Does marriage have to be compromised?

It doesn't have to be a compromise to negotiate, for example, if your family wants a lot of bride price, you can discuss it, just give each other a hand, there is no need to force one party to compromise. After all, getting married is a happy thing, and if you get stiff, it won't look good.

If it's because of love, it shouldn't be compromise, it's harmony. If it weren't for love, one party would need to compromise, and it would slowly become harmonious after getting along.

It's really a coincidence that you ask this. Because two days ago, my college classmates asked me about my relationship problems, and it turned out that I had an awkward relationship with the person I was about to marry, and it was a matter of compromise or not. Here's the thing.

The woman works in a hospital in one city, my classmate works in another city, and the marriage is approaching, and the woman asks the man to return to her city to work, and the marriage house must also be bought in her city.

At first, I felt a little unreasonable, or childish, and then I thought from the woman's point of view, this is also very right, she longs for daily companionship, instead of seeing each other once a week, half a month and half a year, and leaving after half a day or two, this should belong to birds, and birds also have a gathering place, and newlyweds should have it! So I persuaded my classmates to go back to the city where the woman is located to make a living and buy a house, and it should be very easy to find a job in a second- or third-tier city after graduating from a bachelor's degree, not to mention that my classmates still have two chances.

But what he told me was that he wanted to break up, but he didn't want to bring it up himself and wanted the woman to bring it up, so as to save the woman's face, because he felt that the latter would definitely be tired. I suddenly wondered, did he love that girl enough? Or do you love the country more than the beauty?

Actually, it's neither, because they never weigh the future of two people together, not each other.

If you talk about it in your heart, and talk about the benefits and disadvantages in detail, I think there can be a better solution, no one compromises whom, who wrongs whom, there should be only who takes who seriously, there is wood and there is a desire to be together, and there is no plan for the future of two people, not their own future. Therefore, if you compromise, you will be willing to sacrifice and do not be aggrieved.

Marriage is a matter for two people, and it requires two people to work together, and it depends on the situation whether this effort includes compromise. Generally speaking, if your marriage is not linked to the three aunts and six wives, but only completes the wedding that belongs to the two of you, then there is nothing to compromise, just to conduct a marriage ceremony according to your own preferences. I have a friend and her husband who are traveling to get married, and there is no too grand wedding ceremony, which focuses on the hearts of both parties to the marriage, rather than comparing and extravagant.

The most important thing is that this is a way of marriage that both parties can accept, which can have enough fun and a lot less trouble, so there is no compromise in this way of marriage.

On the contrary, it is very common in China to set up wine, and the more wine is placed, the better, and the more grand and golden. There are actually a lot of contradictions behind what we don't know, especially the family conflicts between the married parties, and who should pay how much will become the focus of disputes. If there is a gap between the man and the woman, it is necessary for one of them to compromise in order to make the wedding go well.

I've also heard older colleagues talk about their Chinese weddings, there will be a lot of things to arrange, and both men and women must agree on the expenses, otherwise the wedding will be very tiring, and some people will even be in a very unhappy mood on the wedding day.

Chinese marriage values the blessings of relatives and friends, and attaches more importance to the ceremony of the wedding itself, which will make both parties unhappy, and the marriage is still to spend money in the necessary and happy place, although the blessings of relatives around are very important, but the most important thing in marriage is to be happy. Therefore, whether you need to compromise or not to get married depends on how you want to get married, and if it is acceptable to both parties, then there is no need to compromise.

I remember my mother told me that the same boat for a hundred years of repair, and the sleep of a thousand years of repair, so there must be a fate for marriage, and there are not a few people who have collapsed because of some things before marriage, some because of the bride price, and some because of some banquets, so sometimes marriage requires one or both parties to make a compromise in order to make the wedding go smoothly.

I remember one of my college roommates, at that time was the first person in our dormitory to fall in love, it is said that her boyfriend started to talk from high school, sometimes her boyfriend often came to see her during breaks, people in our dormitory envy her, every time during the break, she and her boyfriend always show affection in front of us, although joking that they are jealous of her, everyone is mainly happy for her, all the people in our dormitory, they all think that she and her boyfriend will achieve positive results, and after graduation, she and her boyfriend go back to their hometown to work, Continue to fall in love, almost two years of work, at that time heard that they were about to talk about marriage, and then we waited for her invitation, but there was no follow-up, because her family did not give in because of the bride price, and the conversation collapsed!

When I got married, I need a certain amount of compromise, I still remember that when I got married, I also compromised because of the bride price, and I got married, and then I asked my husband what would happen if I didn't compromise at the beginning, and my husband replied with a sentence of owe a beating, indicating that our two fates are not enough! In fact, when getting married, you need more understanding and empathy, sometimes some things are not a matter of principle, and there is nothing to compromise appropriately, so there are too many trivial things to get married, and it is okay to make concessions and compromises occasionally! Because they are all their own family members in the future, they don't have to worry so much about gains and losses!

My husband and I have completely different opinions on how to deal with things, and there are a lot of contradictions, should I compromise? It is normal for husband and wife to have a cold war in married life, if there are completely different opinions with my husband in terms of handling things, and there are many conflicts, should I compromise? First, there should be no compromise.

The role of communication is to understand and be understood. Don't always distinguish between right and wrong and winning and losing. Take the initiative to reconcile with your husband.

When you deeply believe that the other person is wrong, you subconsciously do not want to know more about his thoughts and motives, because you have already come to a conclusion, and the other person will lose the will to understand you, so it takes on a state of non-introspection. Don't always procrastinate, especially if you're arguing, don't let it drag on for too long. Second, there should be no compromise, and it should be resolved in a timely manner to eliminate the budding state of contradictions.

If none of them are willing to bow their heads, the harder it will be to solve the problem. Conflicts between husband and wife are often manifested in small things that are easily ignored by both parties. Small problems that cannot be solved will inevitably turn into big problems.

Since they choose to live with this person, it is also important to learn to accept each other's shortcomings. Your husband can feel your love too. Third, a compromise should be made to create a step for the husband.

Since I chose to live with two people, I should have learned to weaken all these problems. Take a step for your husband and learn to forgive each other Kai renting hands. You will find that there will be endless whispers between the two people.

Women quarrel not only because they win and lose more, but also because of the attitude of their husbands. Women don't want much, that is, their husbands care more about themselves in life. It's the little things that can quarrel.

Many couples choose to remain outgoing in the face of major events. Fourth, when you have a conflict with your husband, tell yourself not to be angry. People who truly love you don't want to make you sad, people who don't care about you.

No matter how angry you are, it will hurt your heart and ruin your body. Don't get angry, relax yourself, make yourself happy, and make yourself happy is a joy. Only you are happy, others are not the same thing in your eyes.

Smart women should learn to stop so that they can resolve conflicts.

In the marriage continue to change themselves, make themselves better, but also for the other party to make appropriate changes and compromises, in order to make each other's love more long, not long after marriage to conceive a baby, due to malnutrition, but also because I don't know how to cook, my husband has no time to take care of me, so I can only go to my mother-in-law for a while to go to my mother's house, at that time I feel that I and my husband slowly began to appear estranged, I told him many times, his mother is not my mother, It is impossible to treat me like my mother, but he doesn't listen, he always says that his parents are very good, how is it, but when I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law played mahjong every day, and the cooking was not on time, and my father-in-law smoked at home every day, and it was useless to say, and at this time he always said that I was not sensible and so on, and slowly found that I was unwilling to call him ** to say these things.

Second, later I went back to my parents' house, and my mother took care of me, she had a lot of things to do, but she was also dedicated to taking care of me, because I was pregnant and vomited too much, my appetite was really not good, and I was very picky, so I could feel the distress of My parents, and then after giving birth, my in-laws did not say to help take care of the confinement, nor did they say to help take care of the child, in short, my confinement was taken care of by my mother, and he felt that his mother's waist was not good, and I had to understand if he couldn't come.

Third, then we and I can't take the baby with a thrilling shirt, and it is true that a person will not take care of it, so I took the baby back to my parents' house, his parents ** did not hit one, at first I and he will be a day **, and then slowly I don't want to pick him up **, and I don't want to talk to him too much, we have been separated for about ten months After I went back, I felt that the two of them could not be like the feeling when they were in love, at that time we had just been married for three years, and at that time I felt that I wanted to return to a person's life. I never got tired of it and loved my home and family very much.

Yes, because many divorces are caused by uncompromise, both parties must learn to compromise in marriage, and only after taking a step back can the two people communicate better.

In marriage, it is not a compromise, but tolerance and understanding, and love with tolerance and understanding will be happy!

I don't think there should be compromise, marriage is a major event in life, and the rotten object to choose is to be with you for the rest of your life, and you must not compromise because of age.

What are some of the biggest challenges that marriage and family have brought you?

Time management: After getting married, both family and work require a lot of time and energy. When it comes to balancing family and work, managing your time wisely can be challenging.

Work may require long working days and overtime, while families need attention and companionship. Find a balance between time management and ensure that your time is allocated wisely between family and work.

Role Change: After getting married, personal roles change. Transitioning from being single to being a partner and family member in a marriage requires adapting to new high-town roles and responsibilities.

At the same time, career roles may also change, such as promotions, job transfers, or increased work stress. Balance and adjust between different roles.

Financial pressures: After getting married, the family's financial situation may change. Getting married means managing the finances and family budget, including mortgages, children's education, and daily expenses. Dealing with the financial pressures between family and work requires trade-offs and decisions.

Communication and conflict resolution: At home and at work, communication and conflict resolution are crucial skills. After marriage, couples may face different expectations, needs, and attitudes, as well as conflicts between family and work.

The ability to communicate effectively and resolve conflicts is essential for maintaining harmonious relationships at home and work.

Marriage requires compromise, because sometimes you take a step back, you compromise a little, and many of your conflicts can be resolved, so know how to compromise at the right time.

There is a need for compromise, there will be a lot of friction between two people in marriage, and there must be compromise at this time, because two people will definitely have two thoughts, so they need to tolerate each other.

Marriage requires compromise, because no matter which person will have certain shortcomings, so you can't always grasp each other's shortcomings, but learn to tolerate and compromise.

Of course, if two people quarrel today, and the quarrel is very strong, but neither of them compromises, then in the end it will get worse and worse, until the divorce.

Compromises are needed, but they can't be forever. Because as long as you truly love someone, you want the other person to be happy, and you don't want the other party to compromise for yourself.

You have to compromise, because both of you have their own unique personalities, and if you both don't compromise and don't give in, you will never get along very well.

Marriage has to be compromised, you take a step back, you won't lose too much, but it can extend the shelf life of the marriage and make the relationship between two people deeper.

Marriage requires compromise, because when two people have conflicts, they should tolerate each other, understand each other's difficulties, and make necessary compromises, which is more conducive to married life.