Are girls who value love very much generally lack a sense of security?

Girls who take love very seriously are generally lacking in self.

is probably the kind of woman in the family who does not have her own independent career and economy, he will suffer from her husband's gains and losses, and he will take their married life very seriously, so heavy that he will tremble at the slightest disturbance, and then doubt his husband, and finally drive himself crazy.

I have the same meaning with you, but one is in love and the other is marriage. There is nothing wrong with saying that you have no sense of security, but you are beautifying this thing, but in fact, it is a manifestation of your lack of self-confidence. I'm afraid that because I'm not good enough, my boyfriend won't like it, and I'm afraid that I won't care about my boyfriend well, so my boyfriend will abandon him.

What is the difference between this feeling and a deep resentful woman? I've always thought that no matter how good your boyfriend and husband are to you, how to tell you, I love you, I can't bear to be tired, you have a good rest at home, I'll just go and earn money to support my family, no matter what, you can't compromise. If a girl doesn't have her own career and her own economy, it's hard for you to have her own independent personality.

Once you have nothing, you will no longer be the same you who attracted your husband before, you will no longer be equal to your husband, you will become his accessory, become his burden, and finally he will choose to abandon you because he feels too tired, where should you go at that time?

So those girls who take their boyfriends and husbands very seriously, it is better to focus more on how to manage themselves, so as to increase your charm and ability, and you are afraid that your husband will leave you and choose someone else?

ps: The above theory is purely my own blindness, because I have this theory and I don't have a boyfriend ...... for the time beingHahaha, I feel like I'm not qualified for this question.

Of course not. We fall in love only because we are attracted to the charm that the person exudes and then become obsessed with him. Taking love very seriously can only show that this girl really likes her boyfriend.

Could it be that if you regard your boyfriend as the same as a passer-by, or as your ordinary friend, then it is considered normal, and there is no shortage of boyfriends?

So I think girls who take love very seriously just like their boyfriends very much and care about this person very much.

We can recall our first love, are we also like a pug willing to stick behind people every day, do we also want to see him all the time, be good to him all the time? At the beginning, we also took love very seriously, although maybe the first love may sometimes really have nothing. I remember my first love was when I was in junior high school.

This boy and I just write a few love letters to each other every day, and we don't have a lot of language communication, and I don't know why, I was so shy in the face of my boyfriend, obviously I value the other party very much, but I may not have said a few words when we met, I didn't hold hands, and I didn't have any physical contact, but I always took this person very seriously.

I also take my boyfriend very seriously, and my boyfriend also takes me seriously, so you say that girls are insecure, but what about boys, are they also insecure? My friends around me say that I am a person who values love very seriously, and I now feel that I value love more than family affection. But I don't feel that this is insecure, on the contrary, it is a sense of happiness, because I give my time for the person I love, give my youth, etc., I am very happy, just like parents do to their children, just love, nothing else, I am willing to give, I am willing to see him happy, I am willing to see him happy, I don't ask me to get the same in return, I just hope that everything is okay for him.

Maybe in your understanding, the reason why a girl who values love very seriously lacks a sense of security is because she will suffer from gains and losses, and because she is afraid of losing her boyfriend, she will take love very seriously. In my opinion, if your girlfriend is such a person, you should feel happy and happy, after all, you shouldn't feel very lucky to have such a person who cares about you and loves you all the time. On the contrary, in this case, I think the most important thing to reflect on is this girl's boyfriend, maybe you didn't give her enough security, so you feel that she is an insecure person.

If she really lacks it, you should give her enough care and give her enough warmth and love. That way, you may no longer feel that she is insecure. Wishing you happiness!

That's for sure. If a girl treats love as the most important thing in life, then she must be very insecure about her relationship and suffer from gains and losses. Many girls in life are like this, they see love and their boyfriends as the whole of their lives, and no matter what they do, they are centered on their boyfriends, and there is no other entertainment life except for their boyfriends.

It is precisely because their lives revolve around their boyfriends that some of their boyfriend's inadvertent actions can easily make them feel insecure.

Especially when the boyfriend is very busy, the girl has nothing to do, so the girl who is insecure will be cranky, thinking about whether her boyfriend has been ignoring her, whether she doesn't love herself anymore, and wondering if there will be other girls outside to hook up with her boyfriend. Therefore, in love, the time when one party is busy and the other is leisurely and bored is the most unsafe time.

Girls are getting deeper and deeper in their feelings, not to mention a girl who takes love very seriously, and she regards her love life as her all. The more a person values something, the more he is afraid of losing it, and he is afraid that he will be hurt undeservedly. So, it's normal to feel insecure.

The girlfriend is insecure, and the boyfriend can't be troubled at this time, but should accompany her well and tell her that he loves her very much.

On the other hand, the sense of security is given to the girl by the boyfriend, if a boyfriend has always been meticulous to his girlfriend, has been doting on her from beginning to end, and treats her as a baby, how can a girl still be insecure? Therefore, his girl's insecurity is still due to his poor performance as a boy and his failure to do his best to pamper and cherish her, which will make him insecure.

I don't think that's the case, because it should be a normal thing to take love very seriously, and it's not just something that girls have, many boys will also take love very seriously, after all, love is beautiful, and it is also a very important thing in life.

First of all, we must understand that a girl's sense of security is very important, and it is not just as simple as taking love very seriously. Every girl needs a sense of security, but different girls may have different definitions of security, so the issue of security always torments boys. If a girl tells her that she is insecure, then you have to understand what it means, because it may not just be as simple as having someone to accompany you and give her safety, you have to understand the deeper meaning.

But accompanying a girl and making him feel your sincerity and warmth is indeed one of the contents that exist in most sense of security, and it is easy to achieve.

Besides, the relationship between love and security is very important, for some girls, it is indeed because of a lack of security that they take love very seriously, because for them, love is a very important thing in life, and it is related to the happiness of the second half of their lives, of course, they have to take it very seriously. But the sense of security is not only so simple as falling in love, but also survival, work, etc., so taking love very seriously is not necessarily insecure, she may just want to have a love without regrets, have a partner who really loves herself, and then live a happy life, and for her, the sense of security is not necessarily obtained in love.

So don't look at girls as very simple, and don't simply think that girls' sense of security is only in love, love is very important, but it is not necessarily their own sense of security, there is still a difference between the two.

Indeed, girls who generally take love very seriously are because of a lack of security. I'm 20 years old this year, but because of my lack of security, I have never dared to touch love, although there is no shortage of excellent men who chase me.

I often deceive myself that I don't want to fall in love, just because I haven't met the right person, which is actually my own inner insecurity. Although I sometimes meet people I like, but because of <>

Lack of security and dare not confess. Of course, it's not entirely because of my family, my parents have always been very affectionate, and the reason why I feel insecure is because when I was very young, my parents went to Guangzhou to work, and they lacked the care of their parents, so they have never dared to fall in love, on the other hand, I am also afraid that my boyfriend will not be practical. There is also my own conservative thinking, I feel that my first love should be given to the person who has been with me for a lifetime, and my first love is not half of my future, and I always feel very sorry for him.

Of course, I was afraid that there would be divorce and something like that when I got married.

Therefore, please be sure to cherish those girls who take love very seriously and give them more care, because their hearts are really lonely and insecure.

No, it's just putting love first, personal choice, and has nothing to do with security.

1.People who usually behave very cautiously are generally insecure in their hearts, they are very sensitive, and they are afraid of being disgusted by others because they have done something wrong2What you can do is definitely not to trouble others, what you can't do is hard to do, you still can't give up and don't want to ask for help, this is caused by a lack of security, and your heart is very independent.

3.Because don't show a little bit of kindness, you can't wait to take out your whole heart to others, their hearts are very lonely, and they are also eager to get attention 4People who are insecure are less confident and will not take the initiative to talk to others, but they will find that they are still very enthusiastic after getting along for a long time.

In general, for insecure girls, the performance in love is that they mainly distrust each other more often, and are always full of doubts about each other's feelings, such as often asking each other about some behaviors, or questioning the purpose of the other party's interactions with others, and even sometimes often being jealous, or spying on others, it is possible, or always repeating a question, which represents the girl's insecurity.

Hello, girls who are insecure in love will be more sensitive, vigilant, and no one can fully believe anything, but whenever someone says something that makes you feel uncomfortable, she will be particularly vigilant, no matter how much others say that she will still feel shortcomings. I hope mine can help you out.

For example, always ask you to post on Moments to show affection, such as not answering ** and feeling that you are with other women, such as constantly asking you if you love her.

Hitting ** will be more frequent, you will feel that you don't love him enough, you will have no sense of security, and you will think about why you keep calling ** to ask her what you are doing in ** and who you are with. He doesn't bother you on purpose, it's because he cares too much, is upset, or misses you too much. I also care about the eyes of others, and I have to accompany me when I go to **.

is not confident, feels that he may not be worthy of him, is afraid that someone will say irresponsible things about the two of them after appearing with him, is afraid of bringing a bad influence to the boy, and even feels inferior, whether he should not be with him, there will always be such thoughts.

Insecure girls always feel that everyone has bad intentions towards them, and they always want to hurt themselves, and their performance in love is that they need to be accompanied by people all the time, and they also let the other party think about themselves all the time, can't forget themselves, and take themselves as the center.

An insecure girl will take the initiative to contact you because he is afraid that you will ignore him, and he will be afraid that you will quarrel with him, because he is afraid that you will dislike him and dislike him. Everywhere will depend on you.

Generally, insecure girls, she is more afraid that her object will abandon her, and she feels that her object can't give her enough help, and he will gradually dislike her object, and he will behave better and stronger.

A very common manifestation is to hit ** frequently. She will frequently call **ask you about you**, she is not deliberately bothering you, but because she is upset or misses you, she will call you**.

A common manifestation is to check the post, if a girl is in love with a boy, the girl is very insecure, then it is easy to check the post. The second is to keep making sure you love me. Do you love me, how much you love me, you need to keep asking you to get affirmation.

will continue to confirm with the other party "do you like me", "why do you do something", etc., that is, she will continue to "find fault" with the other party in all kinds of small things to confirm that the other party cares about her.