Do you wonder what you hold on to in your heart?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-21
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Occasionally. But it all passed in a flash, because what I insisted on in my heart, I deeply knew that I needed it the most, what I wanted the most, even if it was because of external interference and my own emotional influence, it was only temporary, and I would continue to stick to my heart. Just as the destination does not change, on the way to the destination, you may take a break to comfort yourself who is tired and tired; will also say hello to passers-by, even if it is just a smile; Or maybe because of some beautiful scenery, you will go a little farther away, but anyway, you still have to return to the road to your destination.

    Perseverance is not easy to do, but what is the easy thing in life? It is also a very happy and fortunate thing to quietly listen to the guidance of your heart and stick to it all your life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There are times when I really get confused. Take my relationship with my girlfriend as an example, we met in college, we have graduated for three years now, we are separated from each other and work in different cities, I have always held on to this love in my heart, but sometimes I feel confused, I really don't know what the end of my perseverance is, because I have seen that after three or even five years, we may still be separated from each other, and I really dare not imagine the ending at that time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It is not easy to persevere, and it is inevitable that there will be occasional wavering. However, with the increasing informatization of modern society and the increasing amount of information, some of the sticks will also change. The deepest memory is that when I was a child, adults always told me that there was Chang'e on the moon and that there were unclean things when it was dark.

    Now I really can't find any evidence of Chang'e on the moon, and even when I tell my son a story, he will say that I am a liar. Of course, there are also things that have never wavered, such as my mother told me that the poorest person in this life is to ask for food, and it is not possible to steal chickens and dogs. I have always remembered in my heart that no matter how difficult it is, it is nothing more than giving up my face to ask for help, and I will never dare to cross the thunder pool by half a step.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think I need to be particularly powerful, but I think I just need to live my life. Temperament, temperament is a business card of college students, and the unique temperament will add a lot of charm to you; Character, carefully analyze the flaws of your character, correct your attitude, hone your will, and control your emotions to shape a better character, so as to better achieve life. Work hard in your studies and acquire more knowledge.

    Understand etiquette and law. In extracurricular activities, improve your social skills and expand your social circle. In order to improve one's overall quality as soon as possible, we should also humbly seek advice in all aspects, observe carefully, and learn more from the teachers and classmates around us.

    Be bold in practice and continue to accumulate life experience. Any ability is accumulated in practice, and there is a process from not knowing to knowing, from unfamiliar to familiar. Stick to your original intention and live your most satisfying self.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    To survive, or to the truth, I'm confused; Whether to stick with it or to compromise, I'm confused. Perseverance is undoubtedly a lonely, painful process of metamorphosis. For this reason, I have asked many teachers and classmates, and I have also read a lot of books on spiritual inspiration and philosophy.

    I learned that I had to stick to my bottom line, stick to my heart, and stay young while I was still young. I can also be 'willful'. Then I have to live willfully for myself, for the original dream in my heart.

    Many people don't feel it until they are old, regretting the various wrong choices they made in the face of confusion and going with the flow, and they didn't stick to their original hearts. I want to have a youth without regrets and a bright future, and I know I have to stick to it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes! Embarking on the path of education from graduation is full of anticipation, strength, curiosity, and enthusiasm. Because I like the simplicity of children, I like the ease with children, no intrigue, no need to figure out my thoughts, and do a good job in education!

    However, the reality is very skinny, and I will always inadvertently confuse myself, it turns out that education is not so simple, not so simple, not only to get along with every child, but also to intrigue with every leader and colleague! I began to waver.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There will be doubts, when I was a child, I took my parents' words as a holy decree, and I felt that what they said was the most correct, but now that I have grown up, and when I communicate with them, I will find that many of them have narrow ideas and dare not agree.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Stick to the person's own character and decide, is to like to stick to it, without doubt, each of the thoughts are different, the most difficult to change is the usual habits, whether it is a good habit, or a bad habit, you can experience it yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I used to be obsessed with feelings, so that I was bruised all over my body, and I didn't dare to love anymore, but I still found that the world walked true love, but my way of giving was wrong, and I didn't know how to maintain feelings. I sometimes have doubts about what I stick to, and when I have doubts, I explain that the way is wrong, as long as I carefully find out how to deal with this matter and treat this matter, I will succeed in the end.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I stick to my kindness, stick to my patience, stick to my persistence, although I don't get anything in return, but I have a clear conscience, I know that the reward of persistence is sometimes given to us in a material that we can't feel, sometimes I have been confused, sometimes I have given up, to the point that I don't want to give up halfway, since I have done something, I will do it well, do it beautifully.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes. Because I found that what I had been holding on to in my heart was worthless in the eyes of others, then I would wonder if I continued to do this!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I know I have passions and dreams, but that's not enough. If a person only has dreams and does not put them into practice, it is like a pipe dream. The essence of man is labor.

    However, for a student like me who is still studying and doesn't have much labor to contribute, it's time to learn and grow. Let's try to participate in social practice activities. Live up to my parents' expectations for me and write a more wonderful life for me in the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, I bought a house in my hometown after struggling outside for a few years, and now I question that I shouldn't buy a house in my hometown, but it's all renovated, and I'm reluctant to sell it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Everyone has the confusion of life, when you do something, you must encounter a low period, at this time you must be strong, according to no matter how big the difficulties must be survived and accepted, this is the saddest moment, you can survive this difficulty.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There will always be a lot of confusion in this world, but as long as you stick to your goals and dreams, you will have power.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I should get out of the confusion and stick to my certainty.

    If you can win, you will succeed.

    Welcome to adopt, thank you!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    From the south to the north. It's all empty. Let me feel your tenderness one last time. People's confusion and perseverance.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Life will inevitably experience pain, as long as you persevere and persevere, you will achieve your ideals.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Life will encounter confusion in this world, we must stick to our beliefs, make ourselves strong, and work hard to realize our dreams.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't look back on each other's past in the future, just leave regrets all over your body. Since you can't get it, let it go, and the result of entanglement with each other is often just a lose-lose situation.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The road of life is full of difficulties and obstacles.

    Sometimes confusion arises, it's human nature!

    As long as you firmly believe that there is no mountain of flames that cannot be crossed.

    Through hard work, we will find that tomorrow will be better

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Time is always ticking, passing quietly and silently. In the blink of an eye, the college entrance examination has left me, and the years of devilish training in the third year of high school that were complained about have also passed. I thought I had finally reached the heaven that the teacher said I had said, but then I found out that it was not.

    A new environment, a new partner, and a new puzzle. Everyone has confusion, and each stage has different confusion. Compared with high school, life learning has begun to be autonomous, so that the previously passive self has the biggest confusion, how to self-discipline, how to self-help learning, and how to live independently.

    This semester, I groped in confusion, moved forward in exploration, and gradually found my direction in confusion. Whitehead, a British philosopher of education, said: "In secondary school, the student sits at his desk and studies, and in college, he should stand up and look around."

    I gradually realized that I should grasp the direction of the major, the diversity of channels, the systematization of the curriculum, the initiative of learning and the creativity of thinking, and master the rules of university learning: the organic combination of foundation and major; Organic combination of knowledge and skills; The organic combination of breadth and depth; the organic combination of inheritance and innovation; The organic combination of theory and practice.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Who's life is not confused, whenever I want to try to change the status quo and change myself, but I can't start, whenever I plan and go according to the plan, I look forward to a perfect result, but the result surprises me, a bad mess, whenever I have a lot of roads to go in front of me, but I am entangled in which one to go, and finally lose myself in the choice.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There are many, such as being kind to others, such as gold shining sooner or later, such as giving and reaping, such as people being equal, these are the words I heard since I was a child, I am very confused.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Confused, I have. All of them will have it too. It's normal to have talents. The road of life is tortuous and long, and there are many forks in the road along the way. If we can do nothing desireless, maybe there will be no confusion. Who knows? Because there's no one who hasn't tried.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Adjust your mentality, it's no big deal, everything is a floating cloud, only you are the most precious.

    And then it's a distraction, don't think too much.

    Look at the opening point and go with the flow.

    You can go out for a walk, breathe, you can soothe your emotions, usually have a little more hobbies, look at your own vision, I wish you a happy life, hope to adopt, thank you, typing is very hard, dear!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    How to say, I once held on to a relationship and ended up in ruin, and I was sad for a long time, but then I figured it out, and the best way is to let go.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The next thing you have to do has been written, the road is step by step, as long as you keep working hard, it will get better and better, as for the pursuit of a better life, this is something that everyone has, I hope you learn to compare, compare with people who are better than you, understand the gap, and then set him as a goal, compare with people who are worse than you, seek some self-confidence, satisfaction, sense of achievement, and adjust your mentality.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Listen to me, make yourself good, and don't think about these things all day.

    It is said that people in love will become stupid, but in fact, if you think about it carefully, this sentence really makes sense. You think you'll get him if you touch him, but you're wrong, he's just not that serious about you (not that you, don't get me wrong).

    When you ask this question, I can imagine that you are uneasy in your heart, not secure enough, or that he is not giving you enough security, so you are worried, worried that all your efforts will come to naught in the end.

    Liking must be a matter of two people, not one person. The reason why he likes you must be that there is a shining point in your body that attracts him, so he will be attracted to you, and finally he will slowly like it. So in the process of falling in love, continue to be yourself and don't become cautious.

    Managing a relationship requires mutual dedication from both parties to achieve results.

    If you have such confusion now, just confide in him, he will give you enough security, and both parties must trust each other, right?

    I hope you will get better and better, and achieve positive results as soon as possible!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In fact, I have a feeling of liking someone, but I haven't been able to get a clear reply, I mean I'm not sure if the other person is willing to give everything for you, there will really be this feeling, let it be.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    There's nothing to be afraid of.

    If you like it, you can express it.

    If denied, that's his freedom.

    It's yours and yours after all.

    It's not yours, it's not yours.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you can't cry with joy.

    Let's just laugh it off.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Hello, you said that you came out of the house in the morning and kept wondering if the door was locked. And when I go to work, I obviously swiped the card (attendance record), but I still suspect that there is none. For example, when you borrow someone else's book and return it, you will wonder if there is anything important in the book.

    From your description, it seems that your symptoms are typical of obsessive-compulsive symptoms. Friends who are compulsive and compulsive are always worried that they are going out and the door is not closed and check repeatedly, and they may worry that their windows are not closed and repeatedly check whether the windows are closed, etc. In fact, this is done to alleviate our anxiety caused by obsessive-compulsive symptoms through repeated examinations, so whenever we feel anxious, we always have to check it repeatedly.

    We don't need to pay too much attention to analyzing such compulsive behavior, because our attention and analysis are actually a kind of reinforcement of the symptoms. Over time, it may disappear in our neglect. Engage in normal work and life with symptoms and don't have to pay attention to it.

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