Do those who are alone feel lonely?

I think the two words mentioned in the title, "alone" and "lonely", can be accurately expressed in two words in English, corresponding to 'alone'and'lonely’。The former denotes the state of a person, while the latter denotes the mood of loneliness.

What do you say in English would appear these two words instead of being represented by one word? The answer is obviousBecause these two words are not equal, they cannot be substituted for each other, and they cannot be equated. So this should be a good question for the subject-There is no correlation between being alone and feeling lonely.

I think the difference between this is the difference between whether a person is active or passive when he is alone. Here's a brief look at my opinion.

1. Some people are passive when they are alone

There are many kinds of people who come out of this state. Some people may not have something in themselves that attracts others, or they have something they don't like, this kind of place is too obvious, and even has covered the shining point on their body, so to put it bluntly, they may not find real friendsSo they had to go it alone.

And there are some people, they may be able to find friends, but the reason why they are alone is because they have no confidence in doing things with others, they may be afraid that they can't drink that others get along well, so although they have the ability to make friends, they don't have the confidence to make friends. This can be regarded as passive.

For these loners, they should feel lonely because they want to get along with others, but they can't overcome some difficulties on their own, or they don't dare to take that step.

Second, some people take the initiative to go alone

I have a very vivid first impression of this kind of person, that is, "lone wanderer". Of course, this is just a metaphor, but these people may be good enough, have enough communication skills, and have high enough emotional intelligence that they can do well and make others feel comfortable, even when they get along with others.

But the reason why they like to be alone and do things alone may be that doing so will make them feel unrestrained, unencumbered, and more comfortable doing things. After all, when you do something small or mundane with others, they may feel that it will affect their personal space and have no sense of privacy. They are not afraid that they are not doing well enough in the process of socializing with others, they just feel that they are more comfortable alone, or can do better.

So for these people, they should not be lonely, or rather, they can face their loneliness head-on, and they will not feel uncomfortable, but can calmly accept this state of being alone. There are still a lot of such people, and we can't ignore them.

When a person is accustomed to being alone, he will no longer feel lonely, because he may not know what it is like to be lonely.

Before I was in love, I seemed to have had a lonely time. Although I have some friends, there are not many of them, because the quality of friends is very demanding. And with the promotion of higher education and other reasons, many friends have lost contact.

Even some friends who are still in contact with each other have gradually faded out of their lives due to distance. For a long time, there were some classmates around me, but I didn't have any friends, and I studied alone, went to the library alone, and went to the cafeteria alone. In this state, maybe it should be a little lonely.

It's just that now that I think about it, I don't feel like I'm lonely at all in my mind at that time. Because it is already a normal state, and I have long been accustomed to it, I thought that normal life should be so simple, a person all the way, chic and free.

I knew that I met a good friend later, but this friendship lasted a little short, and it didn't take long for us to upgrade to a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, and then we got married and had children. Officially after that, I suddenly had someone by my side, and I realized how lonely I used to be. The feeling of two people together, that feeling of fulfillment, is in stark contrast to the loneliness of being alone before.

If you are asking to live the kind of life you used to live now, you will definitely not get used to it. Because I have become accustomed to having someone to accompany me, doing everything together, and relying on each other when I encounter problems. Sometimes, when two people have a conflict, although they are more angry at the time, but when they think of the loneliness after separation, they still choose to reconcile.

Some people will especially enjoy being alone and do not feel lonely.

I remember when I first came to transfer to a new high school, I was always alone at first because I didn't know my classmates, but it was actually very lonely and difficult for me during that time, and I didn't even have anyone to talk to.

In this society, it is very dangerous to be alone, so you can be lonely in your heart, but you can't be lonely when you travel.

Unconventional, unique behavior, after a long time, it will make people very depressed, and it will be mentally abnormal.

Not good, prone to autism.

Loners are more introverted and taller. It can't be simply said that they are not excellent people. Because, in this world, the standard of excellence is different.

Those who are immersed in research and copywriting and literary creation prefer to go it alone. Because they need a lot of time to think and write on their own, they don't like to spend their limited time socializing, and they don't like to talk to a group of people about boring parents. They prefer to be alone, to read quietly, to think quietly, to introspect quietly, to listen quietly, to face their souls quietly, and to express their thoughts and emotions quietly in words.

Loners look more arrogant on the surface, even cold as ice, and difficult to contact. Only those who are familiar with it know that they are actually more enthusiastic about people, but this enthusiasm is not shown on the surface. They often like to help others in necessary interactions.

They tend to focus on those in need and give the necessary help when they can.

Loners seem to be indifferent on the surface, but in fact they are a group of enthusiastic people, but they hide their inner heat, and use their inner enthusiasm like fire in their work, which is reflected in the words they write.

A loner is a sentimental person. They need to have more time to face the world alone, feel the heat and coldness of the world alone, taste the bitterness and bitterness of life alone, weep alone, rejoice alone, bear alone, and bear alone. They don't like to be pointed at their emotional changes, so they like to be alone in the world.

Lonely people are more assertive, they have their own independent views on life and world affairs, and they also have a clear understanding of themselves. They know that their strengths are in the best and are confident in their own strengths; They also know that their flaws are in the best and work hard to make up for them. They know very well that they are imperfect, but they are not bad either, so they don't get carried away or languid.

Loners also have different personalities, as well as strengths and weaknesses. But they will consider themselves excellent people. For example, I am a person who likes to be alone, I never like to associate with living people, and I don't like to eat and drink with acquaintances; I don't like to cheer each other on, I don't like to blow and pat each other, and I don't like to mingle in social situations.

However, I have always considered myself a good person, but in the eyes of others, who knows what kind of person they think I am?

Therefore, it is impossible to generalize whether a lone person is an excellent person or not. I think that excellence is more important than anything else; If you don't think you're good enough, don't worry, just work towards the goal of excellence.

Loners are not liked by many people, even if they are excellent people. Because, the more excellent it is, the more it is hated by some people. But it doesn't matter, since you are a loner, just go your own way alone.