How to face the person who bullied you in junior high school?

Updated on society 2024-04-18
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, many years have passed, and those things that should be forgotten are forgotten. Don't let yourself always hold grudges, you will be tired too. Learning to forget about some unhappy things will also help you physically and mentally.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you want to face the person who bullied you in junior high school, then you have to make yourself strong first, and when you see him again, you feel that you are very difficult to mess with. Let him not have the courage to bully you again, so that he will not dare to bully you again. It's all junior high school, you were a child in junior high school, and now you're older, you've grown up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I feel like if he was joking, I could have mentioned something about the past with him. Take it as a joke and make him feel guilty. If it's that kind of school violence. You have to let him know that he won't be better off in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    For the people who bullied me in junior high school, it is actually very simple to face it again. Let's stop thinking about what happened at that time, but look at the present, after all, we were all children at that time, and our minds were not mature enough, so we don't need to dwell on it all the time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Prepare a bottle, anti-wolf spray, and spray him first, then pick up the bottle and slam him on the head and send him to the hospital.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The person who used to bully me in junior high school, I feel that when I face it again, I am a stronger and more perfect self, and when I meet again, I am not the same person I used to be, and I have made myself better and better.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There is a saying that if a person has hurt you, you have not forgiven him, you have selectively forgotten about it, the person who bullied me in junior high school will never want to see him again in my life, and if I see him again, I will pretend not to know him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I would definitely feel embarrassed when facing someone who bullied me in junior high school, but I didn't do that, because I felt that being able to meet was fate, and I should face it as before, so that I could maintain a good friendship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I used to be bullied a lot when I was in junior high school, but in the end we all resolved the conflict, and now, we are all good friends, and we sit down and talk when we go home every year.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This kind of thing, everyone's specific situation is very different, and the corresponding methods are also different, one, if you or in the family, have the power, or have money, and the power oppresses it.

    Second, if you can make good friends, there are many buddies who are righteous and angry, and there are many people, if the other party dares to bully people, they will be beaten.

    Third, if the other party is physically strong and much stronger than you, then try to be patient, you can make friends with strange people, or practice kung fu, whether it is in the short term or in the long term, it will eventually make the wicked taste the bitter fruit.

    Fourth, if you are virtuous and wise, of course, you can also collect and educate the wicked.

    In fact, being able to meet wicked people is also the fate of the past in terms of cause and effect, and it is the best policy to be able to turn enemies into friends without intensifying contradictions.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Find someone who can warn him more forcefully, or try to get to know his parents, if he doesn't want to cause trouble, he probably won't bully you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, it must be resisted, when China was invaded and oppressed before, it was also to resist, and finally achieved victory and liberation to have the beautiful and well-off life now.

    It is the same when historical events are projected onto individuals.

    Specifically, you can divide it into two aspects: external and internal.

    Externally, you have to make friends who are more domineering than him, and the enemies who can suppress him, or the enemies of his enemies, are friends.

    Internally, you have to study hard so that you don't have the opportunity to be bullied again in your later life. Only if you live better than others and have a high status, others will not bully you.

    Also, you have to behave well in front of the teacher and parents, and he is afraid that you will sue behind your back.

    That's all, when I was in middle school, I still focused on learning, and other things, you can solve them, but if you can't solve them, you can also tell teachers and parents, in short, study hard, and your life will be better in the future, and you will meet better people.

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