What is your relationship with your first love now?

The relationship is pretty good, after all, I'm his sister now.

I have known my first love since elementary school, and he has always been the top student in the class, and he is also the pistachio in the class, and many people like to play with him. And I was just an ordinary student with average grades and a not particularly outgoing personality, so we didn't cross paths throughout elementary school.

Later, when I was in junior high school, we were classmates again, and he was the representative of our class in mathematics because he was particularly good in mathematics, and the teachers liked him very much, but I was still just a very ordinary student, and the only difference was that I became more smiling and my personality became a lot more cheerful.

Later, the head teacher arranged for him to sit in front of me, and in this way, my intersection with him gradually increased. At first, I would only talk to him when I couldn't write about a topic, but then we became friends who could make any joke we wanted. We have been with each other for a long time as friends.

Later, after a semester passed, he confessed to me, I hesitated for a moment and agreed, this is my first love, and of course I am also his first love.

He was a very warm boy, he often helped me when I was friends, and after we became a couple, he helped me as often as before, and spoiled me very much. But it didn't take long for us to break up.

When we first broke up, we met like a normal couple and didn't talk. Later we both went to high school, and we didn't know what school we were going to, but we went to the same high school, and he was in the class next to me.

He and I actually had a lot of fate, and after we both let go of the relationship, we chatted normally as before. Later, after I had another failed relationship, he made the decision to let me be his sister, and although I didn't particularly like it, I agreed.

We are still very good friends, and he will help me whenever I am in trouble.

The relationship is not bad, like a friend but not quite like an ordinary friend. It should be what everyone says, "above friendship, not full of lovers".

Probably because when we were together, we were both young and ignorant, and there was a big difference between falling in love with adults, so it is not very awkward to meet and contact now. Occasionally contact and chat.,I will definitely send blessings during the New Year's holidays.,In addition to class reunions, I will often meet in private.,It doesn't seem to be much different from ordinary friends of the opposite sex.。 But I know in my heart that he is different from others, and he will ask him if he is going at the class reunion first, and he will ask him if he will go home during the holidays, and he will remember to send a blessing to his parents during ......the New YearIn short, we have nothing to talk about except love.

I don't know what the reason is, we contacted again after the breakup, we got along naturally, he was single, I was single, but no one ever mentioned getting back together.

You can bring your family to the class reunion, most of the classmates have brought the object, he naturally sat next to me, the classmates thought we were together again and all coaxed, we didn't deny or admit that we all smiled and passed. I helped him wash the dishes and chopsticks, and he blocked the wine for me, and everything naturally had a tacit understanding, but we were not together.

Friends said that our relationship was too ambiguous, but in fact, it was not like that, we were careful to avoid those topics about love, we never met on Valentine's Day, and our birthdays were just a blessing. It's like being afraid of stepping on a minefield, lest the relationship change when the boundary is crossed. I don't know what will happen in the future, but probably as soon as one of us gets off the single, the relationship will change.

But I like the way we get along now, no arguments and no hugs, no hope and no disappointment.

I had a mediocre relationship with my first love, and I contacted them twice in three years.

The second time was when I applied for my son's birth certificate, because my wife and I gave birth in the same hospital, and the two children were only ten days apart, he got the birth certificate first, so I asked him how to handle it.

We haven't been in touch since, so we didn't have as much of a relationship as the strangers we met on the street. Originally, we were only in junior high school when we were together, and we were still young, so we didn't know what love was, so at that time, how could we be so naïve and establish a real relationship?

But the relationship at that time was very simple, because we got better for a month, and we didn't even hold hands during this period.

If he had finished high school normally, maybe he would have been in the same school with me, or maybe we would have continued to maintain this relationship. I have always believed that love in high school is more simple and nostalgic than love in college.

But who knew that he was not the material for learning at all, he went out to mix after graduating from junior high school, he didn't know what to do outside, and we didn't have contact, at that time, everyone didn't use QQ often, and he didn't even have a mobile phone, so he and his good classmates and friends have almost cut off contact so far.

So after so many years of separation, the two of us have taken two completely different paths, with different educational backgrounds, different knowledge, different thinking, and different interests and hobbies, so let alone a couple relationship, even ordinary friends probably can't reach it.

In fact, it's good to keep it like this, occasionally seeing youth idol dramas or young couples walking in front of me, it will also remind me of my youthful relationship, so I silently put it in my heart, and now there is no need for further contact.

In this life, we will meet a lot of people who intersect with us, this is a kind of fate, but those who can go to the end can be regarded as fate, if there is no fate, then it will be regarded as a memory!

I still like you very much, like clouds drifting for 90,000 miles, never resting, I still like you very much, like a little smoke curling a little Tang pear fried snow and rain, I still like you I just don't have the attachment to be together I wish you well, even if your future has nothing to do with me Don't disturb my last tenderness.

Unspoken joy. He's like a lovely guy I met when I was immature, and we're still a little sad when we keep in touch with each other occasionally.

Blue Baby Paper. He taught me a lot of things, made me change myself, made me mature a lot, I thought I would accompany him to go on, but now I can only let him go "Love to the most beautiful is companionship, love to the deepest is fulfillment" should be like this, but I still owe you a face-to-face thank you "Ozawa, thank you".

Sister Yan's little red swallow.

At the end of the first year of high school, he confessed that he broke up at the end of his second year of high school. It also means a lot, maybe young and frivolous, and now I am still in touch with very good friends.

cassie

First love means to me the love of this life. Married at the beginning of the year with my first love, married at the end of the year or early next year, I was lucky that we met in high school, which did not affect each other's studies, but was more motivated to be better together, and then went through five years of long-distance military love together, and seven years together. May every girl marry a happy marriage.

Han Ying fā fā

I'm the first love of a man, and I already know his answer when I show him the topic. We have known each other for ten years, and then we got separated for various reasons, and in March this year, we were together by chance, and the people who were destined to be together are now discussing the engagement.

A-Afan also.

I don't know if a crush is considered a first love, if it is, then my first love is a mirage built by myself, beautiful but dare not touch. And now I don't want to fall in love anymore, maybe I'm past the age of throbbing, and I just want to wait until the time to repay the results, and find a suitable person to accompany me until I get old.

Consultation. I have always been in touch with each other, and I went with the flow, but later I felt that it was better to be friends again, and then negotiated to break up, and now I am a more important lifelong friend.

Yuzu is a person who will never forget in his heart.,Even if you're with someone else, you still think of him from time to time.。 Knowing that he is with someone else is a hundred times more uncomfortable than falling out of love. Because you're no longer qualified to be upset......I can only force myself to be generous with my blessings.

Very awkward relationship!

Neither friends nor enemies, no one!

I met a lot of things I wanted to say but didn't know where to start and had nothing to say!

When she is in trouble, I can't wait to fly to her side to help her solve her regrets! Round stool.

But when I saw her doing well, I was faintly sad!

First love is like a moment of beauty on a roller coaster, even if it is very beautiful, but the spine only exists for a moment, when you look back, want to find his figure, but can no longer find that feeling, and can't find the boy!

Never contact. I know that the other party is still the person in this world that I trust without reservation, and after contacting, I accidentally divulged this trust to the other party, which is a big burden for the other party. After all, each other has their own life tracks and partners who need to protect and spend the evening and early morning together.

I know that the other person will still be my best friend, the best person to chat with, and the most witty** friend. But I don't make contact, I don't use the name of a friend, I don't go between love and a sense of responsibility and a sense of boundaries, I don't pretend to be free, I don't talk about the weather I don't really care about, I don't convince myself that I don't have any distractions, I don't take the risk of proving the facts that I have already discovered. I've gone through a lot of pits, **, real estate, career are very particular about timing, love is the most, there is a person, everything is right, but the timing is not right, you can't hold him.

When you are young, when your energy is very low, when you are too busy to take care of yourself, when you are living under financial pressure and the burden of your original family, and when you are being beaten all over the ground by the sudden illness of your family, you will think that the other person's reasonable self does not love you enough. But when you also grow and become whole, you discover what love is as it is. So, no more contact, never again turn into the vortex of the past.

This is the best protection for each other.

If one day, the other party is really just a good friend, without any feelings, then a good friend will not deliberately contact at all, the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, as long as you know that there is such a soul in this world, and have loved me for a short time, I feel very good, very vivid, I am grateful for life, through the wind and rain, and will continue to sail towards a life without you at all, but I will also try to be open, brave and fearless, like you.

- The original answer above.

When I say the word "first love", I unconsciously bring the feelings and the whole atmosphere of the text to more distant memories and personal emotions. After breaking up, there was no contact for 8 years, and I learned from mutual friends that he was very happy, had a special beloved girl, and was extremely down-to-earth to realize his original dream. Blessing with a capital letter.

I know that if there is a girl who can be with him, there is no other reason than that she is the only one who deserves it.

The emotional expression in the original answer did not take into account my partner's feelings, but the first love was very long, and I was extremely determined to never contact, and the memories I left were like old movie films and more like my personal belongings, so I also dug a hoe deep into my heart, thinking that if I hadn't transitioned from a classmate to a lover, maybe I would have earned a tacit and witty old friend now. Compared with the love affair that ended without a problem, I feel that the friendship that has lasted for many years is very precious. Dive inside and dissect the reasons why you can never be friends again and never get back in touch.

There is no contact here, of course, there is a fear of making the friendship go weird, but it is more likely that netizens remind them of the love for the person in front of them, and it is also the bottom line of the emotional outlook. Thank you again, I won't reply and explain one by one, thank you and bless you, I'm very happy now. And I also want to say that if a person has the ability to make herself happy, then she will always be happy.

There is no contact, it's been a long time, I've changed the city, changed the environment, and there is no contact at all.