Ask a good person to guide me how to deal with it? Is it serious? 40

Updated on society 2024-04-06
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think it's a matter of my own mentality, really.

    Look at what you can say so philosophically.

    You should hang out with your friends.

    I have nothing to do for my parents to do what I can at home.

    You can also listen to more songs.

    Or you can go to the kindergarten and have fun.

    Try to make yourself happy. Don't think about anything else.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    We generally refer to your situation as a social, gaze-phobia;

    If you adjust yourself, you can't be in a hurry, you need to make a long-term plan, because if you want to hurry, you can't achieve it, but it may cause obsessive-compulsive disorder; You make a plan for the year;

    1. Spend a few months reading some books on thinking patterns, find the extremes of your thinking patterns, and change yourself after feeling and feeling;

    2. Spend a few months sorting out and reviewing your own growth experience, and find the wrong feelings, thoughts and behaviors in your own experience; Autosuggestion changes them;

    3. Spend a few months to dredge out the negative energy accumulated in the heart through physical relaxation and spiritual perception training, so that the body and mind can relax;

    4. Find your true true self, you should have lost your true self in the environment, you only remember what you were asked to do by others, and your own true self has been diluted.

    5. Fusion for a few more months will be completely fine.

    Although the time is a bit long, if you want to quickly adjust yourself, you only need to participate in the study and counseling of systematic psychological courses, such as our Runxuan's self-harmony psychological system, but you can regulate yourself, you must not be fast, you need to take your time, quickly make yourself a good person, and there is no one who can work by self-regulation. So if your own growth is not very urgent, then long-term planning can be effective.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's a psychological problem, probably due to having some kind of social unpleasantness that you've subconsciously amplified.

    In fact, it is also because you yourself are too unconfident.

    Strangers or acquaintances, why would they laugh at you, and you didn't do anything wrong, even if you did something wrong, it's all in the past.

    Besides, who usually has the leisure to make fun of you, they can't even do their own business, do you think that you have ever made fun of people a lot? Isn't it nothing! In fact, no one deliberately makes fun of anyone.

    You just can't get by with yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Formative period of mental illness, a precursor to social phobia. Eliminate it as soon as possible, learn to actively communicate with the outside world, receive healthy and beneficial information, and integrate into society.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Be confident, practice what you look like when talking to people in your head when you are alone, and slowly get better, and try to show your strengths.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello. Thank you for your trust in all of you. From your description, it can be seen that you have a problem now.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's almost the same in any school, but you can't repeat it.

    Now I go to a general university for 4 years.

    It depends on what professional tease or spine you want to read, and the road group is long and long, and you can slowly grind it yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's definitely your best bet for the last year.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, I had to be confident, I used to be in the same situation as you.

    But just think about it: the world doesn't care about you as much as you think.

    Do you think people are talking about you?

    Come on! Everyone has so many things that they forget in a flash, who will remember so many details and things?

    But no one cares about you, you can't say that you don't care about yourself, you have to admit yourself first before others can recognize you!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello, if it's just a recent one, it's a bad mentality, adjust yourself, check some information to learn, you can also look at Runxuan's self-harmony psychological system, and you can also understand the process of your own problems;

    But if it has been like this for a long time, and you can't adjust it for more than three months, then you are a kind of social phobia, and eye avoidance is the fear of sight; At the same time, the negativity of thought patterns causes the negativity of feelings, thoughts and behaviors; This is necessary to participate in psychological counseling**, and I can't really adjust myself; In the long run, it may also turn into obsessive-compulsive disorder, which will have a greater impact on life;

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Friends, you must not think like this, it is very painful, you have no problem sleeping, you must sleep well, find something interesting to do, keep yourself busy, don't think about these things, it's best to be busy and have no time to think about these things, if you can't do it, go to exercise, and then exercise your self-confidence, find the cause of anxiety, find the problem, you must pay attention to two problems now, one is to rest, the other is to find things to do that you can keep busy, and it is not bad to do some simple and repetitive workRemember, you are unique in the world, there are some things that only you can do, and you are always the best.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No one cares about you at all but yourself, so ...

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You regard yourself as someone else's elder Others are younger than you Look directly at others Keep others honest and don't dare to do anything to you Don't run away I'm not afraid of people I don't want to pay attention to others Be confident.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Peaceful coexistence. I don't like it and I don't hate it Not to mention the use of it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The key is how the person relates to you.

    If it is a relatively close relationship, of course, it is necessary to cover him and her, and if it is another type of relationship, at most you can only mourn its misfortune and be angry with it.

    As the saying goes: the dragon gives birth to nine sons, each of them is different, in fact, everyone is a unique existence, you don't have to worry about this kind of thing, you can't save it.

    Ling Hu Chong said: There are many things that we can't control, so we can only choose to control ourselves.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In my opinion, there are few people who really like this kind of people. Most of them want to get some small favors from bad people

    People in this society are very realistic now. It's hard to be a good person. Be a good person. When you are a fool and a bad person, it will not end well. It is also said ...

    It's really hard to be human!! A word of advice, if you want to help, it depends on what kind of friend you are.

    Don't be too straight!!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    People, it's good to be worthy of your own heart.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Are you a man or a woman?? If you meet someone of the opposite sex of the same age, ask QQ and mobile phone number with a dead face

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Remember him and do your best to help him when you have the chance.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Tell him, thank him, learn from him——— take the opportunity, and give points.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Under what circumstances did you meet a good person.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    People respect you, you need to respect people... That's the way to treat people.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The weight of the oil used is .

    kilograms) and because the used part is 25%, the original oil in the barrel weighs kilograms).

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    10 kg of oil.

    x is the weight of the oil.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Set the oil weight x kilograms, the barrel weight y kilograms, yes.

    x+y=solveable: x=10 kilograms y=kilograms.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    of oil + barrels.

    8kg = (100-25)% oil + drum.

    i.e. 25% oil.

    i.e. 100% oil.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Because you are a good person, don't worry too much about the future, just pay proper attention.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The danger is not very big, I understand your feelings, and I have also done ** with my girlfriend, it is very painful. It is also not so easy for a woman to get pregnant. The birth control pill will be effective if taken within 48 hours, but it is not very good for the body, once or twice is fine.

    But don't worry, the chances of this happening to you are slim.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The landlord meant that he didn't bring it at first, but then he wore it, right? If yes, then there is no need to take medicine.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    That's all it takes, it's pretty much what I said above...

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Hello.

    There are a few bugs in the program, but I've fixed them, so you can try them, and look at the comment include at the back

    #include

    int main()

    array.

    int i,j,uppercase=0,lowercase=0,num=0,space=0,other=0;

    for(i=0;i<5;i++)

    printf("total:uppercase:%dlowercase:

    dnum:%dspace:%dother:

    d",uppercase,lowercase,num,space,other);}

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    scanf("%f%f",&a[5][80]);

    In this sentence, %f is a real type, not a string, and there are two more, and there is only one after it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Shouldn't you use arrays for this? arr[i][j] means how many rows, how many columns, how many letters, and then count? You go for it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    scanf("%f%f",&a[5][80]);Not at all, it is recommended to use the gets function to read a row, and read it 5 times in a loop.

    In addition, the variables of the statistics should not be of char type, but should be of int type. The reason is that the char may be up to 128 and will overflow.

    Also, it is a problem that the statistical variable is not initialized to 0.

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