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Hello, I think you should definitely go and keep it. First of all, it's not because this man doesn't love you anymore, but it is related to his birth, born in the countryside, how much will invisibly press a wall in his heart, and you get married, and the woman will come out of the house, so that he will feel more inferior, feel pressured, and you often add words, he will think that you look down on him, dislike him, and you say that you don't want to live with his parents, he will think that you also dislike his parents, or he will think that you dislike his parents are rural, look down on his parents. As a man, it's hard to stand like this.
You should talk to him and show that you don't think like that. He is also a very filial man, and such a man is worthy of being entrusted with life. Wishing you happiness!
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Your mood is understandable, I think the best way is to find a time for the two of you to sit down and have a good talk, what do you say?
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Try to love him well.
Maybe it's because you're usually too domineering and hurt his self-esteem. And he's silent because he's not very good at talking, right?
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I don't think you should give up on this relationship.
I very much agree with the opinion of the third floor.
The situation in your family invisibly puts a lot of pressure on him.
I think if you love him, you should also love his parents.
You can ask his parents to do it with you first.
And you work hard with him to make money.
In this way, he can buy a house or something on his own, and he will think that you are very considerate, and after he buys a house, let his parents live there.
I think the most important thing is communication, the only way to solve the communication problem between you is for you to let go of your temper and sometimes learn to adapt to his life, not to let you completely don't want yourself, the two of you can only integrate into each other's lives, is the key to the problem.
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is already a leftover woman, and if she doesn't keep it, no one will want it. It's just a phoenix man, with strong self-esteem and foolishness. As long as you can accept living with your mother-in-law. It's better to leave your mother's house to your mother's house, isn't it good to rely on the efforts of two people!
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Women always find out that they are not golden branches and jade leaves when they break up, women always worry about whether there is this store in this village before breaking up, and women always take all the fault on themselves after ......breaking upThe gap between the two sides is not to be underestimated, and the principle of being the right person should be respected. If the gap is already uncomfortable for both parties, then it is better to change people. Because if you endure it today, the same thing will happen tomorrow, your imbalance will still appear, and his dissatisfaction will continue.
In that case, why not take a step back and think about it carefully, is the other party really the person I want?
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