Is there anything you can do to restrain yourself from spending money?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-22
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hehe: Tell me about my experience.

    That year, I left home to go to a middle school in another county to tutor, and the school's accommodation conditions were too poor, so my mother helped me rent a house outside for me to live alone, except for rent, water and electricity, my mother gave me 500 yuan a month. One month, I miscalculated 100 yuan when I was making a budget (I misremembered the amount of money in my bank card), and as a result, I overspent on the Internet, and now I can't afford to eat enough. I didn't want to ask my family (for fear of being nagged), but I didn't know my classmates well, so I was embarrassed to ask.

    I remember that I had to spend 1 yuan 5 yuan in the morning, two yuan and 5 yuan rice noodles at noon, 4 yuan fast food in the evening and a chocolate pie for 5 cents for supper. For the last 20 days of that month, I ate these things every day, and I ate the same thing every day, and I was so tired that I wanted to die, but there was no other way but to endure it. I especially remember one night when I had already eaten a chocolate pie but my stomach was not very full and I would love to eat another one.

    I stood for a long time in front of the bag of chocolate pies with my head down, and I kept telling myself: be rational, if I eat more than one today, I will starve one night in the future, I just want to eat today, and if I eat it, then I will not have to eat it when I need to. In the end, I didn't eat it.

    Since then, every time I use money, I think about how this will affect my life in the future, and I will spend it when I think clearly.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't bring money, or don't want your parents' money. If you can do one thing, you can get rid of the habit of messing around.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Spending money is often extravagant, money is always not enough to spend, and I don't know where my money is spent, spending money indiscriminately has become a habit, how to get rid of this habit? Give you a tip.

    1. Be clear about your income: When you raise and spend money, you should consider your income, whether your income is a fixed salary, or whether there is a new income every day, whether you can meet your daily spending money, and remind yourself how much income is left this month when spending money, and whether income and expenditure can be balanced.

    2. Write a good shopping list: every time you shop, you must have a slippery plan, have an arrangement, think about writing a good shopping list, what you need to buy, what you don't need to buy, don't blindly buy, buy something you don't need, it's a waste.

    3. Stay away from discount activities and other activities: tell yourself not to be cheap, and buy it as soon as you see it, but you find that you can't use it and it's not suitable for use.

    4. It is best to use cash to buy with cash, and less card: card swiping has become a fashion for shopping, and swiping cards has promoted consumption, but swiping cards has made many people develop the habit of spending money indiscriminately.

    5. Don't compare and don't compare: you know your own ability, you know your own family background, don't compare with others, don't fight with others, eat healthy, dress comfortably, and don't pursue expensive brands.

    6. When spending money, remind yourself that money is earned, not by the wind: when you spend money, you should think in your heart, how the money came from, it was earned by your hard work, not by the wind, and it fell from the sky, so you must be worthy of yourself and don't let yourself live so tired.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Think about when you are poor, think about when you are old and have nothing to rely on in the future.

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