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What do I think love will eventually become? Everyone will have their own answer to this question, and my own answer is that love will eventually become family affection and friendship, and of course love will still exist, but it will become that these three parts have a certain proportion.
There is such a sentence, everyone often says, and it seems that many people also agree that marriage is the grave of love. There are so many people who think that when two people go through the long-distance love run, or decide to stabilize and enter marriage, their love will always eventually tend to be dull in the trivial matters of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and lose its original freshness and enthusiasm. Both of them will also become more and more tired.
I don't have the feeling I had when I was in love. In fact, I think such a statement is too absolute, the marriage of two people is not necessarily the end of the love of two people, on the contrary, this is a new model that begins to let two people interact after marriage in marriage. In fact, I think there is nothing bad about the transformation of part of love into family affection and friendship.
Why is it not bad to say that love is transformed into family affection and friendship, because I think you personally have a mode of getting along with relatives, which will make the relationship between two people more warm, more life-like, and more willing to plan for the future of two people. Work together for two people to have a better life together. In fact, the old husband and wife we often talk about, a large part of their real feelings have been transformed into family affection, isn't that also enviable?
If you think that part of your relationship has turned into friendship, and the two of you get along like old friends, I think that's good. Because the three views of the two of you are becoming more and more similar in the run-in, more and more compatible, and getting along less and less tired, you must know that you are with a person who does not agree with the three views. It's a very tiring thing, not to mention having to live a lifetime, right?
In fact, in the long-term relationship, love will inevitably change more and more, and it will slowly become joined by family and friendship, but as long as your feelings are still there, the weight of love will not be less. You can also try your best to keep love fresh in your own way, and that kind of relationship is also great.
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People are eager to have love, and you think that being able to have a vigorous love is also a blessing in life. After all, no one wants to get married and have children through blind dates and arranged marriages, and then spend a boring life. But who knows what will happen when love goes on until the end?
I think there may be two trends in the development of love, the first is to become family affection. Maybe two people became lovers in their twenties, and then they had a vigorous love, and then they chose to get married, and then they were together, but after the passage of time, and the two people also lived together for a long time, they had a family, they had relatives, and gradually their love became family affection. They are not only lovers, but also relatives.
The second way, I think that is love is still love in the end, it has not changed, there are no impurities, it is still so pure, so intense. I once saw when I went out to play, two old men and old ladies who were over 70 years old, they supported each other together, and the two of them played together, although it looked simple, but it was just a glance and felt very warm, I think that is the love after falling in love.
Even though Shaohua has passed away, their love has not changed, and the love between them is still so strong and dazzling, you can even tell at a glance that they are in love.
I think that when love has been polished for a long time, it may become family affection, it may be transgender love, but it is all after mutual affection. And many people's love has been vigorous from the beginning, and it may eventually become a trickle. But it is undeniable that they are still happy.
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Summary. Dear, hello, the teacher's understanding of love is: whether it is vigorous love or plain love, in the end it will become family affection, become what we initially expected, become what we like, a person's life, may not only have one relationship, some people will say, love has long lost expectation and confidence, I just want to say, that is definitely because we have not met the right person, in the face of love, we don't worry, don't panic, love is coming, no one can stop it, don't be afraid of missing it, It's yours and yours after all.
Dear, hello, the teacher's understanding of love is: whether it is vigorous love or plain love, in the end it will become a family circle, become what we initially expected, become what we like, a person's life, may not only have one relationship, some people will say that love has long lost the spring reed expectation and confidence, I just want to say, that is absolutely imitation because I have not met the right person, in the face of love, we don't worry, don't panic, love is coming, no one can stop it, Don't be afraid to miss it, it's yours after all.
Dear, the teacher believes that the best love looks like each of us has seen, just like the old grandfather and the old grandmother, the two gray hairs but still holding hands and walking on the street, its dispersal is closed, each of us has the right to have such a feeling, but this feeling comes sooner or later, we just have to wait, whether it is morning or evening, it will come after all.
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