What is the value of suffering? Is suffering worth singing about?

How can you see the rainbow without experiencing the wind and rain, suffering is an indispensable process in life, it is a life experience that is difficult to skip, we often say that only after experiencing suffering will we really understand some things, those who have been proud and indulgent, those who do not care about young ignorance, all need to be sublimated in the tempering of suffering, become an attitude beneficial to life, suffering has an irreplaceable role in the growth of people, in my opinion, the value of suffering is reflected in the following two aspects;

First, growth, sometimes in a warm environment to get only indulgence and ignorance, only their own experience of ups and downs can really understand what is grown up, we have not experienced suffering since childhood, it is difficult to understand the meaning and importance of life, ignorance seems fearless and never know what to do, and what to pursue, to put it bluntly, in the real society we are just a hairy boy who does not grow up, it is difficult to have a tenacious mind, growth is also passive acceptance, Only when you have experienced the wind and rain and experienced the real society, can you experience and understand the suffering, understand the pursuit of your heart, and then you can understand the meaning of growth.

Second, gratitude, modern people always lack a grateful heart, always feel that everything is so deserved, it should be so, in the long-term thinking impression, we are not to cherish everything we have, and no longer to be grateful for the life we have, such an attitude will delay our efforts and reality in the society, only when they go through the suffering to get something, can they understand that they once had from the hard, in order to be full of a grateful heart for life, this is the mentality that people and things are not available, Only when you lose can you know how to cherish, and be grateful for what you have now, suffering is such a process of understanding.

The value of suffering lies in sharpening people's hearts, making you think that you have fallen to the lowest point, and then giving you the ability to **.

Some time ago, there was a hot search on Weibo, a South Korean professor gave a lecture called "How many blows can contemporary young people withstand". The survey shows that the average number of youth resistance strikes in the United States and South Korea is only a few tenths of a second, while the highest country, China, has an average of the number of youth resistance strikes. To put it simply, young people in South Korea and the United States may lose the confidence to pick themselves up again after failing to apply for a job or so. Chinese youth, on the other hand, have at least two anti-stress psychological qualities.

The findings suggest that a new generation of young people in China is emerging from suffering and using it to learn the lessons they deserve so they can better bounce back and prepare for the next shock. This is what suffering has given to young people, and it has been given to this age.

Today's society is no longer as underfed and unclothed as before, young people rarely crawl in the mud, they are all flowers in the greenhouse, and the mild living environment makes it difficult for them to adapt to the wind and rain when they first enter the society. And suffering is what makes them have a moderate sense of crisis in a stable world, and they fight for their dreams and future.

Be prepared for danger in times of peace", suffering can forge a person's ability to survive in adversity, it can maximize your potential and shape your strength. And this courage to stand up in the midst of setbacks is exactly what suffering gives you. It is not terrible to encounter hardship, but what is terrible is to lose the courage to continue to move forward.

To try failures and setbacks, even if it makes you down, we are young and don't worry. Run forward even if it is full of thorns. It's too early for us to give up.

I remember someone asking me why we lived, and at twenty I said it was for money. Because in this day and age, I know all too well how important money is. But as soon as my voice fell, that person and I died for it.

Yes, death is the end of our lives. We will encounter many things in this life, but in the end, we will all die for the sake of death, or die with dignity or die like a depressed person. And everything we have experienced in our lives is suffering, suffering for the sake of death.

From the moment you fall to the ground, you begin a life of suffering. When I was seven years old, I was lying under the wheel, I suddenly fainted at the age of twelve, at the age of eighteen, I experienced the college entrance examination of 10,000 people crossing the single-plank bridge, at the age of twenty-two, you began to leave the campus and go to society, at the age of twenty-five, you suffered a big loss in the business field, at the age of twenty-seven, you successfully became a mother, worked hard to give birth to a daughter, and at the age of twenty, you spent 20 years raising the next generation, and at the age of 50, you lost your parents and were alone...

We will always experience more or less great or small suffering, and you may be defeated by it, but you know that after each experience you will become a stronger version of yourself. If I had to choose, I would choose suffering, because I know that life is only what it means to go through it. Let's imagine that from birth to death, you are ordinary and uneventful, you think your life is very happy, but I say your life is worthless.

Suffering is actually the motivation for you to move forward, and it is because of suffering that you will walk through the haze and move towards the dawn. Maturity does not depend on your naivety thinking that the world is perfect, but on seeing through the glitz of the world and piercing its disguise after you have experienced suffering.

The first episode of House of Cards says that there are two kinds of pain (suffering) in this world, one that makes you work hard and brings you endless benefits, and the other, in which being in it is just a senseless struggle and has no meaning. I guess it's like a flying insect that falls into a spider's web and a person who falls off the top of a skyscraper.

I've always held the view that suffering is not something to be celebrated.

I don't want to see the behavior of finding a glimmer of happiness from Yu Zhiyiyun and magnifying it in a person who has suffered a lot, using the hardships and sufferings of the poor as an inspirational story, but rather looking at it from the sidelines, whether we want to understand the root cause behind this and avoid such a tragedy from happening again.

I admire my second uncle's optimism in the face of hardship, but this personal optimism should not become the ruling class.

Propaganda standards for people at the bottom. What should be told to everyone is to resist injustice and make up for regret when facing it.

Overemphasizing optimism and tolerance is nothing more than a kind of Ah Q-style spiritual paralysis, and this will also make those oppressors more fearless.

Everyone wants to have the life attitude of their second uncle, but no one wants to have the kind of life experience of their second uncle.

Envy and pity are often just a thin line. The resilience of the individual against sufferingIn this long, trivial, and meaningless era, the value of the individual has always been magnified by some. When the individual is switched to the group, there are enough samples than miserable, and it seems to be acceptable, and it seems to be unremarkable.

But who would think that the bad cards of the Nian shirt are all due to bad luck? Playing bad cards is certainly something that every survivor should face, but the cards are dealt well, everyone has to play, what is not cheap mercy and tears, what is wanted is from the masses, to the masses, the saint has no heart, to the heart of the people.

Suffering is meaningless, it is just inevitable, and those who are full of love and perseverance to fight against it and gain respect, who can say that they are really willing to be late?

Fighting it and embracing it requires tenacity and love. To deny it, to reduce it, requires wisdom and a higher love.