On a plane, how do I chat with someone sitting next to me?

In fact, if you want to chat on a plane, you also need to see people, if the other party has no desire to chat, don't be embarrassed to chat, insist on disturbing the other party. If the other party is also interested in chatting, you can start chatting from the travel destination, travel arrangements, travel experience, etc.

The first time I took a plane, I went on a business trip to Shanghai to attend an exhibition, and there was a middle-aged and elderly couple sitting next to me.

Before chatting, I took a look at each other's physical state, it should not be the first time for the two of them to take a plane, there were no uncomfortable symptoms such as motion sickness, but they were very comfortable packing up their things, still holding a book in their hands and reading, the old gentleman was in the next seat, and he was already wearing an eye mask and ready to sleep.

At first, I asked her if she needed help with her things, because the old lady didn't seem to be able to reach her head, and she wanted to put the backpack on the shelf, so I helped her put the bag in.

Because she helped the old lady, she also said thank you.

The chat began, and I took the initiative to say that it was my first time flying, so I didn't know what to pay attention to.

She introduced me to the seat belts.

How to tie it, how to adjust it, the mobile phone needs to be turned off, and told me not to be nervous, the plane will shake when it takes off and lands, and it is generally very stable ......

After the adjustment, I began to talk about what I did in Shanghai, and it was a good time to chat. I also learned through chatting that she came to Chaoshan with her husband.

Play, and now that the trip is over, it's time to go back to Shanghai.

Through such a topic, I went to Chaoshan's food, scenic spots, and cultural exchanges, and also talked about some interesting things that the old lady encountered during her travels, and by the way, she also introduced what are the fun places in Shanghai that must be visited, and what are the more characteristic Shanghai delicacies that can be tried ......

As a result, on the plane, in just a few hours, I became familiar with the old lady next to me, and I was almost invited to their house ......for dinnerI had other colleagues who were on a business trip with me and had a work arrangement, so I naturally had to decline politely.

Later, when I got off the plane, I also helped the old man and the old lady with their luggage and backpacks.

I think you can refer to my practice and chat with your neighbor on the plane to have certain communication skills.

Yes. Because airplanes are means of transportation.

So naturally there is a destination and a departure station, from these two places, you can talk about the mountains, talk about the plan and arrangement of travel, if the other party has any needs that you are familiar with, you can also introduce the other party to ......If you don't understand, you can learn more, praise the other party for being more familiar than the locals, planning well, and so on.

Of course, if the other party also wears an eye mask to sleep after getting on the plane, don't disturb the rest of the person, and keep the volume low when chatting.

We all meet strangers sitting next to each other during the journey, and the journey is tired and boring, so we will think of chatting with the people next to us. When chatting with the person next to us, we should be careful that we should always be polite, and if it is obvious that the other person does not want to talk to someone, then we should stop the conversation in time. Here are my recommendations.

First, don't do anything else when you're chatting with the other person. We are now inseparable from mobile phones, computers and other electronic products, I am not saying that when talking to each other simply put down these things, but, when you chat with the other party, to integrate into this chat environment, don't think about the troubles in life, work troubles, otherwise the other party will see that you are absent-minded, which is also the most basic respect for the other party chatting. Otherwise, you simply don't have a chat, and don't be "half-hearted".

Second, don't show the strong side. Since the other person is a stranger who has just met, we should start this chat with a humble attitude, because you don't know what the other person's acceptance range is, maybe everyone you are talking about knows it, and you also put on a "only I know in the world" expression, which will only make the other person disgusted. There is no doubt that in this way, you just expose your fatal shortcomings, then, the other party will not want to continue chatting with you.

Third, always pay attention to the other person's emotional changes. When you start a topic and the other person is interested, then your chat will be enjoyable; If the other person is obviously "not cold" or very unfamiliar with the topic, and you keep chattering with the other person, it will only make the other person feel annoyed and feel that you are a person who does not know how to be flexible. The other party can only perfunctory "yes" and "um" and will not express any opinions.

There is also a situation where people are generally tired on the plane and want to rest, and if the other person shows a sense of exhaustion, you should not chase and talk, which will be annoying.

Fourth, in addition to "chatting", there is an important part of chatting, and that is listening. I don't remember how many people have said the importance of listening, but listening will allow you to learn something that you haven't been exposed to, but if you keep expressing your opinions, you won't hear different opinions.

Fifth, when we describe our energy or opinions, we must be careful to be concise and not say something that we have and do not have. If you reduce your content to a few sentences, the other person will ask you something they don't understand, and your conversation will continue. But if you keep nagging, saying some foreshadowing words, and never get to the point, it will wear out the other party's patience, and maybe, after you talk for a long time, you will only get a "oh" from the other party.

In fact, these methods can not only be used to chat with neighbors on the plane, but also other places to talk to strangers, I hope it can help you.

You can start by exchanging a few words tentatively. Look at the other person's reaction, if he is tired, he will close his eyes, or simply perfunctory, rarely speak, at this time do not force the conversation with people. If the other person is very talkative, you can continue.

If it's me, I'll say hello first, and then see what the other person's attitude is! If it's also very easy-going, it's okay to talk about it, if not, then forget it! Why don't you get some sleep?

If this happens, there are a few things you should probably try:

It is possible to explain the matter patiently and politely so that he realizes that his behavior is inappropriate. Or you can ask the flight attendant bureau for help, guidance, and mediation.

2.Seek help from a flight attendant: If communication is ineffective or unsuccessful, you can seek help from a flight attendant.

Flight attendants are responsible for ensuring the safety and good order of the flight and have the right to mediate disorderly conduct. It can be reported to the flight attendant and asked for them to arrange for a seat reassignment.

3.Handle it yourself: If none of the above solves the problem, we can also choose to leave the site or find another seat. While this may not be the most ideal solution, it is an effective workaround to avoid embarrassment and arguments.

In short, appropriate measures can be taken when encountering such behavior, but we should try to avoid causing unnecessary quarrels and conflicts, and treat and deal with such conflicts rationally and understandingly, so that we and others feel comfortable.

First of all, when you find that someone is unreasonably usurping your seat, the most important thing is to stay calm and polite. After all, we're all passengers and want to be able to get through this journey smoothly. Try to have a friendly conversation with the person occupying your seat, politely point out your seat, and ask if they can move out.

If the other party does not cooperate or refuses to give up their seat, you can try to seek help from the airline staff. On board the aircraft, there are dedicated cabin crew members who are responsible for the comfort and safety of passengers. You can explain the situation to them and ask them to step in.

They will do their best to solve the problem and make sure that every passenger can sit in their rightful seat.

If the situation is still not resolved, you may consider seeking support from other passengers. In most cases, other passengers will understand your plight and will be willing to help you defend your rights. You can politely communicate with other passengers and ask if they would like to assist you with a seat issue.

If all else fails, it may be necessary to accept temporary changes. Sometimes, there can be some problems or confusion with the flight, and we have to make some compromises. In this case, you can contact the airline, file a complaint with them, and ask for appropriate compensation or resolution.

Also, to avoid this from happening, it's a wise thing to choose your seat in advance and make a reservation. When booking tickets, try to choose a seat close to the aisle or window and avoid choosing the middle seat, which can reduce the likelihood of seat disputes with others.

In addition, we should also maintain mutual respect and understanding when sharing space with others. During the flight, there may be times when we need to adjust our posture or move our body a little bit in our seats. However, please make sure not to encroach on other passengers' space and avoid occupying or interfering with the comfort of others.

To sum up, when encountering an unreasonable seat on an airplane, staying calm and rational is key. Through friendly communication, seeking help from the airline, and working with other passengers, we can do our best to solve the problem. If all else fails, we also need to learn to accept temporary changes and communicate with airlines to find a reasonable solution.

The most important thing is that we learn to be friendly with others in order to resolve issues peacefully, whether on the plane or on other occasions. Although we may sometimes encounter unreasonable seat grabbing, we can deal with it in a rational, calm and polite manner to ensure that our rights and interests are protected and that a harmonious flight experience is maintained.

To sum up, when we encounter an unreasonable seat occupation on the plane, we should remain calm and rational and solve the problem through friendly communication, seeking help from the airline and cooperating with other passengers. At the same time, it is important to choose your seat in advance, respect other people's space, and be friendly. Let's work together to create an enjoyable and harmonious flying experience!