What should I do if I regret some things but can t go back?

Then put away your regrets, look forward, learn from the things you regret, improve yourself through your own continuous efforts, and strive not to let what you do now become regrets in the future.

Life is like this, there will be shortcomings from time to time, because everyone is in the process of continuous growth, and some of the things they did before may be regretted when they look back when they mature later, but these things are impossible to repeat, and there is no need to dwell on these things that have passed. Only by trying to live the present as well as possible can you have fewer regrets in the future. If there is a regret medicine in this world, I think almost everyone needs this medicine, but unfortunately there is none, so I can only occasionally sigh and re-face reality.

I also regretted that when I applied for the university volunteer, my family wanted me to apply for the normal major, and I felt that there was no future in the teaching profession at that time, and I wanted to apply for a more competitive major. Later, when I got married and had children, I deeply realized the importance of a fixed job for a woman, and for some families with elderly people who can take care of their children, the work of husband and wife may not be important. But when I need to take care of my own children, I can't help but feel tired at the thought of having to go to work and pick up my children.

Regret is regret, life still has to be lived, think about it, just stick to it for so many years, and my heart is not so entangled. You can't give up on yourself, a hard-working self is not only responsible for yourself, but also will become a role model for your children, life is not like this, no one can succeed casually. Everyone will put in the effort for their own life to make everything better.

Then stride forward, "people are not saints, who can do nothing", and if you can't turn back, don't hesitate to move forward in the same placeLife is not smooth sailing, and it is impossible to do things that you don't regret all your life, make wrong decisions, don't make the same mistakes on the road in the future, miss the person who cherishes yourself, and meet someone who can take yourself as a treasure in the future, just cherish itLife is like this, give you the ups and downs, let you taste all kinds of tastes, of course, among them, there is also the bitterness of regret, there is no regret medicine in the world, don't think about it if you can't go back, what happens is what happens, because of your own mistakes caused by regret of the situation, then try to minimize the damage of this bad situation, and then, continue to move forward.

For example, there is a person who has been with you, very much in love with you, and you also have a good impression of it, but you have not expressed your feelings for a long time, until one day the person who has been with you has another belonging, and you meet a person who is willing to accompany her and love her, you regret it, so what's the use, why can't you grasp this feeling well, regret is useless, if you really love her, either, you will show your heart to it, or you will silently bless,In short, you have to make a decision about your regrets, and then you can take a step forward with peace of mind.

Actually, when it comes to regret, I recently had a thing that I regrettedIt's that I fell in love with a bag, I want to buy, but there is no more in the local physical store, the boss said to help me contact the manufacturer, said that there must be one, but I waited, and later, he told me that there was no more, well, I contacted other dealers, there is no color I want, but there is also a light color of the same bag in the color of my photo, okay, because I have been contacting the local store, I called the owner of the local store again, to see if he can still give me another color of the bag, He told me that he could, and then he called ** and said no, and it happened that the spot in the physical store of another dealer I contacted was bought by someone else. I'm out of exquisiteness,**It's all the same.,Thinking about who I contacted first to buy it at whom's house.,The result was that not only did I not buy it.,I was also misunderstood by the owner of the local store.,I thought I was buying it in another store.,Hey,It's really sad.。 That's how I missed out on my love bag.

See, no matter how big or small things in life are, people will regret itJust like when I bought a bag, I didn't buy it and I was really unwilling, so ah, my mother told me, "I will take it decisively", I was kind, but people still misunderstood, hey, so, what if I can't buy it, I still don't give up recently, or continue to contact, if I really don't, I gave up, it proves that I really have no fate with this bag.

If this has just happened, think about what you can do to make amends, and if so, do it. Before it happens, everything is still turning around. If it's a foregone conclusion, then learn from this experience, why did it become like this, why did it make such a mistake?

Why do you regret it? You must find out the reason for making a mistake and the reason for regret, why you made such a decision, there must be a reason, you must find out the source of that mistake, and you must not make it again next time.

Why bother! Life has been rushing for decades, why torture yourself so much?

We can't not regret what happened in the past, but we have to convert that regret into experience.

Be good at forgiving yourself, if you don't forgive yourself and keep living in regret, then you will be shackled, hindering you from receiving new things and moving forward, and at the same time, you have lost what you are now, and tomorrow you will regret your current state.

So, forgive yourself, move forward bravely, and when you have greater ability, you will have a greater chance to make amends for the things you regretted.

I hope the landlord will change this mentality as soon as possible!

If you want to go back to the past, after all, the present days are not as good as the past, and you have no intention or powerlessness to change, so you can only fall into nostalgia for the past. If life is full, there may be no time and no nostalgia.

For me, I was confused and dissatisfied with my current life, but I didn't make any effort to change it, and I could only convince myself to be content with the status quo.

I want to go out and have a look, but I always make excuses for laziness.

I think I should study hard, but I always procrastinate.

I wanted to do a lot, but I ended up trapping myself in my dorm room.

And if you want to go back to the past, it's simply the high school days.

At that time, there was a clear goal, there was the motivation to learn, there were friends who worked hard with you, and although life was tired and fixed, there was laughter in the dull.

Moreover, the people you like are around, and the best friends are also around, and there is nothing else to worry about except studying, which is really the best day.

The writing is as messy and incoherent as ever. I tried my best.

Maybe it's because there's no expectation for the future.

Perhaps it is because we have begun to realize that no matter how powerful life is in this world, all material wealth and accumulation will eventually disappear with our lives.

Perhaps it is the beginning to realize that everyone who has breath has to taste death.

Perhaps it is the beginning to realize that this ephemeral life should not be and will not be the whole content of existence.

Maybe it's a glimpse of the truth.

Do you think that I created you in vain, and that you were not called to me? ”

Many people will have this kind of thought, but there is no way back to the past, there is no regret medicine in the world, what you have done is what you have done, whether it is right or wrong, impulsive or deliberate, it has already happened, and no one can change it. People can't live in the past, they should look forward, don't do things they regret in the future, they have already regretted it, they shouldn't repeat the mistakes of the past!

It is useless to regret alone, we should still look forward, after all, people move forward, and we cannot go back to the past.

We need to get rid of the emotions of regret, we need to do it from the moment, we need to work hard from the present. If you want to be better in the future, only by doing everything well in the present, can you have a better future and have fewer regrets.

I have a very strong desire to go back to the things I regretted in the past, and I think the most unsold thing in the world is regret medicine. One can only look forward.

I have a very strong desire to go back to the past, and I have something I regret in the past, what should I do?

This cannot be achieved, only now can we start to change ourselves.

No, I'm thirty years old and have nothing, but I don't have many regrets. It's fate.

There are many states of mind in life that need to be savored. If you had seized the opportunity and had easily soared as you said, then your mood today would definitely be different from what you are now. If success comes casually, it is easy to lose the understanding of life as it is, and you may magnify yourself and feel that everything is okay and everything is under your control, which is more likely to stumble in the future.

Although you don't have a "soaring day" today, how do you know that you won't be able to succeed tomorrow? If we have a correct understanding of life and self, wouldn't this road be more stable?

There are many kinds of happiness in life, and the only thing you emphasize now is "soaring", which may not bring you real happiness. How many private business owners are under pressure, it is difficult to ride a tiger, and even can't sleep at night, and having money does not equal success or happiness.

Everyone lives in trouble, and they don't have to regret themselves or envy others.

What happened to 30? People live and look forward, what do you do when you look back? Even if you have nothing, don't you still have a pair of hands?

Tell yourself to live a good life from now on.

For me, it must have been a fight with my mother, and now that I think I really shouldn't have done it, but I couldn't control myself. <>

I didn't stay with my mother last summer, and the relationship between the two is still very harmonious, at least there will be no conflict because of a trivial matter. People say that distance produces beauty, and I didn't believe it at first, but now I have to believe it.

This year's summer vacation is spent with my mother, how to say it, there are bitter and sweet. I suddenly found myself not understanding my mother, love to talk back to her, love to talk to her, she said that others are rebellious in high school and junior high school, how you are in college, I don't think it's rebellious, and I just want to express my own opinion.

For this, I am distressed. I don't understand why my previous empathetic mother has changed, and she is different from the one I remember. I think it's her menopause.

She became more verbose than before, more like to make others do what she wanted, and became arrogant.

I think I've probably changed too, I've become more genuine, I've become stingy, and I'm not as big as I used to be.

In this summer vacation, I was with my mother every day, sometimes she would instruct me to do this, do that, it was a very small thing, I don't remember what I was doing at the time, it should be playing a game, I said I'll go after a while, but she kept talking there, this thing can be big or small, there is nothing to worry about, but at the time I didn't know what was wrong, I was very angry, I could have put down the game, I glanced at her and ignored it.

Maybe it's because my mom is really old, she started to say some strange things, which completely angered me, that day, I yelled at her, we had a very serious quarrel, I remember I just wanted to get away from her quickly.

I hurt my mom that day, and for the next few days we didn't like each other, and he and I didn't talk for about three or four days. The atmosphere between the two of us was very strange, I knew that my mother loved me and she was thinking about me, but I just couldn't control myself. <>

After all, it was a relative, and my mother gave in to me first, but the more this happened, the more sorry I felt for her.

Thinking of what she has done for us in the past few decades, I feel very guilty, it is obviously a very small thing, endure it and pass, but I have hurt the relationship between the two people, we have become less intimate than before, and we will not say anything to her.

It always felt like there was something invisible standing between the two of them.

The summer vacation is over in a blink of an eye, and I'm leaving my mother, although I'm very reluctant, but I suddenly don't have anything to say to her, and I think she probably doesn't know what to say to me.

I think more than half of the people who have made this or that decision at the beginning may be impulsive, may be thoughtful, and I think more than half of the people have regretted what they have done, such as the job they chose at the beginning, the love they chose, the direction they chose on their life path, one wrong step, one wrong step! Just like me, I regretted the job I chose, the busy work every day made me have no time to take care of the love I had, and I didn't have time to manage that long-distance relationship, that is to be a little busier, a little busier, I can buy a house this year, I can buy a car in two years, and in another two years I can have the capital to marry my her......, Thinking too much, planning too much, busy work makes me unable to spare time to manage my long-distance love that has been maintained for eight years, the years have passed in a hurry, and now I have everything I should have, but my love is gone! Now I have no intention of being in a relationship, I am still single, sometimes I want to not let myself be so busy, more companionship, more care, maybe the same will have everything now, maybe I will have my own home, have my own children, and have a goal to strive for!

But what about regret, some people can turn back, while others can never go back......! In the face of life, find a new reason, find a goal, life is more than this, all the way forward, go on, come on....