Knowing someone or liking someone, which comes first?

I think only those who have known about it can call it like. Many people say love at first sight, but I don't believe it, love at first sight is not love, but the appreciation of a person's appearance, that appreciation can not be called like, get along, through understanding you can know whether you like each other, so for people, it should be the first acquaintance, then acquaintance, and finally in love. Therefore, we actually understand that a person is in front and like a person in the back.

I still remember the recent very popular description of the current when we look at the opposite sex, "start with appearance, trapped in talent, loyal to character" I think this should have some truth, indeed we look at the opposite sex, the first thing that attracts us is what we see, of course, is the appearance, the appearance is passable, it will cause us to want to understand the other party's desire, and through understanding we know that he is a person, will have feelings, if the other party is something you are not used to, of course, you will not have any chemical reaction to him, and even a negative emotion of disgust; And when his behavior and treatment meet your requirements, then your relationship will make you have a good relationship, and you will like each other through a deeper understanding. <>

Therefore, we can know that understanding comes before and likes later, and understanding is the deciding factor. Only after getting to know someone will you decide whether you want to like him or not, and whether he is worthy of your liking or not. So we also have to distinguish what it means to like, maybe you see a person's appearance and think he is very attractive to you, but remember that this is not liking, it is a normal attitude that everyone has to appreciate beautiful things.

If he really attracts you, you get to know him, and then compare your feelings about him through possible means, and you will know whether you like him or not.

My ideal order is to get to know someone first, and then like someone. If you don't know anything about someone, what do you like about her? Many people say they like people when they see them, what do you like? How much can you know about people.

If a person just knows you and doesn't know you yet, they say they like you. Then you must be filial to his like. Because it is very likely that you like it with your lower body.

There may be a relationship called love at first sight. I like it when I meet, but this liking is superficial. This liking has no roots.

Because you may not like it after you understand it. So why do so many people who get married in flash divorce mostly leave in a flash? Because I didn't know much, I got married.

After getting married, I found out that this is not the same person I like. found that the two people are not suitable, and found that the one you like is actually just the ideal him you imagined in your heart. And the one you know in real life is not what you think at all.

So in the end, it came to divorce.

The reason why so many people choose to try marriage is actually because they want to know more about each other. If you want to really understand it, you can talk about love before entering marriage. I think that's a very sensible thing to do.

Only after you have thoroughly understood a person can you be qualified to say like and love. If you don't even want to take the time to get to know her, then why do you say you like people? So don't just say what you like, unless you really know it.

Otherwise, what you like may not be her in reality, but what you imagine her to be in your heart.

So you must remember that if anyone wants to like you, she must tell her to understand me first and then love me.

I think it should be like a person in front of a person to understand a person in the back, because liking is a feeling that you may like her at the first sight of the other person, and at that time you may not know anything about him, liking most of them happen inadvertently, and you will want to understand him when you like someone.

Generally speaking, if you fall in love at first sight, you like someone first and then get to know each other, and if you fall in love over time, you want to understand someone and then like someone, which is difficult to distinguish, after all, no one knows when they will like someone.

I think it should be understood first and then liked, because I understand this person, I like it, not because I like it.

After getting to know a person, I became familiar with his personality, temperament, and character, and then I gradually liked him.

Whether it is to understand first or like first, or to like first or understand first, there is no contradiction.

Generally speaking, we all like a person because of their appearance and loyalty to their talents. So the normal order is to like a person first, and then we are interested in understanding him, paying attention to him, understanding his past, understanding his history, and understanding his present.

Therefore, in the normal order of size, we like a person first before we can understand it later. In fact, this is not a conflict, whether you understand first and then like it or like it first and then understand, it's just that the order of human nature is that we generally like it first to understand. Whether we walk on the street and see the type we like, see a very eye-catching man or woman, we have the mood to understand him, and then chase him and ask him for WeChat, so generally speaking, we like it first and then to understand, only if you like it, you have the interest to understand.

In fact, understanding a person and liking a person often do not have a fixed and boring decision. Because sometimes we first have been in a relationship with a person for a long time, and then we like him after slowly getting to know him, but sometimes we like a person when we first know him, and then we go to contact him to understand him, so there is no fixed order.

If you love someone, you will know everything about her without asking her; If you don't love someone, even if she tells you everything about her, you will still forget.

As long as you remember me, I don't mind the whole world forgetting about me.

Two people take what they need and show each other's hole cards, which does not prevent them from continuing to love each other. The most complicated thing is to meet a woman who only wants to provide "free sex", she holds high the shield of love, tragically takes off her clothes, she thinks that she will give him the most expensive things, and it will be difficult to buy them.

If God wants to destroy a man, he must first make him mad. But I've been crazy for so long, why hasn't God destroyed me?

Will the love engraved on the back of the chair be like a flower on the cement, blooming into a windless, lonely forest.

In this sad and bright March, I have passed through my thin youth, through the violet, through the kapok, through the joy and impermanence that appear and disappear from time to time.

Those things that we once thought we would never forget are forgotten by us in the process of remembering.

We often say that liking a person does not mean loving someone, but the premise of loving a person is to like the person first, and this kind of liking can continue to be love, so what is the difference between liking and loving? In the process of studying the differences between the two, we found some interesting phenomena, one person likes the other, there are some rules to follow, the psychological overexposure effect, the excessive psychological effect shows that if two people see each other often, they will prefer each other, which is what we often call familiarity.

If you love someone, you will see each other in your eyes, you can't leave each other, you like someone, you just like it, and in between, it will actually be easier to like someone.

The biggest difference between loving someone and liking someone is that the starting point is different, loving someone is to marry each other, and liking someone is just a special kind of feeling, if you want to weigh the relationship between the two, you have to distinguish which is the most important.

To like someone is not necessarily to love him; But the premise of loving someone is that you must like him. To weigh the two, you have to recognize your own heart before you can convert love into love.

To love one is to have it, and to like it is just a good feeling, in this case, you have to choose the person you love, and you have to give up the person you like.

Love, mainly depends on how you treat it, I think: plain love is true, when you fall in love with a person, don't care about the romance of love and a lot of love ways to stare at God, everyone has a different way of love, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, will lose rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because it is not done to protect true love, it will lead to love is short-lived, think that love will not last long!

Love someone: trust each other, love someone to understand each other.

Love someone: Be tolerant with a lot of heart.

Love someone: Be open-minded.

Love someone: Respect the other person's thoughts and opinions.

Love someone: Support him or her behind his or her back, not hinder him/her.

Love someone: When he (she) can't accompany you, don't complain, and say to him (her) with a smile that I'm good and happy.

Love someone: Hide the fragility and grievances in your heart, and don't let him (her) know.

Love someone:...Too much love.

Maybe it's hard, can't it be done? It's not that hard.

The most important point is:

Love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him (her), when you fall in love, let him (her) be happy, as long as he (she) is happy, is the most important thing!!

Each laughing person has a different point of view, and everyone's understanding of love will be different, real love is based on mutual trust, mutual understanding is to love him and her brother, so that two people will not be hurt after a few attacks....