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If your other half is someone who works in the Internet industry, it cannot be said that you are very unlucky, but you should be very hard or pitiful. I am a student in the IT industry myself, so I especially understand and understand the hard work and difficulties of Internet workers, who sit in front of the computer every day.
The computer is like his wife or like her husband, and even sometimes the computer is like his other half, and he spends more time with the computer than he spends with his family. The daily workload of these staff members is very large, and it is also very busy, and the time is especially valuable to them.
Sometimes they will work hard for a very small program, it takes thousands of days and nights to work hard, only in this way can they work hard to complete their work, I think if your other half is an Internet person, I think you should have these feelings, every time you talk to it is not on the same channel, as if he only has ** in his head.
In addition, I think you are also very lonely at night, losing the company of your family, because they will work overtime and stay up late for work, and sometimes you can't even go home to rest at night, so you may be more lonely at night and sleep alone, and there is very little time to eat together.
Because he works in front of the computer every day, sometimes he eats in front of the computer, and sometimes they will order takeout or eat some fast food, anyway, every day will be in a hurry, and it can also be said that the computer is their family, and they value the computer more than anything else.
So sometimes when he ignores you or doesn't have time to spend with you, you must not complain about him or dislike her, because he is working hard, the nature of his work is like this, and he works so hard for the sake of this family and for you.
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The experience is half heaven and half hell.
This is my exaggeration, I won't experience it, half heaven means that you can get a lot of benefits.
First of all, everyone knows that the Internet is an emerging industry. The relative average salary will be a little better, unlike me, when I first came out, the salary was only 3,000 yuan, and they just started out with a salary that was double that of us, at least. All of them will be a little more relaxed in terms of daily expenses, which is a qualitative leap in the daily experience of getting along.
This is the first benefit, and the second is that the contact with the Internet will be relatively active. This is the characteristic of their work, and it is estimated that they will not be able to do the work of the Internet if they are not active in thinking. The advantage of active thinking is that there is a mutual chat, don't believe it, tomorrow he will tell you to experience VR, tomorrow he will tell you about the current Internet news, you will not worry about no topic to talk about.
Half hell means that maybe you're going to have a little harder.
First of all, it may be that there will be more overtime, and more overtime means that there may be no time with you. I remember one time, I cooked a meal, and when the subject came back to eat, ** also said that I would come back soon. But I'm waiting left and right, just waiting for a sentence, I'm sorry, I received an urgent task, and I may have to work overtime until the night, you can eat it yourself.
What can I say? I can't help but be considerate. The most feared thing is continuous overtime, and it's possible to basically not see people for a month. Can you take this?
There are also training courses that take up personal time, even if they don't work overtime. Not only the company's training, but also the training class I participated in, no way, it is all mixed with the Internet, and I must always chase the wave, for fear that I will be a few steps behind others if I don't catch up.
But honestly, it's good to have a partner who works on the Internet, and if you currently have a favorite person who works on the Internet, and you are also interested in each other, you might as well be brave together.
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This experience should be that he feels very busy, even so busy that he doesn't have time to look at his phone at all, no matter when you talk to him, he won't immediately reply to your message, and then you have been waiting, waiting for a long time, he will come back, when you ask him the reason, he will say that he is busy playing ** or something, in fact, he also knows this reason, but every time I want to ask to see if I can hear different reasons, But it's a pity that it's this reason every time, and I'm angry about this every time, but I'm also helpless, because it's true, that's the case, they're very busy, not to mention flirting with other girls, and their girlfriends can't take care of it.
And on weekends, you may want to hang out with him and have a meal together, and you have to make an appointment in advance, because not necessarily any weekend he has any work that needs to be solved immediately, almost no personal time of his own, although I am also an Internet worker, but I am far from being as busy as him, or I am more serious about feelings, I will always set aside some time to accompany her, but he always does not leave too much time to accompany me, and I am watching him work every time.
Every night he will work overtime, and sometimes I will work overtime, and then the two of us will do it together, and it is good to have someone to accompany me, but he is so busy every day that I really worry about it, so we agreed with each other that we must go to exercise, and we will wake him up every morning and go down for a run with him, and we will set aside some time to go to the gym in the evening, and I feel that because he has made me, who never cared about my physical health, become aware of how to maintain my health.
Although he is very busy, but there are some benefits, just like he never has time to hook up with other girls, and he is very generous to his girlfriend, never quarrels with me because of a little thing, he has a very good temper, he will take the initiative to back down when he encounters anything, and he can be regarded as a mentor for me, in terms of the Internet, he belongs to the type of scholar, and I belong to the scumbag, he can help me a lot every time, He is also very caring, and I can think of many things that I can't think of every time, although Internet workers have low emotional intelligence, but I think he makes me feel at ease.
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Frequent overtime. Every day, it is relatively early to come back at nine o'clock and ten o'clock, and it may not be until eleven or twelve o'clock in the evening. When I get home, I'm as tired as a dead dog, I just want to lie down and sleep, and I can't talk to you.
Sometimes I work overtime on weekends, although I double the salary, but I would rather not have a salary and want him to accompany me at home, he works overtime, goes shopping, and watches movies by himself.
However, although overtime is very tiring, the benefits are also leveraged, and the good company environment makes people jealous. Gymnasium, pantry, and lounge are all standard. There is also a birthday week every month, where everyone eats and drinks together, and there are gifts to receive.
The things that are usually sent during the New Year are also very high-end, and they will never be firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, toilet paper, etc. All very creative. The male ticket is in the game company, and the moon cakes issued by the company during the Mid-Autumn Festival are specially customized, and the packaging is the image of the characters in the game, which feels like the periphery, and the box has not been willing to throw it yet, because it is so cute.
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