your own products, you must have a thorough understanding of the details of the product's performance, positioning, function, packaging, characteristics and other aspects, so as to deal with all kinds of problems raised by the other party.

Second, make an outline. If you feel like you're getting messy in your expression and are always prone to missing it, then you must learn to outline it. Initially, you can try to put your ideas on paper.

When abstract expressions are actually implemented in black and white, you will feel confident. Not only can an outline serve as a reminder to avoid missing points, but more importantly, it helps you organize your thoughts, and you will find problems in your expression in the process of writing the outline.

Know what kind of person you are communicating with, what kind of cultural level you are, and whether you know what you want to express, so as to choose the most appropriate way to express yourself.

If you mention "user viscosity" to a primary school student, they will be at a loss and automatically split the word into "user" and "viscosity" to understand; But if you talk to a professional about "user viscosity", they will naturally understand what that means and will be able to derive other concepts and related ideas. Obviously, it is useless to mention "user viscosity" to primary school students.

Similarly, when expressing a point, your target does not necessarily have to be a professional in your field, nor does it necessarily have a good acceptance of the point you want to express, so please know who you are communicating with before you express it, speak it in layman's jargon to insiders, and use an easy-to-understand way for outsiders.

1. Full of losses, humble benefits. "Humility" is composed of "words" and "both", which is understood as: to speak with the interests and feelings of others in mind.

2. Therefore, in daily life, we must always be humble, and the core of it is to show weakness. When we show weakness, it is easy to arouse the other party's willingness to help you's goodwill, if everything is competitive, swaggering, showing off your might, it will inspire some bad intentions that are not good for you and jealousy.

3. Of course, showing weakness also has speaking skills, when we have an opinion on one thing and can't reach an agreement with the other party, we try our best to make up for it without tearing it down, and support rather than oppose.

Only with a sincere attitude can we make a reasonable confession, and we must speak truthfully and not be sad than confessing our opinions. You can't say that you have to say the truth. to be able to express.

This requires parents and children to learn and grow together, and can learn through some parent-child reading at home, such as "My Parents", "Good Habits and Good Life", "A Good Mother is Better Than a Good Teacher", "My First Emotional Intelligence Management Book", etc. These books are very good, my baby is now reading "My First Emotional Intelligence Management Book", the content of this book is very comprehensive, from the psychology of children to the psychology of adults are involved, after reading this book, my family treasure has improved a lot of emotional intelligence, and also learned how to interact with people. My family treasure has the same problem, we work together and believe that everything will be fine...