I m so confused, please help

Very immature performance. Mainly because there is no ideal and no pursuit. But maturity comes at a price.

If you can understand it yourself, you don't need to be hurt. If you don't understand it yourself, you can't mature yourself. Then you can only wake up after being hurt.

You feel that your life is gray because you have been giving yourself a lot of excuses to do things that you know are wrong. Whether your life is gray or colorful is all up to you. This kind of thing is easy to say.

It's hard to do. See if you still have control of yourself and whether you won't give up. Then give it a try.

Live a simple and healthy life. It'll get better slowly.

This big brother, since you know that your ** is not good, then you must know what is good, then you change it, as for the goal, first set a realistic shorter goal, such as what I want to do during this time. If you don't have the motivation or the will, just think about how your parents brought you up, and they are still waiting for you to honor them and serve them.

Also, don't sigh to yourself for a long time, because it will affect your mood, and there are many things you can do when you sigh. People always have to look forward, don't dwell on their past and bad aspects, and think about their goals and how to achieve them. It's a good idea to take a moment to organize your thoughts.

Write one of your strengths every day and you will find that you are still excellent Try it. The silly character is a cuteness that I like.

It's human nature to be emotional, and if you don't be emotional, don't blame yourself.

If you really don't like yourself, you should be confident.

Don't deliberately change yourself, it will make your life harder.

Look at yourself and like yourself.

I can feel that you're unhappy.

I am a person who puts happiness first, I like myself, so I will be liked by others.

There is still sunshine in your life, probably you haven't found your dawn star yet.

I don't have a goal, but I try to do what I want to do.

You should take good control of yourself.

Why should you doubt yourself, don't believe in yourself, don't have confidence in yourself! Know how you can expect others to treat you the same if you don't even love and respect yourself! So you take care of yourself and give yourself more positive psychological cues!

God is actually fair, remember that saying:"Everyone is an apple that God has taken a bite of"And your shortcomings are too many, it may just be that God is particularly partial to your taste, and taking an extra bite is God's special favor for you. There is no such thing as a perfect person, and we should not feel bad, as long as we bring out our strengths, it is enough.

It's just a matter of mood, if you're in a bad mood, you don't like anything, do something that makes you confident and happy. When you're in a good mood, these questions will fade away. Or do nothing, after a while.

It's still going to get better. It's just a matter of stages.

Same with you. But now I'm looking for an exit.

I'm looking for something meaningful to do right now. Fill your life to the fullest.

Find something you're interested in doing. Distraction, I guess you're a sign of boredom.

When you're at a loss, it's best to read a book.

To be honest, I don't know what you mean, can you be specific?