Why are people so guarded?

Because there's a good guy and a bad guy, and you're not familiar with it, and you're not sure if he's good or bad, so you need to be defensive.

Remember.

There are too many villains around, so you have to be on guard. Prevent villains: 1, it is not advisable to be close to the villain or near the gentleman to be far from the villain, and there should be a scale between colleagues, do not be too intimate, leak privacy, and avoid the villain from hurting you for personal gain.

2. If you offend the villain, then be careful of the villain framing; 3. If the matter is directly or indirectly related to the interests of the villain, you must also be careful of the villain's frame-by. Especially the vicious villain, he will implicate the important things around you in the frame, and the villain is good at using the important people around you to retaliate and frame you, and even kill you. So beware of the villain's tricks.

Because in the face of self-interest, villains have no concept of being a man. 4. Your various passwords (such as computer passwords) should be kept absolutely confidential. 5. If you are "harmed", you should seize the opportunity to prove your innocence, and don't blindly tolerate it, in case you are framed by the villain again.

6. Observe more people and things around you, and strive to prevent problems before they happen. 7. Don't tell others about your privacy, lest the villain hold your "handle" and blackmail you.

Because this society is too insecure, after being hurt, people begin to distrust this society, and begin to protect themselves and others. So that's it ...

This is a social phenomenon. Because many people are crawling around in society, all for profit. In the face of interests, many people pay the price of living in masks.

If there is no sincerity between each other, there will be no affection. In this social climate, sincere people tend to be hurt. Everyone has learned the truth that "the heart of defense is indispensable".

Today's society is the era of the supremacy of interests, and between people, even if they are close relatives, they must settle accounts, not to mention the friendship of ordinary friends, because everyone wants to fight for their own interests.

In today's society, there are many more people each person in contact with than before, so in the current world, there is no understanding of the people who are facing it.

Defensiveness refers to a person's mental preparation in advance in order to respond to an attack or to make a high judgment to avoid harm. The precaution comes from the "Book of the Later Han Dynasty and the Emperor Ji": "The first emperor ascended the throne, and he took a break from military service, but he still thought deeply, never forgot the danger, explored the old classics, recovered salt and iron, and wanted to be prepared for the border of Ning'an."

The Book of the Later Han Dynasty mainly describes the first year of Emperor Guangwu of the Han Dynasty (25 AD) of the Eastern Han Dynasty and the 25th year of Jian'an of the Han Dynasty (220 AD), a total of 196 years of historical events. The author of the 10 volumes of the Book of the Later Han Dynasty and the 80 volumes of the Biography is Fan Ye, which synthesizes the seven historical materials of the Later Han Dynasty that circulated at that time, and refers to the Later Han Dynasty written by Yuan Hong, which is concise and thorough, and the narrative is vivid, so it replaces the previous Later Han history. During the Northern Song Dynasty, some people co-published the thirty volumes of Sima Biao's "Continuation of the Han Dynasty Chun Gaishu" with it, which became today's "Book of the Later Han Dynasty".

Human beings are self-protective creatures with socks and pants, and it is natural for them to be defensive. Some people are very defensive, mainly for the following reasons.

The first is past experience. Many people, after experiencing some setbacks or some injuries, will become more cautious and conservative, afraid of being hit again. For example, some people may have suffered losses by trusting the wrong person, and then become very cautious and do not trust others easily.

In this case, being very defensive is an effective way to protect yourself.

The second is the environmental impact. In modern society, people face a wide variety of security issues and risks. In large cities, where crime is more prevalent, people must exercise caution to protect their material property and personal safety.

For another example, on the Internet, scams emerge in an endless stream, and people must always be vigilant against various methods of attacks such as telecom fraud and phishing. In such a situation, the strengthening of the sense of defensiveness is also an effective way to protect oneself.

Finally, there is the personality factor. Some people are more cautious and conservative in nature, like to close themselves off and do not easily associate with others. These people may feel that their safety is more important and therefore will be very wary of the actions of others.

Although this way is more lonely, it can protect yourself to a certain extent.

In short, it is normal for someone to be very defensive. At present, various risks in society are changing, and the need to protect one's own security is also high. It is just necessary to pay attention not to be overly suspicious and suspicious of others, otherwise you will lose the opportunity to get along with others and reduce your social skills and influence.

Defensiveness refers to a person's mental preparation in order to respond to an attack or avoid harm. The precaution comes from the "Book of the Later Han Dynasty and the Emperor Ji": "The first emperor ascended the throne, and Wu Chunpi took a break from military service, but he still thought deeply, did not forget the danger, visited the old classics, recovered the salt and iron, and wanted to be prepared for the border of Ning'an."

The Book of the Later Han Dynasty mainly describes the first year of Emperor Guangwu of the Han Dynasty (25 AD) of the Eastern Han Dynasty and the 25th year of Emperor Jian'an of the Han Dynasty (220 AD), a total of 196 years of historical events. The author of the 10 volumes of the Book of the Later Han Dynasty and the 80 volumes of the Biography is Fan Ye, which synthesizes the seven historical materials of the Later Han Dynasty that circulated at that time, and refers to the Later Han Dynasty written by Yuan Hong. During the Northern Song Dynasty, some people co-published the thirty volumes of Sima Biao's "Continuation of the Book of the Han Dynasty" with it to form today's "Book of the Later Han".

Defensiveness refers to being vigilant and precautionary in the face of a certain possible situation. It is a preventative state of mind that can help us to be more calm and confident in the face of risks and challenges.

The importance of precaution lies in the fact that it helps us to prevent potential dangers and risks, and avoid unnecessary losses and injuries. For example, in life, we can prevent property damage by installing security doors and purchasing insurance; At work, we can prevent information leakage and business interruption by backing up data and formulating emergency plans.

At the same time, defensiveness can also help us better cope with challenges and stress. When we maintain a vigilant and preventive mindset, we will be more acutely aware of potential problems and risks, so that we can respond and solve them more effectively. In addition, precaution can also help us better plan and organize our life and work, and avoid unnecessary waste and mistakes.

However, precautions also need to be moderate. Excessive defensiveness may cause us to be overly nervous and anxious, affecting our life and work. Therefore, while maintaining a defensive mind, we also need to learn to relax and regulate our emotions and maintain a balanced and stable state of mind.

In conclusion, defensiveness is a preventive state of mind that can help us prevent potential dangers and risks, and better cope with challenges and sales-resistant pressures. In life and work, we need to be moderately vigilant, and at the same time, we must learn to relax and regulate our emotions and maintain a balanced and stable state of mind. <>

I think the main thing is that people nowadays regard interests too seriously, and the feelings between people are getting weaker and weaker, and they are becoming more and more selfish.

Because people only believe in themselves, not others, and feel that everything should be experienced personally, and only by experiencing it personally can they know what it is like.

The main reason is that the human heart is so complicated that we don't know what others will think of us, so we will be on guard.