If you take three days off in a foreign land, will you choose to go home?

Being alone in a foreign land as a stranger, the most a person can learn in the field is to be independent, and all that is needed is to solve it by himself.

It is said that home is a warm harbor, and you will never be afraid of the baptism of storms at home, which is the pillar of the family to help you support all this, so that you can grow up in a comfortable environment, but that is only temporary, and you will inevitably need to grow up and take on your own responsibilities and obligations. The outside world will be beautiful, but there are hidden problems that need to be faced by yourself.

I came out to be independent for about three or four years, and compared with myself when I first came out, my current self is like a different person. I think my changes are related to the various experiences I have had outside of me.

One of the years of high school was when I went to school in the field, at that time I felt that I could, but it was just whimsical, because I was a student's main purpose or study, many times homesickness was attracted by learning, and most of the families in life can come to ** themselves, so there will not be too many difficulties, but that year I still learned that I need to be self-reliant, and I can solve my own things without bothering others. After the "war" of the college entrance examination, I became a real person to live, these are all psychological preparations in advance, and when I fill in the volunteer school, I fill in the school in a remote area. When you step into the campus, it really means that you really need to live on your own, and you have to face the problems you want to solve by yourself.

At this time, the family will not be able to help themselves much, in order not to let the family worry more is to report the good news and not to report the worries, they plan to meet their own living needs, and if they are not careful, they will exceed their ability to bear it, and in the end they are still suffering, and they need to care about themselves when they are sick or uncomfortable and need to care about themselves to go to the infirmary. Because it is far away from home, it can be said that there is no other holiday except the Spring Festival to have time to let yourself go home and take a look at the familiar figure and familiar environment. The same is true for work, it is possible that you will not return home during the Spring Festival.

People who are alone are kind to themselves, life is not easy, and you have become accustomed to being lonely, strong, and going home more.

After three days off.

Back home, the calendar book hasn't changed.

That's why I ran out of the house.

I thought it was a mistake in remembering the day.

Because the holiday is over!

Generally, people who are in other places, all year round or short-term in other places, cannot go home to reunite with their families, most of them are due to special reasons. The reason why he or she is lonely is because he or she is used to the company of his family, and suddenly there are no relatives around to accompany him, loneliness is inevitable, mainly homesickness, in fact, he will slowly forget and dilute when he is busy. As for the fear that my friend said, I really didn't feel it.

I just feel lonely, helpless, bored, and unaccompanied, so it's inevitable that I'm a little sad. As for the mentality, it is actually very normal, people are emotional animals, they have their own thoughts and emotions, and any form of expression is actually just a form of venting. Adjust your mentality, treat it correctly, and deal with people well, and you won't ask for trouble.

Some people are lonely to the point of despair, becoming a kind of pathology, doing improper things to harm others, unable to control themselves, this is caused by poor psychological quality, and there is no correct three views (outlook on life, values, and social outlook) in their hearts, which need to be guided or improved for the better. All these factors are affected and restricted by the surrounding environment, if we can carefully discover, we will eliminate the occurrence of some bad aspects from ourselves, people are not easy in the next life, we must treat things and people well, treat everything well, so that we can live a meaningful and valuable life. Establishing the correct three views will keep a person away from loneliness, the so-called fear, make their life and work more meaningful, and live a happy life.

See if there are any lonely people like you, everyone will be better together, and if the economy is okay, you can go to the mall, buy something for your family, and think about how happy they are when they receive gifts, and they will be happy.

Answer: Working hard in a foreign land, sometimes I feel like a bird flying in the sky, very free, because there is no nagging and supervision from my family; Working hard in a foreign land, sometimes I feel particularly lonely, because when I am bored, I find that there is one less nagging person around me; Working hard in a foreign land, sometimes you feel that life is particularly fragile, especially when you are sick, you will miss the care of your family when you are sick.

Life is like this, you will regret when you lose it, and you don't know how to cherish it when you have it. I want to say to those who are working hard in a foreign land: remember to give your family a ** often, don't do things that hurt your family, don't give up your own lifestyle when you encounter confusion, and never forget your original intention of working hard in a foreign land and continue to work hard to achieve your life goals as soon as possible.

Stick to it, you will get used to the current place, and after a long time, coupled with hard work, opportunities will naturally come

Falling leaves return to the roots, how do you know that there is no development without hard work, and the road is your own. Hope you have a bright path.

Then put all the money in the house, find a good project and start over.

Every wage earner will miss home, but there is no way, forced by money, hold on, and have time to go home and see....

Homesickness can come back regularly, and it doesn't have to come back to develop.

After developing in a foreign land, take your family over.

The issue of development is quite broadly defined, and it depends on personal experience, and there are many big cities that have not developed. . .

It's not clear, which city are you in now? And then is it a person who works hard in this city? So how long have you been working hard?

At least I live and work here, and I don't know some people, but I don't think I'm really the one who has no relatives and no reason! Are you new to this place, or have you been here for a long time, but you still feel like you have no relatives and no reason? Then I think you can really go back to your hometown, after all, this place is really not the place for you to stay, because you have been in this place for so long, and you still feel helpless?

If you don't even have friends you can trust, then it's really a waste of your life in this place. Let's go home

It's good to get used to it, when you get used to living in a strange city, no matter what problems you encounter in the future, you will feel that you are lonely and working hard in a strange city, helpless, it is insignificant, this is a psychological growth process, overcome, there will be a new understanding of life, this is maturity.